• 10 Minute Thoughts - Real Talk: When It's Time to End a Friendship
    Jun 16 2024

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    Can you recognize when a friendship has run its course, or are you still holding on to a relationship that's draining your energy? On this episode of Go Ask Sawyer, I share my personal journey of grappling with ending friendships, reflecting on my own shortcomings and struggles to show up for others. From constant arguments to feeling emotionally exhausted and untrue to myself, I discuss the key signs that a friendship may need to end. We also delve into the tough conversations around aligning values and deciding when it's time to distance oneself from negative influences.

    Navigating the end of a friendship is never easy, and as a self-confessed "big ghoster," I open up about my desire to transition towards more direct, albeit awkward, communication. Join me as I uncover the complex dynamics involved in recognizing when a friendship is no longer beneficial. We'll explore the imbalances in effort and emotional investment, and how to address the persistent arguments that signal it's time to move on. This episode aims to provide valuable insights and encourages the courage needed to prioritize your personal well-being, offering a candid and heartfelt discussion for anyone grappling with difficult friendships.

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    9 mins
  • 10 Minute Thoughts - What Makes Good Character
    Jun 9 2024

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    Can embracing your flaws lead to genuine happiness and stronger character? Tune into this enlightening episode of Go Ask Sawyer, where we explore the profound impact of self-acceptance on personal growth. We delve into the essence of integrity, not as an absence of mistakes, but as the courage to own up to them. This episode emphasizes the critical importance of being honest with oneself, confronting hard truths, and breaking generational cycles. By accepting our darker parts, we can diminish the power others have over us and ultimately strengthen our sense of self and character.

    We also tackle the often uncomfortable realm of difficult conversations in relationships. Sharing personal experiences, we discuss the pitfalls of avoiding these necessary talks and the resulting unresolved conflicts and missed opportunities for growth. The episode highlights the need to address hurt feelings early and the influence of insecurity on our interactions. Evaluating the people in our lives, we underscore that great character doesn't demand perfection, but rather an acknowledgment of our humanity and the inevitability of mistakes. Listen to gain insights into how these principles can impact your relationships and personal development.

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    10 mins
  • 10 Minute Thoughts - Just Start
    Jun 2 2024

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    Ever found yourself paralyzed at the starting line of your own ambitions? Join me, Jamie, as we tackle the mental hurdles that keep us from chasing our dreams in today's episode, with insights from Brianna West's illuminating work. I'll open up about my own dance with procrastination and how embracing the philosophy of 'starting before you're ready' can lead to unexpected triumphs. Through my marathon training anecdotes, we'll discover the true value of committing to our goals, despite the fear of failure looming over us like a persistent shadow.

    Rise and shine with a dose of morning motivation that could be the game-changer for your passion projects. I'll reveal how a mere 10 minutes a day can build the momentum you need to achieve what once seemed unreachable. It's not just about showing up; it's about being present and forgiving ourselves for the occasional stumble. So, let's break free from the chains of perfection and instead, celebrate each step forward. And remember, the journey we embark on today could be the story we tell tomorrow.

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    10 mins
  • 10 Minute Thoughts - Food for Thought
    May 24 2024

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    Embark on a heartfelt odyssey with me, as we navigate the treacherous yet enlightening waters of nutrition and self-perception. Have you ever considered the profound messages we send ourselves with every bite we take? My exploration draws on a biblical lesson in moderation, shedding light on how the act of eating mindfully can enhance leadership and act as a cornerstone of self-care. We'll sift through the murky repercussions of indulgence, from the seductive grasp of alcohol to the deceptive allure of fast food, and how these choices can cloud our judgment and strain our relationships. It's an invitation to scrutinize the mirror our diets hold up to our self-worth, and to embrace the healing embrace of nutritious food, hydration, and sunlight as foundational pillars of self-love.

    As your companion on this journey, I open up about the tug-of-war within us all—the yearning for personal growth versus the siren's call of the comfort zone. Together, we'll dissect why we sometimes hold fast to the familiar, even when the path of improvement beckons. Self-accountability and trust in oneself emerge as the twin beacons guiding us through this introspective voyage. The episode crescendos with a challenge: to reflect deeply, and if needed, to extend an olive branch to oneself. An apology to your own being may just be the key that unlocks a realm of unstoppable progress. So, I invite you to join me, and let's step into a world where our choices nourish not only our bodies but our very souls.

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    11 mins
  • 10 Minute Thoughts - Who is speaking for you?
    May 19 2024

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    Have you ever felt like a stranger within your own voice, a spectator to the words tumbling out of your mouth? Join me, Jamie, on '10 Minute Thought' for a personal voyage into the heart of self-expression and the voices that vie for control—from the jealous fragments of ourselves to societal whispers and the echoes of our inner child. We tackle the tough questions about who's really at the helm when we speak and act, and how to claim back our authentic power.

    This episode weaves together wisdom from voices like Danae Logan, who reminds us that taking responsibility for our energy is a cornerstone of true power, and Abraham, who offers the liberating perspective that people's love or hate for us often reflects their own inner battles. Marianne Williamson and Miriam Hassan gift us with insights on interpreting human behavior through compassion and self-worth. It's an exploration of inner healing and finding a voice that resonates with love and self-acceptance, guiding us to respond to the world not as a conduit for our unmet needs, but as the fullest expression of who we truly are.

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    9 mins
  • 10 Minute Thoughts - The Power of Staying in Your Lane
    May 12 2024

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    Ever found yourself caught in the crossfire of someone else’s emotional turmoil, or struggling to shield your dreams from the dampening skepticism of others? This week on Go Ask Sawyer's 10 Minute Thoughts, I, Jamie Sawyer, unpack the liberating mantra 'Stay in Your Lane,' drawing from the powerful tenets of 'The Four Agreements.' I'll take you through a transformative voyage of self-discovery, where embracing the art of not taking things personally is not just a fleeting notion but a practical strategy for daily resilience. You'll hear a gripping excerpt that might just be the key to unlocking an untouched level of personal freedom – a mindset shift that allows you to rise above the fray of a reactive society.

    This episode is a treasure trove of anecdotal wisdom and tactical advice. I'll regale you with personal stories that underscore the potency of maintaining your inner peace despite outside interference. We'll examine the essence of staying grounded in the present and how to foster a sanctuary of trust even when faced with adversarial voices. Navigating the tension between self-preservation and external provocation has never been so critical. So, join me as we chart a course through the challenges of keeping steady in your own lane, where the rubber of your convictions meets the road of life’s ever-winding highway.

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    10 mins
  • 10 Minute Thoughts - The Tides of Jealousy
    May 5 2024

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    Ever felt the sting of jealousy, that insidious whisper that creeps into your heart when a friend succeeds or a partner shares a laugh with someone else? Join me, Jamie Sawyer, on 10 Minute Thoughts as I unravel the complexities of this emotion, sharing my own battles with jealousy and discussing its roots in fear of loss and insecurity. With references to Biblical wisdom and a deep dive into personal misalignment, I'll take you through the process of recognizing and overcoming the 'dirty air' energy that jealousy brings into our lives. This isn't just about envy; it's about understanding ourselves and the expectations that can lead us down a dark path.

    As we navigate the choppy waters of self-reflection, we'll explore how communication and authenticity play crucial roles in disarming jealousy's grip on our relationships. I'll touch on the importance of recognizing our own worth and potential, which can get lost in the shadow of envy. It's a journey of self-improvement that demands self-awareness, and I'm here to guide you through it. So let's confront these feelings together, challenging their hold on our hearts and striving for a life where peace isn't just a fleeting visitor but a lifelong companion.

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    9 mins
  • 10 Minute Thoughts - Step Into Our Light
    Apr 29 2024

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    Have you ever found yourself toning down your talents or muting your achievements to avoid overshadowing others? It's a challenge I've faced repeatedly, and it's what we explore in our latest 10 Minute Thoughts session on Go Ask Sawyer. With the wisdom of Marianne Williamson's "Our Greatest Fear" as a backdrop, I unravel the complexities of why we 'play small' and the profound effect it has on our lives and relationships. This intimate discussion is an invitation to confront the fears that hold us back from shining fully and to consider the paradoxical freedom found in expressing our true selves.

    This episode is for anyone who has ever dimmed their light for the sake of comfort—be it in personal dynamics or broader social contexts such as politics and social justice. We examine the societal pressures that nudge us towards silence and the internal battles we wage in the quest for authenticity. By sharing my personal experiences and observations, I hope to offer insights that resonate with your journey towards living boldly and without compromise. Tune in for a conversation that promises to empower and challenge you to step into the brilliance that is authentically yours.

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    10 mins