In this episode of the Embracing Brokenness podcast, Steve, Colleen, and Michael explore the topic of desire and its connection to the heart. They discuss how societal messages shape our understanding of desire, often leading to misalignment with God’s intentions. The conversation highlights discerning true desires, understanding disordered love, and recognizing how our longings point to our eternal home with God. They address healing, restoration, and the shifts in desire over time, encouraging listeners to embrace their desires as reflections of their true identity and relationship with God. Download Reflection Questions and Resources from this Podcast Here: https://embracingbrokenness.org/download-discerning-the-desires-of-your-heart-exercise/

In this episode of the Embracing Brokenness podcast, hosts Steve and Michael explore the biblical concept of 'minding your own business' as they delve into 1 Thessalonians 4.

They discuss the importance of leading a quiet life amidst chaos, managing life a bit like a corporation, and the significance of stewardship and balance in various life areas.

The conversation emphasizes God's creative authority in our lives, the need to avoid distractions and comparisons, and ultimately living a life that pleases God through love and stewardship.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Journey

02:55 Minding Your Own Business: A Biblical Perspective

06:11 Leading a Quiet Life in a Chaotic World

08:50 Managing Life Like a Corporation

11:53 The Importance of Balance in Life

15:05 Stewardship and Responsibility

17:51 God's Creative Authority in Our Lives

21:09 Avoiding Distractions and Comparisons

24:05 Living a Life that Pleases God

26:58 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode of our podcast Steve and Colleen explore the themes of safety, trust, and the importance of surrounding oneself with safe people. They delve into childhood experiences that shape our understanding of safety, the significance of having trustworthy counselors, and the impact of family dynamics on our ability to trust others.

The metaphor of a 'glass ball' is introduced to illustrate the fragility of trust and the need to be cautious about whom we allow into our lives. The discussion also highlights the traits of unsafe individuals and the importance of recognizing these behaviors to foster healthier relationships.

In this conversation, Steve and Colleen delve into the complexities of spiritual abuse, the importance of identifying safe individuals in one's life, and the role of Christ in the healing journey. They discuss the attributes that define a safe person, the necessity of holding space for others, and practical steps toward personal healing and growth.

The conversation emphasizes the need for authentic relationships and the transformative power of forgiveness and understanding.

Download Safe and Unsafe People Attributes Here: https://embracingbrokenness.org/download-safe-and-unsafe-people-attributes/

Chapters

00:00 Finding Safe Spaces in Childhood

01:56 The Importance of Safe Counselors

04:10 Identifying Safe and Unsafe People

06:05 The Impact of Family Patterns on Trust

09:56 The Glass Ball Metaphor for Trust

18:06 Recognizing Unsafe Behaviors in Relationships

19:58 Defining Unsafe People and Their Traits

28:41 Understanding Power Dynamics in Spiritual Abuse

32:02 Identifying Safe vs. Unsafe People

33:30 The Role of Christ in Healing

41:55 Attributes of a Safe Person

49:51 The Importance of Holding Space

54:34 Practical Steps Towards Healing and Safety