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  • Finding and Keeping Love

  • An Imago-Based Program for Getting the Love You Want
  • By: Harville Hendrix PhD
  • Narrated by: Harville Hendrix PhD
  • Length: 6 hrs and 38 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (130 ratings)

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Finding and Keeping Love

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Summary

In the field of relationship psychology, Harville Hendrix has transformed our understanding of what makes us fall in love - and what makes it last. His Imago Relationship therapy, co-created with his wife Helen LaKelly Hunt, is a proven healing process now used by more than 2,000 therapists worldwide. With Finding and Keeping Love, this world-renowned relationship therapist brings you the most important practices and insights from Imago therapy distilled from more than three decades of working with singles, couples, and parents. Whether you’re still looking for that special person or you’re already in a committed relationship, here is a program to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the vital ingredients for deep and lasting love. The Imago Approach: Understand Love at Its Deepest Level. What causes us to fall in love? Although you may have a conscious idea of the traits you’re attracted to, Harville Hendrix teaches that there is an even more powerful force in the subconscious mind that defines your ideal partner: the "Imago."

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worth the money buying it and time spent listenin

loved it. Got copy for my friend. will certainly use lessons learnt
Recommended to all

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This is the Bible of happy couple relationships

I listened to it in two days, after I hurt the woman of my dreams and she left me. I know how to make it work now. I hope I will get the chance.

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LOVE!!!

insightful and practical. Great listen for couples and singles alike. I could stopping listening to the book as i was so engrossed and particularly interested in partnership and how it links to unfinished childhood needs.

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Transformational

I came to this book upset and out of ideas. Me and my boyfriend love each other very much but can’t stop arguing over seemingly small things. I could feel affection wilting because our relationship isn’t a safe place anymore and I didn’t know what to do to fix it. Having listened to this book I now feel so full of hope and energy. Harville identified so many things that I have been doing wrong and can easily change. I never realized before that me and my boyfriend have difficulty asking for what we want so unmet needs and frustrations were mounting. Now I have a practical and safe way to communicate my needs to him. I feel like we can turn things around. A must have for a serious relationship.

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Easy to listen along and makes so much sense

The chapters on childhood development were fascinating to me. It’s a beautiful thing to realise that we can heal our childhood wounds in conscious partnership.

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I believe this is what I needed to do to heal

It was pleasant listening to his voice, clear and at the right speed for this kind of information. I could do the meditations. although single at the moment, I believe my next relationship experience would be different, would still do the practices in the meantime.

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Conscious relating in action

Love this audio with Harville Hendrix.
If you are interested in being in a conscious relationship this audio has a lot to offer.
It explains the underlying dynamics, why, what is happening - is happening... and how to break the spell of the power struggle that seems to be very common in relationships.
It addresses couples and singles alike.
How to bring change to a relationship and how to prepare for a new one.

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He’s the BEST

I really enjoyed this book! A complete eye opener to what true love looks like

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Really liked it

I liked the book. The author explained everything clearly and understandable.
However, it is focused on relationships. I had to work a lot thinking about my ex-boyfriend. Also, you need someone to help you with the techniques of dialogue.

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Eye opening and a great concept

i think a couple of listens are needed and at least one with your partner, but will also change how you parent or talk to a friend maybe.

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