Episode Description:

Are you struggling with anger and rage after a divorce? I've been there, and so has our special guest Toni Thrash, Host of the Start Your Comeback Podcast. Join us as we delve into the journey of healing and rebuilding life after divorce from a Christian perspective.

Guest Bio:

Toni Thrash understands the unique challenges women face when trying to align their faith with their transitions. With a wealth of experience, she has helped hundreds of women create clear and compelling game plans, identify strategic priorities, and build a supportive community to navigate the complexities of life transitions and realize their dreams.

A former volleyball, basketball, and tennis coach, Toni found her calling in life coaching, where she excels in building relationships and fostering trust by accepting individuals for who they are, regardless of their circumstances or success levels.

Living in Frisco, TX, Toni is a dedicated mother to Taylor (and his wife Jordan) and Cameron. She is also a proud grandmother to 14-month-old Barrett. Her podcast, Start Your Comeback, is available on all major podcast platforms.

Toni holds a BS degree in Human Development and Family Studies from Texas Tech University and is a Certified Life Coach Practitioner from the Certified Coaching Federation (CCF) since 2015. She shares her insights and advice on her blog at tonithrash.com.

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Sign up for Toni's newsletter to receive a life-giving PDF called "4 Steps to Overcoming Doubt."

Toni Thrash

t.thrash@fortitudelifecoach.com

214-277-9846

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You can email me at: Dana@redeemed-identity.com.

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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Hello everone!

In this episode of *Rise and Reclaim After Divorce*, I continue my discussion with Toni about stepping into freedom from judgement in the church. If you haven't yet, I encourage you to listen to episode 20 which is part 1 of this topic.

Episode Highlights:

- Facing Judgment in the Church as Divorced Christians:

Divorce often carries a stigma, especially in church communities. In this episode, I talk about how I processed through the feelings of disqualification and judgment from the church. We discuss the importance of understanding your identity in Christ and overcoming the negative self-talk that often accompanies judgment.

- Steps to Overcome Judgementalism and Reclaim Your Destiny:

We outline key steps to reclaim your identity and step into your calling:

- Know Who You Are in Christ:

It’s crucial to dispel the negative talk in your own head by reminding yourself of who and WHOSE you are. I share my journey of realizing my true identity in Christ after my divorce.

- Educate Yourself on What the Word Says About Divorce:

The Bible has much to say about divorce, and understanding the truth can bring healing. Recommended resources include, The Divorced Christian by Pastor Darius Good and *Divorce: God's Will?* by Stephen Gola.

- Surround Yourself with Supportive People:

We discuss the importance of having people around you who can help you rediscover your identity, pouring truth into you during challenging times.

- Seek Therapy or Life Coaching:

A therapist or life coach can help you sift through lies and find the truth, which is a key step in healing and growth.

- Walking as a Child of God:

Once you fully know who you are, you can walk confidently as a child of God, no longer defined by past mistakes or societal judgments.

- Pray the Word of God Over Yourself Daily:

Continual prayer and speaking God's promises over yourself are powerful tools to maintain spiritual strength.

- Prophetic Words and Encouragement:

Use prophetic words and scriptures, like 1 Timothy 1:18-19, to encourage yourself as you fight the good fight of faith.

- My Journey to Accepting My Calling:

We talk about how I was initially resistant to the idea of starting a podcast, but God’s calling continued to press on my heart. Through obedience and "learning to build my wings on the way down," I chose to step into my calling. Even now, I'm actively walking in obedience to God, not man.

- Healing Before Ministry:

We also touch on the importance of healing before stepping into ministry. If there are areas of disobedience or unresolved issues from your divorce, it’s crucial to seek repentance and healing before stepping into something big. Ministry should never be entered into without first ensuring that your heart is healed and prepared.

Join me and Toni in this candid conversation as we encourage those who have experienced divorce to rise up and reclaim their God-given destinies!

Blessings,

Dana

Scripture Reference:

1 Timothy 1:18-19 (NKJV)

*Fight the Good Fight*

"This charge I commit to you, son Timothy, according to the prophecies previously made concerning you, that by them you may wage the good warfare, having faith and a good conscience."

Recommended Reading:

- The Divorced Christian by Pastor Darius Good

- Divorce: God's Will? The Truth of Divorce and Remarriage in the Bible for Christians by Stephen Gola

Hello everone!

In this episode of *Rise and Reclaim After Divorce*, I share a special interview where I was featured on *Start Your Comeback*, hosted by Toni Thrash. Toni graciously allowed me to share this conversation with my listeners as we dive deep into the topic of facing judgmentalism in the church and Christian circles as divorced Christians.

Episode Highlights:

- Facing Judgment in the Church as Divorced Christians:

Divorce often carries a stigma, especially in church communities. In this episode, I talk about how I processed through the feelings of disqualification and judgment from the church. We discuss the importance of understanding your identity in Christ and overcoming the negative self-talk that often accompanies judgment.

- Steps to Overcome Judgementalism and Reclaim Your Destiny:

We outline key steps to reclaim your identity and step into your calling:

- Know Who You Are in Christ:

It’s crucial to dispel the negative talk in your own head by reminding yourself of who and WHOSE you are. I share my journey of realizing my true identity in Christ after my divorce.

- Educate Yourself on What the Word Says About Divorce:

The Bible has much to say about divorce, and understanding the truth can bring healing. Recommended resources include, The Divorced Christian by Pastor Darius Good and *Divorce: God's Will?* by Stephen Gola.

- Surround Yourself with Supportive People:

We discuss the importance of having people around you who can help you rediscover your identity, pouring truth into you during challenging times.

- Seek Therapy or Life Coaching:

A therapist or life coach can help you sift through lies and find the truth, which is a key step in healing and growth.

- Walking as a Child of God:

Once you fully know who you are, you can walk confidently as a child of God, no longer defined by past mistakes or societal judgments.

- Pray the Word of God Over Yourself Daily:

Continual prayer and speaking God's promises over yourself are powerful tools to maintain spiritual strength.

- Prophetic Words and Encouragement:

Use prophetic words and scriptures, like 1 Timothy 1:18-19, to encourage yourself as you fight the good fight of faith.

- My Journey to Accepting My Calling:

We talk about how I was initially resistant to the idea of starting a podcast, but God’s calling continued to press on my heart. Through obedience and "learning to build my wings on the way down," I chose to step into my calling. Even now, I'm actively walking in obedience to God, not man.

- Healing Before Ministry:

We also touch on the importance of healing before stepping into ministry. If there are areas of disobedience or unresolved issues from your divorce, it’s crucial to seek repentance and healing before stepping into something big. Ministry should never be entered into without first ensuring that your heart is healed and prepared.

Join me and Toni in this candid conversation as we encourage those who have experienced divorce to rise up and reclaim their God-given destinies!

Blessings,

Dana

Scripture Reference:

1 Timothy 1:18-19 (NKJV)

*Fight the Good Fight*

"This charge I commit to you, son Timothy, according to the prophecies previously made concerning you, that by them you may wage the good warfare, having faith and a good conscience."

Recommended Reading:

- The Divorced Christian by Pastor Darius Good

- Divorce: God's Will? The Truth of Divorce and Remarriage in the Bible for Christians by Stephen Gola