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Guess who’s back? Back again. An old caller reemerges from the shadows, kicking off a wild and chaotic episode of Not Well. This week, the conversation dives into everything from holiday highs and lows to existential musings and absurd tangents that only Bobby and Jim can pull off.

The holidays take center stage as the duo unpacks the weirdness of gift-giving, the stress of unwrapping presents in front of an audience, and the sheer absurdity of obligatory workplace gift exchanges. There’s also a candid exploration of body image struggles, including a post-holiday battle with weight gain and self-perception, peppered with a bit of humor and self-deprecation.

The episode doesn’t hold back as the conversation veers into a discussion about evolving porn preferences, from fantasy-driven storylines to public settings and everything in between. This naturally leads into a reflection on queer spaces like The Eagle, where they share their appreciation for the raw, unapologetic energy of these establishments and lament the loss of that authenticity in some modern spaces.

Drag culture takes a turn under the spotlight, with sharp critiques about how mainstream attention has dulled the creative edge of drag performances. There’s a longing for more boundary-pushing art and a frustration with the predictability of certain performances. Despite the critiques, there’s still respect for drag as a vital part of queer expression and culture.

New Year’s Eve antics are recounted in vivid detail, including awkward party moments, over-the-top social interactions, and a bit of introspection about the exhausting nature of large gatherings. There’s a hilarious tangent about small talk and how draining it is, especially in high-energy social settings.

The episode is rounded out by a series of unfiltered rants, including one about restaurant service during the holidays and the oddly frustrating world of twist-tie trash bags. A vision of a world without buttholes becomes a centerpiece of one of the more absurd yet surprisingly profound tangents.

Finally, the episode wraps up with a critical take on RuPaul’s Drag Race and a promise to keep challenging norms while staying true to the chaotic, queer energy that defines Not Well.

This episode is an unfiltered, hilarious, and thought-provoking ride, filled with the trademark humor and raw honesty that listeners love.

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Chaos in the Cosmos (and on Earth)

In this wild episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive headfirst into chaos, tackling their latest adventures, current events, and gay life with unfiltered humor. From Pig Week shenanigans to alien drones, the duo delivers an unpredictable mix of laughs and insights.

Florida Madness and Pig Week Revelations

The episode begins with Bobby recounting his recent Florida trip during the infamous Pig Week, where "anything goes." From slings to fisting, the duo spares no detail, mixing shock with hilarity. Bobby shares a disappointing hookup experience with a longtime crush, sparking a larger conversation about the gap between fantasy and reality. Meanwhile, Jim reflects on self-perception and the question, “Am I as hot as I think I am?”

Alien Drones and Galaxy Gas

The conversation shifts to UFOs and the mysterious alien drones reportedly emerging from the Atlantic Ocean. Bobby shares his own UFO sighting during a Spirit Airlines flight, dubbing the airline "the Aldi of the skies." Speculation runs wild, with theories ranging from drones targeting straight men to enhancing Pig Week with Galaxy Gas. The duo imagines Trump’s Space Force battling aliens at Pig Week, blending conspiracy theories with biting humor.

Luigi Mangione and Healthcare Chaos

Luigi Mangione, the hammer-wielding "healthcare vigilante," becomes a focal point as the guys hilariously weave his story into the week’s absurdities. From battling alien drones to DJing at Pig Week, Mangione is reimagined as a folk hero for a chaotic world. Bobby and Jim critique corporate greed and the healthcare system, using Mangione’s larger-than-life persona as comic relief.

Life, Moles, and Mortality

Bobby and Jim briefly discuss viral "honor walks" for organ donors, balancing somber reflections with humor. They also explore their mutual phobia of moles, spiraling into a witty debate about turn-offs, attraction, and confidence in the gay community.

Looking Ahead

The episode ends with plans for an upcoming Chicago trip, promising new adventures. From Galaxy Gas experiments to EDM parties, Bobby and Jim leave listeners excited for the chaos to come. This unpredictable episode captures the essence of Not Well—raw, funny, and delightfully absurd.

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In this jam-packed episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim take listeners on a chaotic journey of humor, personal confessions, and existential musings. They open with a candid review of a TikTok-famous gum, dive into hygiene debates, and meander through Thanksgiving drama, small-town parades, and philosophical reflections about their younger selves. From humorous rants about priests being suspiciously gay to theories about history being rewritten, the duo keeps it raw, relatable, and hilariously unfiltered. They end on a more reflective note, discussing what happens to their beloved dogs if tragedy strikes, all while navigating the challenges of painting vivid pictures of their lives.

Bulletpoint Topics

• The neuro-gum fiasco: a TikTok trend gone wrong
• Gym hygiene debates: to floss or not to floss
• Thanksgiving drama: vegetarian stuffing and MAGA-lite parades
• Priests and their "gay eyes"—Bobby's epiphany
• Bobby’s wine-drunk reflections on friendship and liberation
• Existential musings on past selves and life-changing decisions
• "Painting" mishaps: the messier side of gay sex
• Speculations about lost history and hidden conspiracies
• End-of-life questions: Who gets the dogs?
• The randomness of life: every decision leads here

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In this episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive into a chaotic mix of current events, personal anecdotes, and sharp critiques of modern life. From calling out scams in corporate sales and wellness industries to discussing the absurdity of political figures like Sarah Huckabee Sanders, the duo spares no one. They unpack the ongoing struggles of LGBTQ+ spaces in Columbus, Ohio, reflecting on how the city has changed and why it might be time for new adventures.

The discussion veers into hilariously explicit territory as Bobby recounts a “prostate milking” experience, while Jim muses on straight weekend activities being unremarkable at best. Nazis in Columbus, drone sales jobs, and wellness culture scams receive sharp, unfiltered commentary. Bobby and Jim critique the rise of far-right ideologies, touching on their impact on LGBTQ+ communities and the broader political landscape. Through it all, the pair balance humor with insight, serving up their signature blend of gay comedy and biting satire.

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Quote of the week: " I am just trying to avoid anyone here who has been inside me"

In this unfiltered unhinged instant classic episode, Bobby and Jim kick things off by embracing a doomed mission: pretending to be straight bros. Spoiler alert—it’s hilarious and painfully bad. Their half-hearted attempt to discuss “smashing pussy” quickly devolves into a crisis of identity and nostalgia, sparking deep memories of hiding who they were and re-living past traumas, but with their signature humor and sass. From there, it’s a high-speed jump into the absurd, as they share unhinged rants about Aldi’s suspiciously moldy produce, America’s unhealthy obsession with trauma porn, and their recurring political nightmare—the state of democracy and anti-trans legislation.

Between deep dives into existential dread and biting humor, the duo talks about Roman bathhouse fantasies (because, of course), reminisces over pagers and the “texting” culture of yore, and dissects Stephen Hawking’s aesthetic choices with zero chill. Bobby laments how dogs ruin spontaneous trips with their bougie pet camp needs, while Jim recounts his IV therapy adventure after a wild night out. The pair bond over fat kid moments—like stuffing their faces with stuffed crust pizza and sneakily devouring McDonald’s double cheeseburgers before anyone notices. Sprinkle in wild, late-night escapades at AWOL’s jock night, and you’ve got one spicy, laugh-out-loud ride.

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In this episode of Not Well, listeners are taken on a journey through a special segment featuring letters from the Founding Fathers, reimagined for today’s turbulent political climate. With historical reflections and modern parallels, George Washington introduces the discussion, emphasizing the enduring importance of constitutional principles in safeguarding democracy and freedom. Through words brought to life by Benjamin Franklin, Thomas Jefferson, John Adams, James Madison, and Alexander Hamilton, the Founders explore the critical issues of governance, balance of power, and the dangers of unchecked ambition.

The episode delves into how these principles apply to contemporary issues, including political divisions, the role of government, and the importance of protecting minority rights against majority tyranny. Through humor, wit, and a touch of reverence, the hosts reflect on the wisdom of the past to shed light on the challenges of the present, ultimately urging listeners to engage thoughtfully with the democratic process and safeguard liberty for all.

Concluding with a powerful message from Alexander Hamilton, the podcast leaves its audience with a call to remain vigilant, pursue balance, and trust in the enduring framework of the Constitution to guide and protect the nation through the complexities of modern governance.

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In this episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim take listeners on a wild ride of hilariously chaotic stories, cringe-worthy Lyft encounters, turning another year older, and messy nights out in New York City’s queer scene. From Jim’s struggle with an incompetent Lyft driver to Bobby’s existential thoughts on Halloween costumes, the duo keeps it real and raw. Jim reflects on hitting 37, sharing his mixed feelings on aging, while Bobby hilariously overshares his panic over eating pumpkin seeds whole. Together, they tackle everything from misfit spa visits to bizarre political tirades, serving listeners the classic mix of humor, snark, and outright silliness that defines Not Well.

The episode spirals into topics like the drama around trans identity in queer spaces, the absurdity of celebrity “coming out” moments (looking at you, Shawn Mendes), and Bobby's intense pumpkin seed confusion. With moments of introspection sprinkled throughout, the hosts navigate serious LGBTQ+ issues while delivering absurd observations with their trademark irreverence. The episode wraps up with a bold, unscripted tirade on Trump supporters, proving that Not Well remains as chaotic as ever.

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In this lively and humorous podcast episode, Bobby and Jim return with plenty of energy and discussions that range from Bobby's recent trip to Kansas City to the quirks of social life and nightlife in Columbus. Bobby, who has just recovered from being under the weather, reflects on his trip to Kansas City, praising the city's liberal atmosphere and vibrant nightlife. They dive into Kansas City's appeal, comparing it to places like Columbus, and highlight specific hotspots like "Missy B's," a multi-roomed bar with energetic vibes.

As the conversation moves forward, the duo shares their frustrations about their local bar scene and how things have changed in the once-vibrant "Short North" area of Columbus, now overtaken by straights. This leads to a broader discussion on the culture of different cities, Kansas City being noted for its openness and active nightlife compared to what they see in Columbus. They express a longing for more queer spaces, noting how the culture in their hometown has shifted.

The two hosts also discuss workplace dynamics and the awkwardness of dealing with co-workers who send mixed signals—whether about being too sensitive or quiet. This sparks a relatable rant about office culture, the challenges of maintaining a professional demeanor, and how some colleagues push the boundaries of polite behavior.

Another entertaining segment is a reflection on funny and awkward experiences from past relationships and personal milestones, particularly around the awkwardness of wisdom teeth surgery and the shared fear among many gay individuals of accidentally coming out while under anesthesia.

In the latter part of the episode, Bobby and Jim take a humorous and slightly exaggerated approach to discussing substances like poppers and "whip-its," reflecting on the appeal of various subcultures. They wrap things up with playful critiques on the increasing presence of kiosks in everyday life and how automation seems to be replacing human interaction in many service roles.

Throughout the episode, Bobby and Jim’s dynamic chemistry is on full display as they bounce from one topic to another with wit and candor, offering relatable humor, insightful social commentary, and plenty of laughs.

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