Episodes

  • Children of Coercive Control - Caitlyn
    Sep 4 2024

    Caitlyn is my first adult child guest, and she’s here to share her powerful story of growing up in a home with a coercive controller. Her brave escape from the abuser paved the way for her mom to find freedom as well. The strength and resilience of children like Caitlyn inspire hope for us all. 🔸Follow Dr. Christine on IG: www.instagram.com/dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol


    🔸Visit her website: https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com


    🔸Become a Certified Trauma-Informed Protective Parent in this intensive educational program with an option for LIVE coaching/support to guide protective parents as they navigate the stormy seas of parenting a child who has been coercively controlled.

    Sign up here: https://go.drcocchiola.com/pppwselfstudy

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    22 mins
  • Dr. C Expert in Coercive Control Interviews Amy Polacko Divorce Coach & Co-Author of the Book FRAMED
    Jul 22 2024

    Dr. Christine and Amy Polacko expose the disturbing realities within the family court system. In this episode, they discuss their new book FRAMED: Women in the Family Court Underworld which highlights the struggles of mothers facing coercive control and narcissistic abuse. Learn how abusers manipulate the system and why family court often fails to protect victims. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that aims to inspire change and support those impacted by these injustices. Don’t miss out—SUBSCRIBE to our list to be among the first to receive updates! 🔸 Visit: https://narcfreepress.com

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    28 mins
  • The Immeasurable Loss: Grieving for Our Abused Children
    Jun 5 2024

    In this episode, we talk about loss and grief and unpack the magnitude of loss that occurs via a coercive controller/narcissistic abuser and the institutions complicit in the abuser's game.

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    Follow Dr. Christine on social media:

    🔸Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠

    🔸Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola.coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠

    🔸Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠@coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠

    🔸YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠@DrCocchiola⁠⁠⁠

    🔸Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠


    🔸Book a 15-minute FREE consultation with Dr. Cocchiola: https://coercivecontrolconsultingllc.practicebetter.io/#/652da62e4e6384072a650689/bookings?s=65c7d2817d2b5f5dcd34c6ea&step=date


    Become a Certified Trauma-Informed Protective Parent in this intensive educational program with an option for LIVE coaching/support to guide protective parents as they navigate the stormy seas of parenting a child who has been coercively controlled.

    🔸Sign up here: https://go.drcocchiola.com/pppwselfstudy


    DISCLAIMER:

    The podcast must not replace medical or mental health guidance. It's recommended that individuals consult a healthcare professional for independent medical advice, counseling, or therapy regarding any medical or mental health concerns, including topics covered in the podcast.

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    14 mins
  • The Grief and Loss are Unacknowledged and Insurmountable
    Mar 13 2024

    Follow Dr. Christine on social media:



    🔸Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    🔸Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola.coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    🔸Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠@coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    🔸YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠@DrCocchiola⁠⁠⁠



    🔸Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠



    🔸Book a 15-minute FREE consultation with Dr. Cocchiola: https://coercivecontrolconsultingllc.practicebetter.io/#/652da62e4e6384072a650689/bookings?s=65c7d2817d2b5f5dcd34c6ea&step=date


    Become a Certified Trauma-Informed Protective Parent in this intensive educational program with an option for LIVE coaching/support to guide protective parents as they navigate the stormy seas of parenting a child who has been coercively controlled.

    🔸Sign up here: https://go.drcocchiola.com/pppwselfstudy


    DISCLAIMER:

    The podcast must not replace medical or mental health guidance. It's recommended that individuals consult a healthcare professional for independent medical advice, counseling, or therapy regarding any medical or mental health concerns, including topics covered in the podcast.

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    21 mins
  • The Experiences of Children of Coercive Control: My Testimony for Legislators
    Mar 5 2024

    Dr. Cocchiola highlights how coercive control in the home can significantly impact a child's developing brain and emotional wellbeing. Drawing from her experiences in child welfare and as a survivor herself, she emphasizes the importance of providing a safe space for children by preventing them from being forced into interactions with their abusers.


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    Follow Dr. Christine on social media:



    Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola.coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠@coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠@DrCocchiola⁠⁠⁠



    Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠



    Book a 15-minute FREE consultation with Dr. Cocchiola: ⁠https://calendly.com/drcocchiola/15min?month=2023-12⁠



    Become a Certified Trauma-Informed Protective Parent in this intensive educational program with an option for LIVE coaching/support to guide protective parents as they navigate the stormy seas of parenting a child who has been coercively controlled. Learn more about The Protective Parenting Program: A Coercive Control Trauma-Informed Parenting Program: https://go.drcocchiola.com/ppp24q2wselfstudy



    DISCLAIMER:

    The podcast must not replace medical or mental health guidance. It's recommended that individuals consult a healthcare professional for independent medical advice, counseling, or therapy regarding any medical or mental health concerns, including topics covered in the podcast.


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    16 mins
  • Fight, Fawn, Flight, and Freeze: Our Children Are Experiencing All of These Trauma Responses
    Feb 12 2024

    Do you see it?

    Watch for it and then the patterns will become evident.

    When the patterns are visible, then we can give them the support they need.

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    Follow Dr. Christine on social media:



    Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola.coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠@coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠@DrCocchiola⁠⁠⁠



    Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠



    Book a 15-minute FREE consultation with Dr. Cocchiola: ⁠https://calendly.com/drcocchiola/15min?month=2023-12⁠



    Become a Certified Trauma-Informed Protective Parent in this intensive educational program with an option for LIVE coaching/support to guide protective parents as they navigate the stormy seas of parenting a child who has been coercively controlled. Learn more about The Protective Parenting Program: A Coercive Control Trauma-Informed Parenting Program: https://go.drcocchiola.com/ppp24q2wselfstudy



    DISCLAIMER:

    The podcast must not replace medical or mental health guidance. It's recommended that individuals consult a healthcare professional for independent medical advice, counseling, or therapy regarding any medical or mental health concerns, including topics covered in the podcast.

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    18 mins
  • Extinguishing the Fire
    Jan 15 2024

    The Coercive Controller exerts power over everyone - including our children. His primary focus is to ensure our children feel shame and he kindles that overtly and covertly with them. We need to do whatever we can to extinguish this - shame-reducing responses are so important, yet so challenging when our children trigger our trauma.


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    Follow Dr. Christine on social media:



    Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola.coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠@coercivecontrol⁠⁠⁠



    YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠@DrCocchiola⁠⁠⁠



    Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠



    Book a 15-minute FREE consultation with Dr. Cocchiola: ⁠https://calendly.com/drcocchiola/15min?month=2023-12⁠



    Become a Certified Trauma-Informed Protective Parent in this intensive educational program with an option for LIVE coaching/support to guide protective parents as they navigate the stormy seas of parenting a child who has been coercively controlled. Learn more about The Protective Parenting Program: A Coercive Control Trauma-Informed Parenting Program: https://go.drcocchiola.com/ppp24q2wselfstudy



    DISCLAIMER:

    The podcast must not replace medical or mental health guidance. It's recommended that individuals consult a healthcare professional for independent medical advice, counseling, or therapy regarding any medical or mental health concerns, including topics covered in the podcast.


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    23 mins
  • THE 10,000-Foot View, THE LIST, & Changing The STORY
    Dec 22 2023

    What if you could look down on the relationship dynamics with the coercive controller [Narcissistic Abuser]?

    What has the coercive controller been saying about you you since DAY ONE?

    We need THE LIST so that we can counteract the abusers intentional diminishing of the protective parent and we need to begin to change THE STORY our children believe to be true.


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    • Follow Dr. Christine on social media:


    • Instagram: ⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol⁠⁠


    • Facebook: ⁠⁠@dr.cocchiola.coercivecontrol⁠⁠


    • Twitter: ⁠⁠@coercivecontrol⁠⁠


    • YouTube: ⁠⁠@DrCocchiola⁠⁠


    • Website: ⁠⁠https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com⁠⁠


    • Book a 15-minute FREE consultation with Dr. Cocchiola: https://calendly.com/drcocchiola/15min?month=2023-12


    • Become a Certified Trauma-Informed Protective Parent in this intensive educational program with an option for LIVE coaching/support to guide protective parents as they navigate the stormy seas of parenting a child who has been coercively controlled. Learn more about The Protective Parenting Program: A Coercive Control Trauma-Informed Parenting Program: https://go.drcocchiola.com/ppp24q1wselfstudy


    DISCLAIMER:

    The podcast must not replace medical or mental health guidance. It's recommended that individuals consult a healthcare professional for independent medical advice, counseling, or therapy regarding any medical or mental health concerns, including topics covered in the podcast.

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    19 mins