• HEAR Ep65 - LMFT Journey, Ciao for now!
    Sep 5 2024

    It's been an amazing journey with this podcast. Unfortunately I will have to take a pause on this creative project for now. The good news is...I am on the pathway to becoming a Licensed Therapist! It's my first year as a graduate student in an MFT program and balancing schoolwork, with a full time job, a part time job, and my personal life...let's be real, it's a lot. Therefore, I will sadly put a hold on this podcast for a little bit until I feel ready to devote more time and energy into it.

    These past 65 episodes have been fun to record and create. Never would I have imagined I could come this far without missing a single week and started getting over the awkwardness of shouting into a microphone alone in my room. There's a first for everything. If you've stuck with me till now, I am so so so grateful that you chose to and thank you from the bottom of my heart! Please, let's all continue to stay safe while we enjoy the anxious ride together!

    Ciao for now, and hopefully next time, I'll be back with a new intro as a "licensed therapist". :)

    What up! Welcome to HEAR, Horsea Embraces the Anxious Ride, and I am your host Horace. Experiencing anxiety? Perhaps unclear about your personal goals, or feeling lost amidst the world’s animosity. You’re not alone. Being born Asian American, from my experience with ADHD, anxiety, and feeling lost from time to time, I hope to provide you solace in this day and age, a safe space, and share optimism. I’m here to HEAR…let’s embrace the anxious ride together.


    Audio:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sunday Mood - FASSounds⁠

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    12 mins
  • HEAR Ep64 - Is Lane Splitting Fair?!
    Aug 29 2024

    You're sitting in traffic, almost ready to doze off in your car. The highway has been backed up for miles and you've been spending already 30 minutes just to go 2 miles. All of the sudden, whoosh, a motorcyclist or two casually cruise on by. "Hey, wait your turn like everyone else!" But should they have to wait? Actually, lane filtering and splitting is legal in certain places, especially where I am in Bay Area, California. In this episode, I explore the ins and outs of lane splitting and why it's actually a good thing for both motorcyclists AND car drivers.

    What up! Welcome to HEAR, Horsea Embraces the Anxious Ride, and I am your host Horace. Experiencing anxiety? Perhaps unclear about your personal goals, or feeling lost amidst the world’s animosity. You’re not alone. Being born Asian American, from my experience with ADHD, anxiety, and feeling lost from time to time, I hope to provide you solace in this day and age, a safe space, and share optimism. I’m here to HEAR…let’s embrace the anxious ride together.


    Useful Links:

    ⁠MotoJitsu YouTube⁠

    ⁠DanDanTheFireman YouTube⁠

    Lane filtering legalized in Minnesota

    CA Motorcycle Safety


    Audio:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sunday Mood - FASSounds⁠

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    16 mins
  • HEAR Ep63 - "Bad" Drivers while Motorcycling
    Aug 22 2024

    Personally, I don't want to say bad drivers. Everyone makes mistakes. However, there are definitely what we should call negligent drivers out there that know the law and rules, but decide to cheat or do unsafe maneuvers for their own personal benefit. This can be quite dangerous for motorcyclists who already have to deal with so many factors flying by their minds. How do we control our emotions amidst these situations and how can be avoid being another statistic? We explore some practical tips in this episode!

    What up! Welcome to HEAR, Horsea Embraces the Anxious Ride, and I am your host Horace. Experiencing anxiety? Perhaps unclear about your personal goals, or feeling lost amidst the world’s animosity. You’re not alone. Being born Asian American, from my experience with ADHD, anxiety, and feeling lost from time to time, I hope to provide you solace in this day and age, a safe space, and share optimism. I’m here to HEAR…let’s embrace the anxious ride together.


    Useful Links:

    MotoJitsu YouTube

    DanDanTheFireman YouTube

    BrakeFree Tech


    Audio:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sunday Mood - FASSounds⁠

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    16 mins
  • HEAR Ep62 - Motorcycling Road Rage
    Aug 15 2024

    Did you know that road rage incidents caused over 480 shootings and 777 deaths between 2014 and 2023? Speeding also accounted for over 12,000 deaths in the USA in 2022. That's actually quite a lot. How can we keep our emotions in check and deal with other road ragers? Do you find it difficult with ADHD? I'm definitely a perpetrator and I try to remind myself to keep those emotions in check. Let's dive into this topic together! We can always work to improve!

    What up! Welcome to HEAR, Horsea Embraces the Anxious Ride, and I am your host Horace. Experiencing anxiety? Perhaps unclear about your personal goals, or feeling lost amidst the world’s animosity. You’re not alone. Being born Asian American, from my experience with ADHD, anxiety, and feeling lost from time to time, I hope to provide you solace in this day and age, a safe space, and share optimism. I’m here to HEAR…let’s embrace the anxious ride together.


    Useful Links:

    Road Rage Stats


    Audio:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sunday Mood - FASSounds⁠

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    18 mins
  • HEAR Ep61 - ADHD Friendships!
    Aug 8 2024

    As Bette Midler once sang "Cuz you got to have friends!!" How do you find and maintain those friendships with your troublesome ADHD? Know that, your friendship and what you can offer is not dwindled by your ADHD at all. In this episode, I go over some strategies and reminders on how your ADHD can actually be utilized to find your supportive circle that you're seeking in life. Whether you feel lost or alone, know that I'm here to provide advice from my experiences! Let's all be friends, shall we?!

    What up! Welcome to HEAR, Horsea Embraces the Anxious Ride, and I am your host Horace. Experiencing anxiety? Perhaps unclear about your personal goals, or feeling lost amidst the world’s animosity. You’re not alone. Being born Asian American, from my experience with ADHD, anxiety, and feeling lost from time to time, I hope to provide you solace in this day and age, a safe space, and share optimism. I’m here to HEAR…let’s embrace the anxious ride together.


    Useful Links:

    ADDA Website


    Audio:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sunday Mood - FASSounds⁠

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    18 mins
  • HEAR Ep60 - Group Moto Rides with your ADHD
    Aug 1 2024

    Ever wonder how those motorcyclists barreling down the streets in massive troves stay organized? Or perhaps...cause more problems than necessary? It can go both ways. I'd much prefer the former and organization. In which case, this episode delves into the mentality behind group rides, things to avoid, and also some strategies to harness your ADHD traits to complete that group ride successfully and safely.

    What up! Welcome to HEAR, Horsea Embraces the Anxious Ride, and I am your host Horace. Experiencing anxiety? Perhaps unclear about your personal goals, or feeling lost amidst the world’s animosity. You’re not alone. Being born Asian American, from my experience with ADHD, anxiety, and feeling lost from time to time, I hope to provide you solace in this day and age, a safe space, and share optimism. I’m here to HEAR…let’s embrace the anxious ride together.


    Useful Links:

    Tour De Bay IG

    Cardo Packtalk


    Audio:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sunday Mood - FASSounds⁠


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    16 mins
  • HEAR Ep59 - Gender Bias in ADHD
    Jul 25 2024

    Did you know that most female individuals don't actually get diagnosed compared to their male counterparts? Even today, there is still some gender bias that exists in the ADHD world. As an Asian American male, I can somewhat see the privilege and it's disheartening. How did this begin and what can we do to combat this? In this episode of HEAR, we delve into some reasons for this disparity but also find out ways to educate ourselves to stop this imbalance.

    What up! Welcome to HEAR, Horsea Embraces the Anxious Ride, and I am your host Horace. Experiencing anxiety? Perhaps unclear about your personal goals, or feeling lost amidst the world’s animosity. You’re not alone. Being born Asian American, from my experience with ADHD, anxiety, and feeling lost from time to time, I hope to provide you solace in this day and age, a safe space, and share optimism. I’m here to HEAR…let’s embrace the anxious ride together.


    Audio:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sunday Mood - FASSounds⁠

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    14 mins
  • HEAR Ep58 - ADHD dislikes Perfectionism
    Jul 18 2024

    Building off the last episode of self-esteem, we got the difficult pairing of perfectionism. Where in your life do you remember having to cope with meeting other people's standards? Did you accidently set those high expectations for yourself? Perhaps unconsciously? It happens to the best of us and that's why, I'm here to discuss from strategies to help break down this phenomenon and hopefully get you to embrace your imperfections. Let's take that ride!

    What up! Welcome to HEAR, Horsea Embraces the Anxious Ride, and I am your host Horace. Experiencing anxiety? Perhaps unclear about your personal goals, or feeling lost amidst the world’s animosity. You’re not alone. Being born Asian American, from my experience with ADHD, anxiety, and feeling lost from time to time, I hope to provide you solace in this day and age, a safe space, and share optimism. I’m here to HEAR…let’s embrace the anxious ride together.


    Audio:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sunday Mood - FASSounds⁠

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    17 mins