Episodes

  • 101. What success in early dating looks like (featuring your dating wins!)

    101. What success in early dating looks like (featuring your dating wins!)
    Sep 3 2024
    Get ready to be inspired! In this special episode (yay 101 episodes!), you'll hear from 5 members of this community about how they've found success in their dating lives. Success in dating is NOT just about finding a relationship (or whatever you're looking for). We can define it however we want. I'm so excited to have made it to over 100 episodes of this podcast, thanks to YOU, and so I wanted this episode to be about your successes. Episodes mentioned in this podcast: #23. How to stay grounded #53. Ghosting - why it happens and how to deal #54. Dating expectations (guest Damona Hoffman) #59. Top 10 green flags to look out for #68. Self-worth 101 (guest Jackie Glaser) #73. How to set boundaries #78. Dating skills you need (guests Julie & Yue from Dateable) This episode is sponsored by Jenni Kayne! Get 15% off cozy fall essentials with promo code DATING15 at jennikayne.com/DATING15 Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9 Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally Get my free texting scripts for early dating: https://datingintentionally.myflodesk.com/free-guides Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    36 mins
  • 100. Finding love on the apps after having a baby at 40 (listener story)

    100. Finding love on the apps after having a baby at 40 (listener story)
    Aug 30 2024
    In this episode, you'll hear from a Dating Intentionally listener named Sara who decided to take her future into her own hands and start a family on her own before meeting her fiance on Bumble. Sara walk us through how she decided to have a child on her own at age 40, then through her experience dating (even though it was so short - she met her fiance quickly)! I love this story because it's important to hear experiences from folks who don't follow what society deems is the right path (meet someone, get married, then have kids). You can do it in whatever order you want/makes sense for your life. Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9 Get 15% off One Skin with code DATING: https://www.oneskin.co/ Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally Get my free dating FAQ guide: http://eepurl.com/ihTMYj Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    49 mins
  • 99. How to fully embrace being single (while also dating)

    99. How to fully embrace being single (while also dating)
    Aug 27 2024
    In this episode, you'll learn about the most important thing you can do while single if you want to enjoy dating and learn how to detach from the outcome: embracing your life without a partner. I talk about how to date NATO (not attached to the outcome) and the major steps you can take to lower the stakes in your dating life. I speak from experience as I share the reflection questions I used to dream up an amazing life for myself without a partner... while looking for one simultaneously. Don't skip this one if you're single and want to shift your mindset. QUESTIONS: * If I don’t like it here, where should I live? * How do I want to spend my time? What do I want my lifestyle to be? * How will I make my life meaningful without a romantic relationship? * What kind of friend and daughter do I want to be? * How will I show up for the people in my life? * How do I want to spend my money and what are my financial goals as a single person? * If I don’t meet anyone in the next few years, will I choose to have kids on my own? * If I don’t get married, what does the best version of my life look like? Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9 Get Clara for Daters: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/clara-for-daters/id1667355360 Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally Get my free dating FAQ guide: http://eepurl.com/ihTMYj Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    31 mins
  • 98. The psychology of early dating w/ Jemma Sbeg (@thatpsychologypodcast)

    98. The psychology of early dating w/ Jemma Sbeg (@thatpsychologypodcast)
    Aug 23 2024
    In this episode, you'll hear from Jemma Sbeg, the host of The Psychology Of Your 20's! We get into the psychology behind comparison and feeling behind, the paradox of choice and dating apps and navigating dating in hook up culture. Jemma shares the top two things daters need to be focused on if they want to get into a relationship, and tips for what to do when your date says they want to "go with the flow." I hope you enjoy this conversation! Connect with Jemma: https://www.instagram.com/thatpsychologypodcast/ Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9 Get Clara for Daters: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/clara-for-daters/id1667355360 Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally Get my free dating FAQ guide: http://eepurl.com/ihTMYj Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP About Jemma Sbeg: Jemma hosts The Psychology of Your 20s, which has over 27M downloads. Jemma is a psychology graduate and mental health advocate and is able to reach a diverse audience of all ages through her unique perspective, personal journey, and mental health awareness. With her finger on the pulse of youth culture, Jemma tells it like it is and is constantly working to break social constructs and stigmas. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr
  • 97. When to wait vs when to walk away in early dating

    97. When to wait vs when to walk away in early dating
    Aug 20 2024
    Let's say you meet someone you hit it off with, but they say they're not sure what they want. Or they're going through a lot and they can't focus on dating. Or they want to commit, but they're scared. Do you wait? Or do you move on? This episode breaks down when to walk and when to wait, and how to navigate conversations that come up in this sticky situation. At the end, I share wedding planning updates. Get Clara For Daters: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/clara-for-daters/id1667355360 Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9 Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally Get my free dating FAQ guide: http://eepurl.com/ihTMYj Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    29 mins
  • 96. Dating & confidence tips for plus-sized daters w/ Jasmine King (@thejasexplains)

    96. Dating & confidence tips for plus-sized daters w/ Jasmine King (@thejasexplains)
    Aug 16 2024
    I'm so excited to bring you this highly requested episode topic: dating in a bigger body! Jasmine King, a plus-sized dater and the founder of Jas Explains, provides incredible insight, tips and mindset shifts for those who want to get the most out of dating, but fear their body size holds them back. Jasmine and I dive deep into how to build confidence and face the challenges of dating in a larger body, like being fetishized while using apps. No matter your body size, this episode will make you feel empowered in your dating life. Connect with Jasmine: https://www.instagram.com/thejasexplains/ Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9 Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally Get my free dating FAQ guide: http://eepurl.com/ihTMYj Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP About Jasmine King: Jasmine King is the founder of Jas Explains; a platform designed to foster open dialogue and empowerment. It serves as a vibrant hub where individuals can explore topics such as sexual wellness, relationships, personal growth, and empowerment, all within the unique context of Malaysia. Through Jas Explains, Jasmine endeavors to break down barriers, normalize conversations, and uplift communities, ultimately striving for a more informed, inclusive, and empowered society. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    56 mins
  • 95. Infatuation vs. genuine connection (how to tell the difference)

    95. Infatuation vs. genuine connection (how to tell the difference)
    Aug 13 2024
    Is it just lust or something more? Do you really like them, or just the idea of them? In this episode, I'm breaking down the difference between infatuation and genuine connection so you know when something is real (and when it's more of a fantasy). You'll also learn how to avoid infatuation and create connections that last. At the end, I share my bachelorette party experience in NYC! Download Clara for Daters: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/clara-for-daters/id1667355360 Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9 Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally Get my free dating FAQ guide: http://eepurl.com/ihTMYj Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    30 mins
  • 94. Egg freezing 101 with Dr. Srini Reddy (@springfertility)

    94. Egg freezing 101 with Dr. Srini Reddy (@springfertility)
    Aug 9 2024
    What if you could take the pressure off yourself to start a family by a certain age? In this episode, I chat with Dr. Srini Reddy at Spring Fertility all about freezing your eggs, how it works and what to consider if you're thinking about doing it. I learned so much in this episode and love that there are so many options available when thinking about starting a family and when to do it. Use code 'DATING' for $150 off an initial consult with Spring Fertility! Download Clara for Daters: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/clara-for-daters/id1667355360 Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally Get my free dating FAQ guide: http://eepurl.com/ihTMYj Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP Learn more about Spring Fertility: Spring Fertility is a full-service fertility clinic specializing in assisted reproductive technologies, such as IVF, as well as fertility preservation. Spring was founded in 2016 to increase access to personalized fertility care, because we believe our patients should never feel like a number. Spring has locations across the San Francisco Bay Area as well as in New York City and Portland, OR. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    56 mins