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Did you know that if you had some trauma in your childhood, that can influence your goals and ambitions for the rest of your life?

When I was a child growing up in Colombia, I got into a lot of fights and, regrettably, I bullied a few kids. It’s a part of my past that I deeply regret, and I wish I could go back and say “I’m sorry” to those I hurt.

Fighting was a sign of my lack of self-confidence. I wanted to appear strong in front of others. Fortunately, that phase of my life didn’t last too long, and I eventually learned to respect myself and others.

However, for those who are on the receiving end of bullying, the impact can be much deeper. Being bullied can leave emotional scars that carry into adulthood, influencing decisions and driving a strong desire to prove oneself. The pain and rejection experienced in childhood often transform into a powerful motivation to succeed, pushing individuals to overcome their past and strive for greatness.

Take Elon Musk, for example. In the video below, he shares a story about being bullied as a child. His experience, like that of many others, has likely played a role in shaping the determined and relentless entrepreneur he is today.

We all have the power to use the pain of past traumas as fuel to become a better versions of ourselves. Whether it’s childhood bullying or other challenges, our struggles can be the driving force behind our greatest successes.