In this episode of "Cultivate Contentment," I explore the dynamic roles that rural women play in the farming world. I share my personal experiences and reflections on the evolving identity of women on the farm, addressing the common question: are you a farm wife or a farmer? Through engaging anecdotes and thoughtful commentary, this episode delves into the challenges and triumphs of embracing both roles, offering a relatable and encouraging perspective for rural women everywhere.

I also discuss the societal expectations placed on farm women and how these have changed over the years. Highlighting the pressures of balancing farm work, family life, and household responsibilities, emphasizing that it’s okay to seek help and make changes when needed. By sharing the stories of different generations of farm wives, I underscore the importance of recognizing and valuing the contributions of all women in agriculture.

In addition, I reflect on the unique challenges faced by farm wives when dealing with industry professionals who often overlook their expertise. I share personal stories of handling dismissive attitudes and emphasizes the significance of women's roles in farm decision-making and management. Through these reflections, I encourage listeners to find their own balance and to confidently embrace their multifaceted identities without feeling constrained by societal labels.

Tune in to gain insights into the unique experiences of farm women and find encouragement in the shared journey of balancing farm life, family, and personal identity.

On today’s episode…

In this episode about embracing both roles as a farm wife and a farmer, we cover:

Navigating Stereotypes and Assumptions: I discuss my encounters with individuals who assume I lack farming knowledge and how I handle these situations.

The Value of Being a Farm Wife: Highlighting the pride and importance of the farm wife role, I share a conversation with a farm wife from a different generation emphasizing the significant contributions of farm wives to the family farm.

Balancing Multiple Identities: I explore the pressures and joys of wearing multiple hats, from being a mom and a farmwife to taking on the title of a farmer, and how rural women can find contentment in their diverse roles.

Resources & Links:

Grounded Farm Wife Journal

Connect with Jessica:

Follow me on Instagram @groundedfarmwife

Check out my website www.groundedfarmwife.com.au

Find the complete show notes here: https://www.groundedfarmwife.com.au/podcast-1/farmwife-or-farmer