In this episode, Zoe and her comedian/ BIPOC advocate friends – Aliocha (educator), Arya (musician) and Katrina (artist and community organizer) – take you on a hilarious and thought-provoking journey where comedy, identity, and the immigrant experience collide. From using humour as a survival tool to cracking open hard truths, they dive deep into navigating cultural expectations, battling generational trauma, and facing that nagging imposter syndrome—especially in BIPOC communities. The group redefines success beyond the typical capitalist grind, celebrating the power of community and "lowercase love" instead of the usual metrics. Packed with laughs, raw insights, and moments of self-reflection, this episode is all about finding belonging, fulfillment, and the real meaning of success.

Guests: Aliocha Perriard Abdoh, Arya Afshar, and Katrina Esguerra!

✿Keywords

comedy, identity, immigrant experience, generational trauma, imposter syndrome, success, community, love, BIPOC, cultural expectations

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✿Connect with our Guests (IG):

• Arya Afshar @aryaafsharm

• Katrina Esguerra @katrina_yvr

• Aliocha Perriard Abdoh @liochaabdoh

  
  

✿Takeaways

• Comedy serves as a tool for truth-telling and coping.

• Navigating identity involves balancing cultural expectations and personal truth.

• The immigrant experience is often marked by generational trauma.

• Imposter syndrome is influenced by external societal pressures.

• Success should be redefined beyond capitalist metrics.

• Community plays a crucial role in fostering love and connection.

• Lowercase love is often undervalued but essential for well-being.

• Self-reflection is necessary for understanding personal values.

• Cultural narratives shape our understanding of success and happiness.

• Finding belonging requires vulnerability and authenticity.

  
  

✿Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction and Background

• 02:46 The Power of Comedy

• 04:51 Navigating Dual Identities

• 07:49 Comedy as a Form of Expression

• 13:58 Challenges of Being BIPOC

• 20:12 The Role of Therapy

• 23:12 Navigating Family Dynamics

• 28:17 Navigating the Pressure to Fit In

• 29:53 Rest is Resistance

• 31:14 Redefining Success Based on Personal Values

• 36:40 The Power of Community and Lowercase Love

• 41:28 De-centering the Idea of a Perfect Partner

• 49:16 Listening to Your Body

• 50:30 The Balance Between Individualism and Community

• 52:16 Finding Joy and Peace in Authentic Relationships

• 53:06 The Challenges and Freedom of Immigrant Parents

• 54:03 Living for Oneself: Letting Go of Societal Expectations

• 54:33 Conclusion and Future Episodes