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Nearly getting kicked in the face is not how most conversations begin, but when Victoria and I recount a hilarious jump scare incident, things take a playful spin. Our chat playfully careened into the realm of politics as we pondered Michael J. Fox's rumored Medal of Honor award, sparking dialogue about public figures like Hillary Clinton and Kamala Harris. With laughter as our backdrop, we tackled serious societal issues, from terror threats to the impact of video games on violence, all while reminiscing about the innocence of classics like My Little Pony and The Smurfs.

Pivoting from public musings to personal triumphs, we celebrated a profound moment as our daughter's artwork soared to 50,000 views. Her humility in the face of this viral success warmed our hearts, much like our admiration for Johnny Depp's resilient spirit and charitable deeds. Amidst this whirlwind, I shared a sweet anecdote about my wife's humble Christmas wish for silver hoops, exemplifying the simplicity and contentment we strive for. If anyone can connect us with Johnny Depp, we'd welcome the chance to discuss his inspiring journey and philanthropy.

Love and communication in marriage are no walk in the park, but we've tackled this head-on with candid discussions about navigating emotional challenges. Through personal stories, we highlighted the power of open communication and trust in resolving conflicts and maintaining a strong bond. From debating corporal punishment in schools to emphasizing the importance of quality time without digital distractions, our insights aim to guide couples through tough times. We hope to share practical advice to help partners understand each other's needs and reinforce their connection.

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This episode explores the experiences of individuals raised by narcissistic parents and the impact on self-worth and identity. The hosts discuss stories from listeners about the pain of exclusion, battling the approval of family, and the differences in treatment between siblings, while emphasizing the importance of community and self-acceptance in the healing journey.

• Examining the pain of neglect and conditional love
• Personal stories of missing out on significant moments
• The role of the golden child and feelings of isolation
• Seeking validation within oneself, rather than from toxic relationships
• The importance of community in healing and understanding
• Celebrating identity beyond the shadows of one's upbringing

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Can your sense of security be restored after witnessing a threat firsthand? Join us as we reflect on our holiday season spent amongst family and our three golden retrievers, all while navigating the alarming incidents of domestic violence and terrorist attacks that have shaken our nation. As a former police officer, I recount a personal story of stepping in during a dire domestic violence situation, underscoring the need for proactive advocacy. We also touch on a frustrating encounter with Xfinity over a promotional offer, revealing the challenges faced by those with unique needs, such as being an amputee, in a world that often lacks understanding.

Our holiday season wouldn't be complete without some customer service chaos. From a FedEx delivery debacle to a puzzling interaction with Xfinity, we recount our challenges in dealing with customer service representatives who fail to accommodate specific needs. Despite the setbacks, we find humor and determination in these experiences, advocating against discriminatory practices and pushing for better accommodations for those facing disabilities. My husband adds his comic touch and admiration for my independence, emphasizing the importance of self-advocacy and resilience in overcoming life's obstacles.

Are video games really a gateway to violence, or are we overreacting to their impact? We explore this controversial topic, comparing classic games to modern, graphic content and questioning the societal shifts they've inspired. Our conversation extends to societal censorship, examining the logic behind banning classic Christmas songs while allowing more contentious modern music. Wrapping up, we share insights from my memoir "Who Kicked First," an empowering journey through trauma and survival. With unwavering support from my husband, we invite you to explore these narratives and find strength in standing up for others within our community.

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What would you do if you could impact someone's life by simply speaking up? Join us for a heartfelt exploration of resilience and advocacy as I share my personal journey through multiple surgeries on my amputated arm, with unwavering support from my husband, Michael. We emphasize the critical importance of addressing domestic abuse, encouraging action and awareness to help those in need. Together, we reflect on the strength it takes to overcome personal challenges while appreciating the love and support of family, even in the face of adversity.

Our conversation doesn't shy away from difficult topics, like the rare and tragic school shooting involving a young female perpetrator, which prompts reflection on unexpected family dynamics. Yet, there's room for lighter moments, like sharing Christmas wishes and a nod to our daughter, Hazel Fate Curie Solomon, who has already published five books at just 18. Our family's humorous exchanges, from joking about writing careers to dieting escapades, bring warmth to the episode. Tune in to celebrate achievements and embrace the complexities of family life with us.

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TRIGGER WARNING Can a brush with authority leave lasting impressions on our perceptions? Join us as we kick off with an update on Victoria's impressive recovery from surgery, showcasing her strength and humor amidst the post-surgery hurdles. Our conversation flows into a deep dive into the influence of narcissistic family dynamics on how we view authority figures, shaped by personal interactions with law enforcement and military roles. We reflect on the importance of acknowledging individual actions and experiences rather than generalizing entire groups, emphasizing the nuanced perspectives upbringing can impart.

Unpack the systemic challenges within military and law enforcement communities, particularly around domestic violence. With a personal recount, we challenge the oversimplified narratives about why victims remain in abusive relationships and highlight the calculated planning required for a safe escape. Self-expression and healing take center stage as we share experiences of reclaiming emotional freedom, self-love, and the journey through narcissistic family trauma. Indulgence in small pleasures becomes a revolutionary act of self-care, underscoring the importance of mental and emotional well-being.

Family dynamics and the legacies we choose to build are touched upon with heartfelt anecdotes about feeling overlooked and the role of grandparents. We explore the bittersweet reality of complex familial relationships, contrasting cherished moments with more challenging interactions. Wrapping up with a playful exchange on iconic TV characters and imagining our lives on the big screen, our unique chemistry brings a light-hearted end to a deeply resonant episode. Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration of resilience, authenticity, and the pursuit of healing.

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