Kayla sheds some much needed light on what it is like going through IVF as a same-sex couple, using sibling sperm donation. Kaylas wife Ingrid carried their three kids using her egg, and Kaylas brother as their sperm donor. Kayla shares the early conversations around their IVF journey, how they made the decision to use her brother as their donor and every other aspect that comes with that decision.

Kayla presents this topics so well and is such an inspiration for anyone considering going down this path on their own IVF journey, as well as those who are unaware of the process of using a known donor.

Her story is a MUST listen!

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Being the non birthing mum in a same sex relationship is something that I never thought I would have trouble navigating, but I did, and I know I am not alone. This week we bring Georgia Hinkley back on the podcast to talk about how we have both navigated becoming a mum, as the non birthing women a same sex couple.

THIS is the episode I needed when my fiance was pregnant. I thought how the hell am I going to bond with the baby? How do I deal with comments (that I can't answer) about pregnancy and birth when out in public with my baby? How do I stop feeling like I'm not the real mum?

We are here to help you through it all.

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This week, we are unpacking how we label ourselves and chat all things gender expression. Grab a coffee, beer or beverage of your choice, sit back and enjoy the rouge, unfiltered lesbian conversation that is ahead. Rochelle has a problem that she wanted to unpack on the mic so Maddy (and you guys) are her therapists for the week. We talk about labels within the lesbian community and what gender expression means to us. Rochelle and Maddy have very different journeys with sexuality and gender expression and how they've navigated both together. This is their take on this topic, everyone has their own experiences and remember labels are only fun if they feel GOOD and RIGHT for you x

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Queers, queens and in-betweens! Maddy and Rochelle sit down to discuss in detail, their second ivf journey for baby #2. They talk on how they went about it second time around, why Maddy is carrying again, their experiences with navigating different highs and lows for the first time, using the same donor / limited donor sperm as well as Maddy going through IVF for the first time. AND they have some very exciting news!!!

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If you have ever wanted to know the inner workings of a two female relationship, todays episode is for you. We delve deep into and confirm (or deny) any and all lesbians stereotypes and myths and you might be surprised by our answers.Also in todays episode we unexpectedly let you all in on something that we had never spoken about before this episode, you will hear the rawness and honesty in our voices as we both realise how each other feel on a particular topic. In todays ep we chat about:

• Is there more understanding for each other in a two female relationship?
• Is there always a more 'butch' and 'femme' in the relationship?
• Do queer woman fancy every female they meet?
• U-Haul? What the heck is it and do lesbians do it?
• Scissoring.. yay or nay?
• What cars do Maddy and I drive? Are they lesbian cars?
• Does one of us feel more like our daughters 'real mum' than the other?
• Do us lesbians really have more satisfying sex?

AND SO MUCH MORE!! Remember these are all our opinions, our experiences and don’t represent all queer relationships x

This ep is your one stop shop on being a lesbian!... kidding, but really. This week we sit down with two of the most beautiful humans, same sex couple - Nic and Jac, as we explore life through the eyes of 4 lesbians. Want to know how often 2 girls under the same roof argue? We got ya covered. Want to know if we would sleep with a straight girl? We'll spill the tea. Want to know how lesbians have sex? Naive, but we still tell you!Today we chat about:

• Nic and Jacs coming out stories (they're quite different)
• Do you have to label yourself as a lesbian or bisexual or anything at all?
• Why does Rochelle find girls so sexy?
• How do you know if someone is queer, or just a really friendly human
• Our awkward straight girl encounters
• What do lesbians really argue about?
• Scissoring? Is it a thing?

AND SO MUCH MORE!!Follow Nic and Jac and their beautiful outback adventures through the NT on @adventure.wives and follow us at @those.twomums on instagram to stay up to day with our day to day life and behind the scenes x

Why is coming out so difficult and how to be more confident with your sexuality. As a queer person, coming out never stops. To the doctor, a new colleague, the friendly stranger at your kids swimming lessons. And while over time, it can get easier, it can also still be hard, and scary and awkward. On this weeks episode we delve into just WHY is coming out so hard? and so scary? and so awkward? We chat about:

• Pivotal awkward moment in our early coming out days
• Navigating those difficult conversations when coming out
• What factors contribute to making coming out EVEN harder?
• Why do we crave acceptance so much?
• How to be more confident with your own sexuality
• Fostering support and acceptance in our kids while they're growing up
• What do to if your loved ones don't accept you after you come out

AND SO MUCH MORE!

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We answer all of your juicy questions and help you get to know us a little bit better. This is such a fun, light hearted and easy listen. We chat about:

• How did we meet?
• Who wears the pants in the relationship? Is that even a thing with lesbians?
• How do we share and support each other as parents?
• Do we feel comfortable with PDA in public?
• Do we fight? and how often?
• Have we both been with males before? When/how?
• Do we find it "easier" being two females rather than a male/female relationship?
• Plus we discuss a DITL of our jobs as a firefighter and paramedic and do we love or hate shift work??

AND MUCH MORE!! Follow us at @those.twomums on instagram to stay up to date with our daily life and behind the scenes x