• SEX within the Marriage! (Ep 14)
    Sep 17 2024

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    In this episode of Couples Connect, Kevin and Tanya Locks discuss the topic of sex within marriage. They are joined by Ty and Sharon Bradshaw, who share their experiences and insights. The conversation covers the challenges of maintaining a healthy sex life, the importance of intentionality, and the need for open communication. Subscribe to the YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@CouplesConnectPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 Connect with us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/couplesconnectpodcast/ Connect with us on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1495204704008011 Connect with us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@couplesconnectwithkevtan ----------------------------------------------------------------- Tanya's ALL NATURAL HAIR CARE SYSTEM!! Tanya has been a hairstylist for 20+ years! And over the years she have researched and researched and finally created a All Natural Hair Care System for ALL hair types! Just Like You, All Natural Hair Care Website: https://www.justlikeyoullc.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justlikeyoutl Email: justlikeyoutl@gmail.com -----------------------------------------------------------------


    Got Questions for us? Email: ccwithkevandtan@gmail.com 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 01:07 The Importance of Friendship and Longevity in Relationships 01:39 Being Intentional about Sex 03:22 The Challenges of Maintaining a Healthy Sex Life 06:07 The Evolution of Sex within a Long-Term Relationship 08:52 Closing the Windows and Creating the Right Mood 11:24 Initiation and Desire in a Marriage 16:14 The Challenge of Initiating Sex 18:58 The Impact of Environment on Sexual Dynamics 21:29 Unpacking Baggage and Learning from Past Experiences 25:24 The Importance of Therapy and Education 28:32 The Need for Vulnerability and Honesty 30:51 Understanding and Meeting Each Other's Needs 34:03 The Impact of Negative Messages on Sexual Dynamics 39:23 The Importance of Learning and Teaching Each Other 41:10 Addressing Childhood Trauma and Sexual History 43:17 The Importance of Emotional Connection and Intimacy 46:11 Exploring New Experiences in the Bedroom 51:29 The Impact of Pornography on Relationships 53:58 Navigating Changing Desires and Preferences 57:33 The Role of Communication in a Healthy Sex Life 01:04:02 Challenging Assumptions and Pushing Boundaries 01:09:10 The Power of Vulnerability and Forgiveness

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    1 hr and 23 mins
  • When The Wife Makes More Money (Ep 13)
    Sep 17 2024

    In this episode, Kevin and Tanya Locks interview Mr. Myron and Lisa Coleman about the topic of finances in marriage, specifically when the woman makes more money. The Colemans share their personal journey of navigating this dynamic and how they have grown emotionally and improved their communication. They emphasize the importance of supporting each other's goals and aspirations, and the need for open conversations about money in relationships. Despite facing challenges and moments of resentment, their love and commitment to each other have helped them overcome and build a stronger marriage. Kevin and Tanya Locks share their journey of navigating the challenges that arise when the wife makes more money than the husband. They emphasize the importance of personal spiritual growth and understanding the true purpose of marriage. They also highlight the need for open communication, recognizing and addressing resentment, and finding ways to connect and have fun as a couple.

    JOIN THE COUPLES CONNECT FAMILY!! Subscribe to the YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@CouplesConnectPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 Connect with us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/couplesconnectpodcast/ Connect with us on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1495204704008011 Connect with us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@couplesconnectwithkevtan ----------------------------------------------------------------- Tanya's ALL NATURAL HAIR CARE SYSTEM!! Tanya has been a hairstylist for 20+ years! And over the years she have researched and researched and finally created a All Natural Hair Care System for ALL hair types! Just Like You, All Natural Hair Care Website: https://www.justlikeyoullc.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justlikeyoutl Email: justlikeyoutl@gmail.com ----------------------------------------------------------------- Got Questions for us? Email: ccwithkevandtan@gmail.com Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Topic Selection 04:11 The Colemans' Experience with Financial Disparities 06:29 Struggles and Resentment in the Relationship 07:56 A Shift in Perspective and Taking the Lead 11:10 Myron's Perspective and Motivation 14:33 Dealing with Friction and Striving for Unity 17:57 The Importance of Personal Growth and Communication 19:52 Planning for the Future and Retirement 23:46 Shared Experiences and Overcoming Financial Challenges 29:05 The Role of Money in Relationships and Teaching Children about Finances 32:21 Navigating Difficult Times and the Power of Unconditional Love 32:48 Commitment and Sticking Together Through Challenges 33:44 Healing and Love in the Midst of Challenges 36:05 The Importance of Transparency and Sharing Your Story 39:27 The Impact of Silence and Handling Aggression 43:46 Personal Growth and the Role of Spirituality 46:24 Finding Common Interests and Maintaining Connection 50:14 Overcoming Resentment and Building a Successful Marriage 57:28 The Importance of Date Nights and Shared Interests 01:03:21 Sharing Their Story to Help Others 01:05:48 MyronLeesa Outro (1).mp4


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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Unlocking the Secrets to a Lasting Marriage - (Ep 12)
    Sep 3 2024

    Kevin and Tanya Locks interview Brian and Lisa Flew about their married life. They discuss how they met, their journey as a couple, and the challenges they faced. They emphasize the importance of communication, respect, and commitment in their marriage. They also talk about the role of faith and God in their relationship. Kevin and Tanya Locks share their communication strategies and tools for a successful marriage. They emphasize the importance of active listening and understanding, using a candle exercise to ensure comprehension. They also discuss the need for boundaries and respect in communication, especially during disagreements. The couple highlights the significance of forgiveness and the role of vulnerability in seeking help and support from trusted friends. They stress the importance of intentionality and being open to change and growth in the marriage. Finally, they share their love for each other and their shared interests in music and essential oils.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction and Background

    03:29 Moving to Dallas and Adjusting to a New Environment

    06:31 Challenges and Culture Shock

    09:18 Raising Children and Finding Compromise

    12:14 The Secret to a Long-lasting Marriage

    15:09 The Importance of God in the Marriage

    18:17 Overcoming Obstacles and Communicating Expectations

    31:56 The Power of Active Listening and Understanding

    38:45 The Healing and Growth of Forgiveness

    41:52 The Importance of Intentionality and Vulnerability

    47:10 The Value of a Support System

    53:10 Embracing Change and Prioritizing Love, Respect, and Service

    01:02:10 BLisa Outro.mp4


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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Your Plans verses God's Plans (Ep 11)
    Aug 27 2024

    Reginald and Natalia Giles share their journey of building a successful business as a couple. They own Jive Luxury Car Service, which stands for Jesus Is For Everybody. The business provides transportation services for various occasions and clients. They attribute their success to building relationships and providing exceptional service. Reginald takes care of the operational aspects of the business, while Natalia handles administrative work, marketing, and customer relations. The business started after Reginald left his job and tried various ventures before finding success with Jive. They emphasize the importance of trusting God's plan and being open to unexpected opportunities. Kevin and Tanya Locks share their journey from humble beginnings to running their own luxury transportation service, Jive. They emphasize the importance of providing a personal and engaging experience for their clients, focusing on building relationships rather than just making money. They also discuss the challenges they faced as a couple working together and how they learned to respect each other's strengths and communicate effectively. Their vision for the future includes giving back to the community through scholarships and investments. Overall, their story is inspiring and showcases the power of faith, perseverance, and teamwork.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Excitement

    01:24 Getting to Know Reginald and Natalia Giles

    05:56 Challenges of Doing Business as a Couple

    06:31 Starting Jive Luxury Car Service

    08:04 Building Clientele and the Power of Relationships

    10:19 Trusting God's Plan and Embracing Unexpected Opportunities

    12:38 Roles in the Business and the Importance of Support

    14:49 The Importance of Exceptional Service

    16:36 Maintaining Client Relationships and Recurring Business

    18:35 Reginald's Entrepreneurial Spirit and Natalia's Support

    25:01 The Birth of Jive Luxury Car Service

    32:03 Trusting God's Plan and Persevering Through Challenges

    38:15 Providing an Experience, Not Just a Ride

    40:50 Maintaining Dignity and Supporting Each Other

    41:46 Growth and Support During Tough Times

    47:31 Respecting Strengths and Roles in the Business

    52:43 Navigating Challenges and Staying in Your Lane

    56:41 Effective Communication and Approaching Each Other

    01:09:34 Providing Personal and Engaging Communication

    01:13:19 Giving Back to the Community

    01:15:08 The Vision for the Future



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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • Find Your Tribe! (Ep 10)
    Aug 27 2024

    Kevin and Tanya Locks share their journey of almost 30 years of marriage and the importance of having a supportive tribe. They met in high school and got married young, and have been together through the ups and downs of life. They emphasize the importance of daily commitment and choosing to stay married. They discuss the need for compromise, adjustment, and constant communication as they have grown and changed over the years. They also highlight the significance of having a tribe of like-minded friends who can provide support and guidance through different stages of life. Finding the right tribe is crucial for a successful marriage. Your tribe consists of the people you choose to do life with, who support and respect you without judgment. They are there to navigate the different seasons and phases of life with you. Having a tribe of married couples who have gone through similar experiences can provide guidance and wisdom. Your tribe becomes an extension of your family, and their support can help sustain your marriage. It's important to prioritize finding and nurturing these relationships.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Background

    03:34 The Importance of Daily Commitment in Marriage

    07:34 The Power of Compromise and Adjustment

    09:51 The Significance of Having a Supportive Tribe

    13:05 The Role of Communication in a Strong Marriage

    36:12 Conclusion and Reflections

    37:57 The Importance of Finding Your Tribe in Marriage

    53:48 The Support and Guidance of a Married Tribe

    01:08:47 Navigating Different Seasons of Life with Your Tribe

    01:12:48 Your Tribe: An Extension of Your Family

    01:14:24 Prioritizing and Nurturing Your Tribe

    01:14:36 JimFee Outro.mp4


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    1 hr and 15 mins
  • By FAITH, not sight! (Ep 9)
    Aug 27 2024

    Summary


    David and Sheila Turner share their journey as a couple dealing with David's health challenges, including blindness and gastroparesis. They discuss how they have found strength and support through their faith in God and the love of their family. Despite the hardships they face, they remain positive and encourage others to trust in God and find joy in every situation. Kevin and Tanya Locks share their experiences of dealing with David's illness and how it has affected their family. They discuss the weight and burden of being the strength for each other and their children. They emphasize the importance of faith and trust in God during difficult times. They also talk about their nonprofit organization, By Faith Not Sight, which provides support and encouragement to those going through similar situations. The conversation ends on a lighter note, discussing their love for music and their desire to bring joy to others.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Welcoming the Guests

    02:18 Getting to Know David and Sheila Turner

    06:22 David's Health Challenges Begin

    10:47 The Connection Between Diabetes and Gastroparesis

    13:43 Dealing with Blindness and Other Health Issues

    21:25 Supporting Each Other Through Difficult Times

    25:46 Maintaining a Positive Attitude and Trusting God's Plan

    28:29 Sheila's Role as the Strength and Glue

    29:03 Navigating the Burden of Illness

    31:03 Putting Faith and Trust in God

    34:22 Telling Their Story: Writing a Book

    37:44 Finding Inspiration in Others

    49:06 The Viral Video and Its Impact

    53:46 Being a Light in the Community


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    58 mins
  • How to Reset Your Marriage (Ep 8)
    Aug 27 2024

    Summary


    Kevin and Tanya Locks host a conversation with James and Demi Austin Thomas, a power couple who share their story of marriage and growth. The conversation highlights the importance of evolving as individuals within a relationship and the challenges that come with it. They discuss the need for emotional safety, vulnerability, and validation in a marriage. The couple shares their experience of going on a transformative trip to Belize, which sparked a turning point in their relationship. They emphasize the importance of intentional work, communication, and self-reflection in maintaining a strong and fulfilling marriage. In this conversation, Kevin and Tanya Locks discuss the importance of communication, self-reflection, and personal growth in a marriage. They emphasize the need for couples to establish non-negotiables and deal with toxic behaviors that may have been learned from childhood. They also highlight the significance of regular heart check-ins and taking time for relationship maintenance. The couple shares their own experiences and challenges, and they stress the importance of seeking God's guidance and renewing one's heart in order to show up as a healthy version of oneself in the marriage. They also discuss their book, the 90-Day Marriage Reset Challenge, which encourages couples to take time to reset and reevaluate their relationship.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Honoring the Guests

    03:05 The Importance of Evolving in a Marriage

    12:04 Creating Emotional Safety and Validation

    26:52 Intentional Work and Communication in Marriage

    36:05 Understanding and Respecting Non-Negotiables in Marriage

    41:11 Establishing Non-Negotiables and Dealing with Toxic Behaviors

    42:36 The Importance of Heart Check-Ins and Relationship Maintenance

    44:02 Addressing Childhood Traumas and Learned Behaviors

    45:24 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth in the Marriage

    46:22 Seeking God's Guidance and Renewing the Heart

    01:06:15 The 90-Day Marriage Reset Challenge

    01:20:23 Couples Connect Outro (9).mp4



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    1 hr and 21 mins
  • Real Estate and Relationship (Ep 7)
    Aug 27 2024

    Summary


    In this episode of Couples Connect, Kevin and Tanya Locks interview David and Brenda Moreno, a couple who successfully run their own businesses in the real estate industry. David is a mortgage advisor and Brenda is an interior designer. They discuss how they started their businesses and the challenges they faced as a couple working together. They emphasize the importance of communication, understanding each other's strengths, and allowing each other to take the lead in their respective areas. They also talk about how personal issues can sometimes affect their work, but they have learned to navigate through them and grow stronger as a couple. Kevin and Tanya Locks discuss the challenges of balancing their individual businesses while also maintaining a strong marriage. They talk about the frustration of work interfering with personal responsibilities and the importance of finding a balance. They also discuss their approach to building and designing cabins for short-term rentals, as well as the concept of arbitrage in the real estate industry. The couple emphasizes the need for hard work, flexibility, and treating their businesses as a long-term investment.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Podcast

    01:16 Introducing David and Brenda Moreno

    06:55 Working Together as a Couple in Real Estate

    10:18 Starting Their First Property Together

    13:29 Overcoming Challenges and Learning from Each Other

    23:29 Resolving Conflicts and Not Letting Seasons Pass

    26:40 Personal Issues and Business Interactions

    28:02 Balancing Business and Marriage

    42:29 Overcoming Financial Barriers

    52:53 Taking Time for Each Other

    54:18 Treating Short-Term Rentals as a Business

    56:01 Couples Connect Outro (5).mp4


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    56 mins