In this episode, Ruth discusses the challenges she faced living with her abuser and recounts her attempts to seek help, only to be met with inadequate responses from the police. After leaving her abuser and enduring years of constant threats and harassment, she describes how her son was coerced by his father and handed over by local authorities, despite an existing court order restricting the father's access. Ruth emphasizes the systemic failures and lack of support from social workers and the police, despite her efforts to document and report abuses.

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Mike Flinn, a Level 7 qualified psychotherapist, discusses his extensive work within the family court system. Mike shares his professional journey, his involvement with relationships and family therapy, and his experiences working with adults, children, couples, and families. He discusses the emotional challenges of his work, especially when dealing with family court cases often involving domestic violence and coercive control. Mike also addresses the shortcomings in the family court system, including the misunderstandings of domestic abuse dynamics, the complexities of working with unregulated experts, and the need for more thorough training and scrutiny. Join us for an insightful conversation that sheds light on the intricacies and emotional hurdles faced by families and professionals in the family court system.

In this powerful episode, we delve into the distressing narrative of 'oneclickboedicea', who recounts her painful battle within the family court system after losing her child to a coercive controller. She uncovers institutional failures and systemic issues within the judiciary, social services, and law enforcement, highlighting the role of untrained and uninterested professionals in perpetuating abuse. 'oneclickboedicea' provides a heartfelt account of the manipulation, flawed investigations, and the emotional toll of fighting for her daughter's safety against coercive control and mental abuse. Follow 'oneclickboedicea' at https://x.com/oneclickboedice

Emma Arran, an experienced social care trainer and advocate, discusses her extensive career in social care, her dedication to supporting women and children affected by domestic violence, and the systemic failures she has witnessed. Emma highlights the ongoing crisis within social services, shedding light on how victims of domestic abuse often face additional trauma and negligence from the very systems meant to protect them. This episode underscores the urgent need for meaningful reforms in social care and family courts to better safeguard vulnerable families.

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In this powerful and emotional episode, a loving son shares his six-year ordeal as a former carer for his mother, who suffered from vascular dementia and Alzheimer's disease. He courageously details the systemic failures and lack of accountability within the safeguarding systems meant to protect vulnerable individuals.

Read more about this heartbreaking case at https://x.com/justice4mum1

Rachel Horman-Brown, a solicitor specializing in domestic abuse cases, speaks to Debbie about the ongoing challenges in the fight against domestic abuse and stalking in the UK. Together they highlight the inefficiencies and failures within current systems, including the police and CPS, and advocate for radical changes such as the implementation of technological solutions like tagging perpetrators. Both Debbie and Rachel emphasize the importance of real, actionable change over mere legislative additions and stress the need for societal shifts in attitudes towards domestic abuse.

Learn more about Rachel at https://www.rachelhorman.co.uk

Debbie sits down with Professor Michael Flood from the Queensland University of Technology to discuss his extensive experience in research, advocacy, and education, focusing on men's violence against women and broader issues of men and masculinities. The conversation delves into the similarities between Australia and the UK in terms of domestic violence prevalence and response, the role of societal and cultural attitudes, and the importance of primary prevention and education. Michael and Debbie discuss challenges within the legal and support systems and emphasize the need for grassroots advocacy and comprehensive victim support.

In this in-depth conversation, Jared Whitaker, an author and campaigner, discusses his personal experiences with domestic abuse, false allegations, and the systemic failures in supporting victims, particularly men. The discussion highlights the societal stigma around abuse, the ineffectiveness of the Domestic Abuse Bill, and the many challenges faced in the legal system, including biased judgments and the shocking lack of accountability. Jared emphasizes the need for better education, joined-up services, and evidence-based approaches.

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