Episodes

  • Recent travels, work-life balance, dental health, and whether kids should be dating?

    Recent travels, work-life balance, dental health, and whether kids should be dating?
    Jul 10 2024
    In this episode, the hosts discuss various topics including recent travels, work-life balance, dental health, and whether kids should be dating. They share their personal experiences and preferences, emphasizing the importance of maturity and shared values in relationships. The conversation is light-hearted and humorous, providing insights into the hosts' perspectives on dating and relationships.

    The conversation covers topics such as parental double standards, dating and courting, respecting daughters, threatening boyfriends, discrimination in dating, promiscuity and dating, homelessness and motivation, challenges of finding employment, and presidential plans for the homeless.

    The conversation covers topics such as creating tent communities in Wyoming, exploring Montana and North Dakota, homelessness in cold states, the appropriate age to allow dating, sleepovers with the opposite sex, parental support and advice on dating, strict parental rules on dating, teaching responsibility in dating, parents' reaction to finding out about dating, parents' approach to dating and relationships, teenagers' maturity in dating, sneaking out and getting caught, parental control and communication, co-parenting and communication, interrupting teenagers engaging in sexual activity, parental reaction to teenagers engaging in sexual activity, small town mentality and parental involvement, parental punishment for teenagers engaging in sexual activity, scaling walls to sneak out, consequences of sneaking out, teenagers' curfew and sleep patterns, teenagers' location tracking and parental control, teenagers turning off location services, and teenagers sneaking out and returning home.
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    1 hr and 40 mins
  • Is It The Soft Girl and Soft Guy Era?

    Is It The Soft Girl and Soft Guy Era?
    Jul 7 2024
    In this conversation, the hosts discuss various topics including being sick, swallowing pills, gender roles, and the soft girl/soft guy era. They also touch on independence, cooking, and hunting. The conversation is light-hearted and filled with humor. In this conversation, the hosts discuss various topics including going off the grid, hunting and fishing, personal growth, mental health, and the dark side of fame and success. They also touch on the idea of selling out in the entertainment industry and the compromises that come with achieving wealth and power. The conversation is filled with humor and banter, making it an entertaining and thought-provoking listen.
    Keywordssickness, swallowing pills, gender roles, soft girl, soft guy, independence, cooking, hunting, off the grid, hunting, fishing, personal growth, mental health, fame, success, selling out

    Takeaways
    • The hosts discuss their experiences of being sick and not feeling well
    • They share their struggles with swallowing pills and their fear of choking
    • They talk about gender roles and the expectations placed on men and women
    • They explore the concept of the soft girl and soft guy era and how it relates to independence
    • They discuss the importance of communication and having hard conversations in relationships
    • They share their personal experiences with cooking and hunting Going off the grid and reconnecting with nature can be a rewarding experience
    • Personal growth requires self-reflection and the willingness to make changes
    • Fame and success often come with compromises and the need to sell out
    • Mental health is important and seeking therapy can be beneficial
    • Celebrity culture can be dark and filled with secrets and scandals

    Sound Bites
    • "I'm not feeling extra extra."
    • "I feel bad that I'm 33 and I still don't know how to swallow a pill."
    • "You change your perspective, you change your world."
    • "We're gonna go fish, hunt, gather fruits, berries, whatever we got to do to eat. We're gonna rough it like that."
    • "I'm probably one of the few guys up there that probably don't know what the hell going on. I just know how to kill stuff."
    • "That's like you cook this and then they started putting barbecue sauce. That was being had."
    Chapters
    00:00Sickness and Nasal Conversations
    10:05The Soft Girl and Soft Guy Era
    16:06The Importance of Communication in Relationships
    38:36Going Off the Grid
    49:04Hunting and Fishing Adventures
    54:02The Compromises of Fame and Success
    01:13:16The Dark Side of Celebrity Culture
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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • Defending Oneself and Loved Ones

    Defending Oneself and Loved Ones
    Jul 4 2024
    The conversation covers various topics, including childhood memories, food preferences, military experiences, and defining a weak man. The hosts discuss their experiences with watching TV shows from their childhood and reflect on the sacrifices made by the people behind the scenes. They also touch on topics like sensitivity, emotional vulnerability, and the importance of defending oneself and loved ones. The conversation is light-hearted and humorous, with the hosts sharing personal anecdotes and engaging in playful banter. In this conversation, the speakers discuss the power of words and the impact they can have on individuals. They explore the idea that a person's words can be just as damaging as physical harm. They also touch on the importance of managing emotions and reactions to hurtful words. The conversation shifts to the topic of blocking people and setting boundaries in relationships. They share their perspectives on budgets for getting to know someone and the expectations that come with it. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the recent bridge collapse in Baltimore and the potential impact on cargo shipments.


    Takeaways
    • Childhood memories and nostalgia can evoke mixed emotions, as we appreciate the entertainment we enjoyed while recognizing the sacrifices made by those behind the scenes.
    • Being emotionally vulnerable with a partner can be risky, but it is essential for building trust and deepening the connection.
    • Defending oneself and loved ones is a defining characteristic of a strong individual, but it is important to choose the right battles and avoid unnecessary confrontations.
    • Sensitivity and emotional intelligence are valuable traits, but they should be balanced with assertiveness and the ability to stand up for oneself.
    • Humor and playful banter can lighten the mood and create a more enjoyable conversation. Words can be just as damaging as physical harm
    • Managing emotions and reactions to hurtful words is important
    • Setting boundaries and blocking toxic people is necessary for self-care
    • Budgets for getting to know someone can help manage expectations
    • The recent bridge collapse in Baltimore has potential implications for cargo shipments

    Sound Bites
    • "Y'all did a lot to give me a lot."
    • "Long, long time ago. Long. Motherfucker, you said it like you 50s."
    • "Can I get a waterfall?"
    • "A person's words can be just as damaging as physical harm"
    • "Words are like... You can accidentally stab me, but it don't make it less painful"
    • "It takes a lot for me to block you"
    Chapters
    00:00Introduction and Childhood Memories
    08:18Reflecting on Military Experiences
    36:08Emotional Vulnerability and Betrayal
    53:38Setting Boundaries and Blocking Toxic People
    01:09:41The Bridge Collapse in Baltimore and its Impact on Cargo Shipments
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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • Cutting Pubic Hair, Mens Emotions, and Drake vs Lamar

    Cutting Pubic Hair, Mens Emotions, and Drake vs Lamar
    Jun 28 2024
    The conversation covers various topics, including language learning, cultural identity, ancestry testing, travel experiences, raising children, owning quails, and even cutting pubic hair. The main theme that emerges is the discussion around relationships and infidelity. The hosts explore the reasons why people cheat, with a focus on the perspective of men. They discuss the importance of emotional connection and men's challenges in expressing their emotions. The conversation also touches on societal expectations of masculinity and the need for vulnerability in relationships. The conversation covers various topics including masculinity, relationships, mental health, marriage, and the Drake and Kendrick Lamar beef. The hosts discuss the challenges men face in expressing their emotions and the societal expectations placed on them. They also touch on the dynamics of relationships and the importance of emotional support. The conversation then shifts to the Drake and Kendrick Lamar beef, with the hosts expressing their opinions. Overall, the conversation provides insights into societal norms and personal experiences.
    Language learning, cultural identity, ancestry testing, travel experiences, raising children, quails, cutting pubic hair, relationships, infidelity, emotional connection, masculinity, vulnerability, masculinity, relationships, mental health, marriage, Drake, Kendrick Lamar


    Takeaways
    • Men often cheat due to feeling neglected or unfulfilled in their relationships
    • The societal expectations of masculinity can make it difficult for men to express their emotions and seek emotional support
    • Communication and emotional connection are crucial in maintaining healthy relationships
    • Societal norms and cultural expectations play a role in shaping our behavior and attitudes toward relationships
    • Vulnerability is important for building trust and intimacy in relationships Men face challenges in expressing their emotions due to societal expectations
    • Emotional support is crucial in relationships
    • Marriage requires commitment and communication
    • The Drake and Kendrick Lamar beef sparked controversy and divided opinions

    Sound Bites
    • "Men cheat the moment they become anonymous"
    • "Men don't get the emotional and mental support they need in relationships"
    • "Marriage used to cater to men, but now it's more dedicated to women"
    • "Once they mess with you, you got one good chance."
    • "I had a situation where a friend, my best friend died. I broke down and the lady that I was with at the time had enough of it."
    • "Many guys are in a relationship that they don't have emotional connections with anybody or any type of rapport on that level."
    Chapters
    00:00Introduction and Language Learning
    02:24Travel Experiences and Native Heritage
    04:20Food Experiences and Eating for a Cause
    06:18Entertaining Kids and Family Dynamics
    08:11Introducing Elvis and Unique Pet Behaviors
    11:37Cutting Hair and Unconventional Services
    22:02Exploring the Reasons Behind Infidelity
    28:00Societal Expectations of Masculinity and Relationships
    30:48The Importance of Emotional Connection in Relationships
    42:45Navigating Masculinity and Emotional Expression
    46:20The Importance of Emotional Support in Relationships
    53:48Challenges and Commitment in Marriage
    01:09:07Analyzing the Drake and Kendrick Lamar Beef
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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • Mystery Thursday

    Mystery Thursday
    Apr 17 2024
    Summary In this conversation, the hosts discuss various topics related to relationships, including personal style, fashion, and the importance of trust. They also taste different drinks and try to guess the ingredients. The conversation touches on the challenges of dating and the importance of communication and understanding in relationships. The hosts also share their thoughts on the sex industry and the role of sex in relationships. Overall, the conversation explores different perspectives on relationships and highlights the importance of open and honest communication.


    Takeaways
    • Personal style and fashion can be important aspects of self-expression and identity.
    • Trust is a crucial component of any relationship and should be built through open and honest communication.
    • Tasting different drinks and trying to guess the ingredients can be a fun and engaging activity.
    • Relationships require effort and understanding from both partners to be successful.

    Chapters00:00Introduction and Setting the Stage
    01:30Thug Classic and Halloween
    03:21Tasting the Drinks
    04:41Rap and Music
    05:38Misunderstandings and Trust
    06:08Handwriting and Appearance
    07:09Black History Month
    07:33Drinks and Guessing the Ingredients
    08:07Guessing the Ingredients
    09:21Bailey's Irish Cream
    10:20Discussion on Relationships
    11:06Guessing the Ingredients
    12:34Discussion on Relationships
    13:18Guessing the Ingredients
    14:00Guessing the Ingredients
    14:30Discussion on Relationships
    15:27Guessing the Ingredients
    16:22Discussion on Relationships
    18:08Discussion on Relationships
    19:07Discussion on Relationships
    19:39Discussion on Relationships
    19:58Discussion on Relationships
    20:29Discussion on Relationships
    21:48Discussion on Relationships
    22:53Discussion on Relationships
    23:24Discussion on Relationships
    24:04Discussion on Relationships
    25:04Discussion on Relationships
    26:31Discussion on Relationships
    27:27Discussion on Relationships
    28:26Discussion on Relationships
    29:20Discussion on Relationships
    29:47Discussion on Relationships
    30:17Discussion on Relationships
    31:44Discussion on Relationships
    32:09Discussion on Relationships
    33:05Discussion on Relationships
    33:33Discussion on Relationships
    34:58Discussion on Relationships
    35:39Discussion on Relationships
    36:24Discussion on Relationships
    37:22Discussion on Relationships
    38:23Discussion on Relationships
    39:17Discussion on Relationships
    40:06Discussion on Relationships
    40:46Discussion on Relationships
    41:12Discussion on Relationships
    41:31Discussion on Relationships
    42:30Discussion on Relationships
    43:08Discussion on Relationships
    44:03Discussion on Relationships
    44:26Discussion on Relationships
    45:11Discussion on Relationships
    45:32Discussion on Relationships
    46:14Discussion on Relationships
    47:48Discussion on Relationships
    48:18Discussion on Relationships
    49:42Discussion on Relationships
    50:09Discussion on Relationships
    51:06Discussion on Relationships
    51:51Discussion on Relationships
    52:21Conclusion
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    51 mins
  • New Years Resolution / New Years Day

    New Years Resolution / New Years Day
    Mar 15 2024
    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Dating: Love or Survival / Quail Daddy Sage

    Dating: Love or Survival / Quail Daddy Sage
    Mar 6 2024
    Summary

    In this conversation, the hosts discuss whether women date for love or survival. They explore the idea that women may date and marry men for financial support and stability, while men may marry out of love. The hosts also touch on the topic of women taking care of men in relationships and the dynamics of gender roles. They share their experiences with quail farming and discuss Valentine's Day gift ideas. The conversation covers various topics related to Valentine's Day, including favorite memories, spending money, the importance of smelling good, clichés and expectations, being considerate and thoughtful, spontaneity and surprises, and the perspective of single individuals. The discussion also touches on the significance of having a passport, traveling outside the country, shooting your shot, women running the show, money and expectations in relationships, paying for meals, getting rid of bad energy, and a humorous debate about quails.

    Takeaways
    • The reasons why women date and marry men can vary, with some women seeking financial support and stability while others prioritize love.
    • Gender roles and expectations can influence the dynamics of relationships, with women often taking on more responsibilities in the household.
    • Valentine's Day gift ideas can range from traditional options like chocolate-covered strawberries to more unique and personalized gifts.
    • Quail farming can be an interesting and rewarding hobby, providing fresh eggs and meat for consumption. Valentine's Day is a time to be considerate and thoughtful towards your partner.
    • Spontaneity and surprises can make Valentine's Day memorable.
    • It's important to be mindful of clichés and expectations on Valentine's Day.
    • Being considerate and thoughtful should extend beyond Valentine's Day.
    • Money should not be the sole focus on Valentine's Day; it's the thought and effort that count.
    • Paying for meals can be a sensitive topic in relationships, and expectations should be communicated.
    • Having a passport opens up opportunities for travel and new experiences.
    • It's okay to not care about Valentine's Day and find joy in being single.
    • Getting rid of bad energy can be achieved through various methods.
    • The debate about quails sparked humor and discussion.


    Chapters
    • 00:00 Do Women Date for Love or Survival?
    • 26:07 Women Marry Men for Reproductive Purposes
    • 32:28 Women Taking Care of Men in Relationships
    • 39:31 Women Supporting Men Financially
    • 45:34 Valentine's Day Gift Ideas
    • 48:08 The Quail Farming Experience
    • 51:52 Favorite Valentine's Day Memories
    • 54:13 First Time Spending Money on Valentine's Day
    • 55:16 The Importance of Smelling Good
    • 56:20 Clichés and Expectations on Valentine's Day
    • 57:43 Being Considerate and Thoughtful
    • 58:11 Spontaneity and Surprises
    • 58:42 Valentine's Day as a Single Person
    • 59:43 Not Caring About Valentine's Day
    • 01:00:45 The Importance of Having a Passport
    • 01:01:20 Traveling Outside the Country
    • 01:02:14 The Dark-Skinned Friend
    • 01:02:39 Shooting Your Shot
    • 01:03:24 Women Running the Show
    • 01:04:17 Being Considerate in Relationships
    • 01:05:13 Money and Expectations in Relationships
    • 01:06:07 Paying for Meals and Expectations
    • 01:07:48 Different Perspectives on Paying for Meals
    • 01:09:26 Getting Rid of Bad Energy
    • 01:10:33 The Quail Debate
    • 01:17:27 Quail Enthusiasm
    • 01:20:56 Closing Remarks
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    1 hr and 21 mins
  • Is Marriage Dead?

    Is Marriage Dead?
    Mar 2 2024
    The conversation explores the topic of relationships and marriage in the US, questioning whether it is still a viable option. The hosts discuss the challenges and risks associated with marriage, including infidelity and financial problems. They also delve into the dating process and the need for clearer communication and boundaries. The influence of social media on relationships is examined, as well as the perception of others as 'niggas and hoes.' The concept of half-truths and lies is debated, with a focus on the importance of asking the right questions and understanding intentions in relationships. In this conversation, the speaker discusses the concept of betrayal and the lack of education on how to treat a man. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and building trust in relationships. The speaker also explores the difference between lies and half-truths and the equality of truth and feelings. They discuss the topic of cheating, particularly on Valentine's Day, and the definition of cheating in exclusive relationships. The speaker also addresses the role of male friends and opps, as well as the consequences of cheating. They discuss being too friendly and flirting, and the importance of compliments in relationships. Finally, they discuss how to address disrespectful behavior and the consequences of rebellion. In this conversation, the speaker discusses the importance of respecting boundaries and defending one's partner in relationships. They share personal stories and experiences to highlight the significance of communication and setting clear expectations. The speaker emphasizes the need for leadership and understanding in relationships, as well as the consequences of crossing boundaries and violating trust. They conclude by discussing the concept of cheating and the importance of maintaining boundaries in exclusive relationships.TakeawaysMarriage in the US is seen as broken and rare, with many challenges and risks involved.The dating process needs to be reevaluated, with clearer communication and boundaries.Social media can negatively impact relationships, creating unrealistic expectations and promoting superficial connections.Half-truths can be seen as lies depending on the context and the questions asked.Understanding intentions and asking the right questions is crucial in maintaining healthy relationships. Setting boundaries and building trust are crucial in relationships.There is a difference between lies and half-truths.Cheating is a betrayal of trust and can have serious consequences.Being too friendly with others can be seen as disrespectful in a relationship.Compliments should be given and received with respect and consideration for the relationship. Respecting boundaries and defending your partner is crucial in relationships.Communication and setting clear expectations are key to maintaining healthy relationships.Leadership and understanding play a significant role in navigating relationship dynamics.Crossing boundaries and violating trust can have serious consequences.Maintaining boundaries is essential in exclusive relationships to prevent cheating and maintain trust.Chapters00:00Introductions and Setting the Tone01:49 Is Marriage Dead in the US?03:48 Changing the Dating Process06:10 Transitioning from Talking to Being Exclusive07:30 Setting Boundaries in Relationships09:15 Attitude and Compatibility10:22 Thrill-Seeking and Toxic Relationships13:48 The Influence of Social Media on Relationships15:10 The Importance of Independence in Relationships16:26 The Role of Energy and Growth in Relationships19:40 Perception of Others as Niggas and Hoes21:36 The Difficulty of Finding Genuine Love24:38 The Risks and Challenges of Marriage29:01 Is Half the Truth a Lie?32:55 Manipulation and Misinformation37:06 The Importance of Asking the Right Questions40:00 The Test of Manhood in Relationships42:02 Challenging Relationship Expectations42:59 The Betrayal and Lack of Education on How to Treat a Man46:08 Setting Boundaries and Building Trust49:30 The Difference Between Lies and Half-Truths51:18 The Equality of Truth and Feelings52:40 Valentine's Day and Cheating53:50 The Definition of Cheating55:15 The Role of Male Friends and Opps56:53 Cheating and Disrespect58:20 Cheating and Betrayal in Gang Culture59:39 Cheating and Betrayal in Exclusive Relationships01:02:05 The Consequences of Cheating01:04:51 Being Too Friendly and Flirting01:07:48 The Importance of Compliments in Relationships01:14:07 The Standards of Exclusivity01:19:14 Reacting to Compliments from Others01:22:22 Addressing Disrespectful Behavior01:23:02 Rebellion and Consequences01:23:57 Approaching Another Man's Girl01:26:15 Respecting Boundaries01:27:45 Defending Your Partner01:29:02 Correcting Bad Behavior01:30:19 Leadership and Communication01:31:15 Learning Boundaries01:32:27 Crossing the Line01:33:56 Setting Boundaries01:36:13 Violating Boundaries01:37:24 Exclusive Relationships01:38:47 Cheating and Boundaries
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    1 hr and 40 mins