Ever find yourself staring at your teen, wondering why they keep making choices that seem baffling? They may look like adults, but they're not acting like one. They struggle with impulse control, long-term planning, and prioritizing wisdom over their friend’s opinion. In this episode, I’m diving into the science behind those head-scratching decisions and how you, as a parent, can stop spinning your wheels and start supporting them in the most helpful ways possible.

We’ll break down why they’re wired to be influenced by their peers, can’t see past tomorrow, are ruled by emotions, and—let’s face it—think your advice is “outdated.” Knowing what’s going on in their brains helps you guide them more effectively and allows them to learn from their own mistakes while keeping your sanity intact.

In today's epsiode you'll learn:

• The 4 driving reasons your teen is making the choices they are
• What you can do to mentor and support them without going crazy

Want more support navigating these parenting hurdles? Let’s chat. Book a free consultation with me, and together we’ll work to make your family dynamic stronger than ever.

We’ve all heard the word "objectify" in the context of sexualizing women, reducing them to something that exists to gratify others. But this same concept shows up in parenting more often than we realize. When we label our teens, we’re unconsciously treating them as objects—means to an end for our own validation, appearance, or pride. In this sister episode to #144 episode, I explore how labeling our teens strips them of their individuality, dreams, and struggles, and how this egocentric mindset creates a toxic cycle in our homes.

It’s easy to fall into this trap, expecting our teens to represent the family weel, soothe our wounds, and validate our parenting. But this comes at a great cost: the diminishing of our teens' humanity. Together, we’ll unpack why this happens, how it affects our relationships, and most importantly, how to break the cycle for more genuine and respectful connections with our teens.

Key Takeaways:

- How labeling teens objectifies them and harms their self-worth.

- Recognizing the ego-based patterns that create this dynamic.

- Steps to stop the cycle of objectification and foster a healthier parent-teen relationship.

Ready to make this shift and build a stronger connection with your teen? Book a consultation with me today, and let’s dive deeper into transforming your family dynamics.

In this episode, we dive deep into one of the most common struggles parents face—tying their self-worth to their teen's choices and behaviors. It’s easy to feel like a "good" parent when things are going smoothly, but what happens when your teen starts acting out or making decisions you don't agree with? Does that make you a failure?

Join me as we explore how to detach your self-esteem from your teen’s actions and focus on your own emotional well-being. By letting go of the need to control every outcome, you can show up as a more confident, supportive parent while allowing your teen the space to grow, learn, and make their own decisions.

• How tying your self-worth looks in real time, so that you can recognize how we all do this.
• Why tying your self-worth to your teen's behavior is harmful to both you and your child.
• Practical steps to emotionally detach from your teen's choices without losing connection.
• How to feel like a successful parent, no matter what your teen is doing.
• Ways to maintain your emotional balance, even when your teen is struggling or rebelling.

If you're ready to stop riding the emotional rollercoaster and create a more peaceful, fulfilling parenting experience, this episode is for you!

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