Episodes

  • #399 Meet the Man with the World’s Largest Medically Verified Natural Penis - with Matt Barr

    #399 Meet the Man with the World’s Largest Medically Verified Natural Penis - with Matt Barr
    Sep 17 2024
    What is it like being the man with the world’s largest medically verified natural penis? What are the current myths about penis size? How does fetishization fit into the mix? Is bigger really better? What are the pros and cons of having a huge cock, and what are some tools to make it more enjoyable for all parties involved? How can people learn to focus on the whole person instead of their shape or size? About our guest: Matt Barr is a London-based Cambridge-educated marketing expert with a difference - he possesses the world's largest medically verified natural penis, most recently independently certified at 36cm (14.2") long and 21.5cm (8.5") around. Matt originally gained publicity as a result of his size after appearing on the Channel 4 documentary 'My Massive Cock', where he was examined by a doctor while semi-flaccid to discuss reduction surgery. Since then, Matt has been involved in multiple medical studies and is working with the Iceland Phallological Museum to put his record-breaking member on display. Matt's upcoming book 'A Long Story: Life With The World's Largest Penis' is not only a memoir of the personal highs and lows of being overtly well-endowed, it also seeks to dispel the many myths that are spread by porn as well as analyzing the portrayal of size in society across the past 100 years. By being open about such a taboo topic, Matt hopes to break down some of the insecurities that many men have that get in the way of great sex. To learn more go to https://biggestpenisbook.com Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Listen to the Sex Ed With DB podcast here Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com To listen to more of the fantastic series Making Magic, go to makingmagicseries.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    54 mins
  • Bonus: The Top 3 Sexual Issues in Longterm Relationships and Why It's Time to Retreat

    Bonus: The Top 3 Sexual Issues in Longterm Relationships and Why It's Time to Retreat
    Sep 12 2024
    Is the newness or spark gone in your longterm relationship? Do you feel like your partner is more like a (best) friend as opposed to a lover? Maybe the communication has broken down, or perhaps it was never there to start. Or are you craving better, more connected hot sex? If so, guess what? Despite how frustrating this is, know that you are 100% normal! Also, we have plenty of episodes on how to reignite the fire (episode 381 with Dolly Josette is a great option), AND also starting November 12th, 2024 we offer a 5-night in-person luxury couple's retreat in beautiful Manual Antonio, Costa Rica! Spaces are limited so snag your spot ASAP here: https://tinyurl.com/58vwue52 Intimacy Retreat Details: Luxury all inclusive - gourmet meals prepared by private chef Beach front Daily yoga/breath work Waterfall adventure Over $250+ in Sexy Goodies including our favorite sex toys from Magic Wand Endless Fun Activities: Murder Mystery Dinner, Sexy Tarot, Erotic couples photoshoot (a past retreat favorite) Workshop examples How to Pamper (and Worship!) Your Partner From Orgasm to oh, Oh, OH! Finding Your F YES Thru Desire Mapping and Orgasmic Meditation Full Body Erotic Touch Skills - Hands, Oral and Beyond Hotter Sex with Sex Toys Intro to Sensation Play Dirty Talk Masterclass Go to shamelesssex.com and click on "retreat" to see example itinerary/what to expect We only room for 4 more couples. Come play!
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    21 mins
  • #398 Come Closer: Up Your Orgasm (and Batin') Game - with Charlene Douglas

    #398 Come Closer: Up Your Orgasm (and Batin') Game - with Charlene Douglas
    Sep 10 2024
    What are the common problems women in particular face when it comes to orgasms, and what are some of the top tips for overcoming these challenges? What if someone has never had an orgasm? Why is masturbation a pivotal place to start and how can someone develop a helpful masturbation practice? And how do sex toys - both solo and partnered - fit into all of this? About our guest: Charlene Douglas is the author of Come Closer: Everything You Ever Wanted to Ask a Sex and Relationship Therapist and is the UK's leading Sex and Intimacy Expert. She can be seen on the hugely popular Married at First Sight UK, Ch4 imparting her highly sought after knowledge and advice to the newlyweds. She is also on screen relationship advisor on the hilarious Jon and Lucy’s Odd Couples, and has appeared on The Sex Clinic, Good Morning Britain, Steph’s Packed Lunch and TOWIE. Charlene is an experienced sex therapy counselor, relationship expert and life coach. Her ambition is to help others to enjoy the very essence of who they are and to experience a deeper level of intimacy with themselves and others. Charlene runs her own private practice where she works with both individuals and couples to help them to learn, understand and develop a better, more fulfilling sexual relationship. Her work helps clients unpack what is happening in their mind and what is causing their body to respond the way it does to sex and intimacy. Charlene has a passion for educating young people which was first realized whilst working for a youth organization in 2010. She started teaching about healthy relationships and answering every possible question on sexual health thrown at her by the young people. This led her to embark on a career in counseling and coaching, with a particular focus on sex and relationships. Charlene went onto get her Psychodynamic counseling and Psychosexual qualifications and since then, she has specialized in working with women to help them connect with themselves and their partners, to understand and enjoy intimacy and to seek pleasure. She is an advocate for self-care, managing stress and anxiety, setting boundaries, communicating our needs clearly and prioritizing self. She is passionate about making sex a less taboo subject to ensure people of all ages are educated on safe, consensual, pleasurable sex and healthy relationships. Through her media work Charlene hopes to encourage open communication between partners, work colleagues, friends and family. Off screen and outside of her practice, Charlene regularly speaks as an expert at panel events, keynote speaking engagements and for corporate workshops. Her talks and discussions range from sharing her journey as a black woman running her own business, fostering healthy relationships at work and in our personal lives and running corporate sessions to support managers to foster an environment where their teams can thrive in the workplace. Charlene has featured on many notable podcasts as an expert guest including Nearly Weds, Pressed BBC Sounds Podcast, Vicky Pattison: The Secret to, The Referral with Dr Karan, Things I Wish my Mum Told me and many more. To learn more go to https://www.theintimacycoachuk.com Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Listen to the Sex Ed With DB podcast here Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off your subscription to our favorite ethical (and hot) porn with code 45SHAMELESS at https://erikalust.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    57 mins
  • #397 Uncover Your Modern Love Language - with Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE

    #397 Uncover Your Modern Love Language - with Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE
    Sep 3 2024
    In this episode we interview the revolutionary Anne Hodder-Shipp about her latest book Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages of Modern Love. We discuss why the classic book 5 Love Languages is both limiting and dismissive of many people's experiences, the diversity of love languages can how they can evolve, the 18 and growing love languages for the modern world, and how you can apply them to your life here and now. Anne is also the founder of Everyone Deserves Sex Ed (EDSE) - a sex educator certification program we highly believe in. Anne shares about the current (not so great) state of sex education in the US, why she started EDSE, what makes EDSE different from other sex education trainings, and how anyone and everyone can become a sex educator. About our guest: Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE, (she/they pronouns) is an award-winning, multi-certified sex and relationships educator with professional training in breathwork and natural dreamwork. They boast a unique understanding of age-appropriate sex education, trauma-informed healing, critical thinking, and emotional intelligence, and they bring a fun, friendly, and sex-positive facilitation style to every session, group, or event she hosts. Utilizing a non-judgmental and no-b.s. approach, Anne happily helps clients of all ages, experience levels, and lifestyles heal, learn, and grow. Anne has been working with and writing about sex and relationships in some form since 2007. In addition to her private practice and public workshops, Anne is the founder of and lead educator at Everyone Deserves Sex Ed (EDSE) and leads treatment groups for clients recovering from substance use disorder, eating disorders, compulsive sexual behavior, and other stigmatized illnesses. Anne also provides pleasure education and events through S3X Plus Productions, and is the CEO of Hodder Media Inc., the first sex-positive PR and marketing firm to specialize in sex toys and pleasure products. Most recently, Anne released Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love, a groundbreaking and much-needed expansive update to the love language concept, and its accompanying workbook, The Speaking from the Heart Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Modern Love Languages. In 2022, the reproductive justice organization Power to Decide named Anne a “Power Player,” and the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) honored Anne with the coveted Professional Standard of Excellence award. Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 45% off your subscription to our favorite ethical (and hot) porn with code 45SHAMELESS at https://erikalust.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • #396 A New Type of Erotic Touch You Should Know About - with Monica Jayne

    #396 A New Type of Erotic Touch You Should Know About - with Monica Jayne
    Aug 27 2024
    Why is touch so important to all humans? What is platonic erotic touch? How does it differ from other touch? What are the benefits of giving or receiving platonic erotic touch? How is platonic erotic touch created, and how do I find people to share it with? What if feels happen? Can I prevent catching the feels in platonic erotic touch? About our guest: Despite how young she appears (thank goodness for all the GREAT orgasms), Monica Jayne comes with 25 years experience and many certifications to support you to thrive sexually, recover from trauma, shift your identity, rebuild your nervous system, recover from religious/strict upbringing / guilt & shame, shed conditioning that represses your authentic self-expression, upgrade your mindset, elevate beyond codependency, people-pleasing, or other behaviors of giving your power away, come into reverent acceptance, pride, and celebration of your sexual and relationship orientations and gender identity, and develop the deepest self-love and -respect such that you have confidence to know what you desire, ask for it or create it, and have the capacity to allow yourself to have it ALL!!! She has traveled to 5 continents and over 45 countries to experience and research human sexuality and culture, from which she has brought together the most effective practices and approaches to develop your highest erotic potential. As a Somatic Sexologist and Educator, a guide of the Orgasmic Arc, a student of Sexological Bodywork, a member of and ally to LGBTQIA+, a former mentee of Jaiya for over 5 years and certified Coach of the Erotic Blueprints, which she’s practiced for over 10 years, and a facilitator of nervous system capacity building for pleasure, you’ll be in great hands with Monica Jayne! Monica Jayne created a full list of GOODIES just for our listeners!! Enjoy Monica Jayne’s candid education on facebook and instagram. Delight in the Fluff Daddy by LIT and more with Coupon Code: monicajayne. Make sure to join her October 2024 at the MOST incredible Erotic Blueprint Sensation Play Festival: Pleasure Island Experience. Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here and use code SHAMELESSCOUPLES by 8/31/24 to get $500 off: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • Bonus: Play Out Your Hoe Phase with Amy’s Favorite “Porn” - with Pretty Ink

    Bonus: Play Out Your Hoe Phase with Amy’s Favorite “Porn” - with Pretty Ink
    Aug 23 2024
    In this bonus episode we interview Pretty Ink, the talented content creator behind College Craze - a hot interactive video game designed for the female gaze. Learn why this is Amy's preferred "porn", as well as what goes behind creating story-driven content with lots of arousing sex scenes. About our guest: Pretty Ink is a black, female, solo developer passionate about sex, immersive gaming, and good storytelling. Her current project under Pretty Ink Games is College Craze, an adult dating and life simulation game. Her mission is to make sex-positive games for the female gaze. To learn more or try a FREE demo go to https://www.prettyinkgames.com
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    42 mins
  • #395 Rejection, Disappointment, and How to Stop People Pleasing In Sex - with Hailey Magee

    #395 Rejection, Disappointment, and How to Stop People Pleasing In Sex - with Hailey Magee
    Aug 20 2024
    This episode is inspired by Hailey Magee's new book Stop People Pleasing and Find Your Power, as well as the "People Pleaser Support Group" skit on SNL. We discuss why people pleasing in the bedroom is different than other forms of people pleasing, why someone would say yes when they mean maybe or no, the common consequences of sexual people pleasing, as well as some tools to to stop people pleasing here and now. We also discuss why working on your relationship with rejection and disappointment is key on your journey towards embracing your inner power and not getting so stuck again. About our guest: Hailey Magee is a certified life coach who helps people around the world stop people-pleasing and master the art of self-advocacy. She is the author of STOP People Pleasing and Find Your Power, released by Simon & Schuster in May 2024. Hailey's refreshingly nuanced perspectives on boundary-setting and self-advocacy have captured the attention of millions on social media, and her workshops and courses have welcomed tens of thousands of participants worldwide. Certified by Erickson Coaching International, Hailey is dedicated to offering clear, research-supported strategies for change, helping recovering people-pleasers rediscover not only their power and agency, but their pleasure, joy, and sense of wonder. She lives in Seattle, Washington. You can learn more about her workshops, courses, and private coaching at HaileyMagee.com or follow her on Instagram at @HaileyPaigeMagee Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here and use code SHAMELESSCOUPLES by 8/31/24 to get $500 off: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • #394 Butt Jam Worthy - with Dixie De La Tour

    #394 Butt Jam Worthy - with Dixie De La Tour
    Aug 13 2024
    Sexual Folklorist, podcaster and coach Dixie De La Tour joins Shameless Sex to teach us all about the magic behind erotic storytelling -just in time for Anal August! Learn about how developing your personal narrative can help you talk about difficult/intimate things (SEX!) + hear us share some of our own butt jam stories and witness the magic that is Bawdy Storytelling! Check out the Njoy plugs here and the Inflatable Plug here + get 20% off with code ANALAUGUST2024 Follow us on IG @shamelesssex here and @bawdystorytelling here to get your Butt Jams Playlist About our guest: Bawdy Storytelling (‘The Moth for Pervs” - LA Weekly) features tales of Carnal Wins & Epic Fails with No Scripts, No Nets, and No Holds Barred. These folks aren't reading from cue cards: this is honest-to-badness story time with true sexcapades and poignant, transformational tales at each and every show. Join Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour & hand-picked Rockstars as they share their own stories of Love, Lust, and making you feel funny in your bathing suit area. Hey, you may even go home with a few new tricks for your boudoir arsenal! Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour brings the Nation’s Perverrati together on the Bawdy Storytelling stage to tell their own infamously true tales of lust, love, kinky collisions, gender redefinition, sexual identity, life-changing hook-ups, educational one-night stands & everything in between. Bawdy is part storytelling show, part community event; where else can you watch your friends and neighbors get onstage to share their most intimate moments?! Play our Bang-O game to inspire your own stories, and Win Prizes for being brave and talking to strangers.Stories help you Find Your People! #BawdyGotMeLaid. To learn more go to www.BawdyStorytelling.com Also, Dixie De La Tour and the Bawdy Storytelling Podcast are going On Tour! From Chicago to Portland to Seattle and more, she'll be hosting her award-winning Live Show in your city. Dixie's even teaching her simple story system, 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling' as a Full Day Storytelling Intensive/Workshop in each city. Join her Live in these cities: Bawdy at The Den (Chicago) - Sept 6th, 2024 https://bit.ly/BawdyChicago2024 How to Be Bawdy Workshop (Chicago) Sept 8th, 2024 https://bit.ly/HTBBawdyChicagoWorkshop First Person Arts (Virtual Workshop) Sept 7th, 2024 FPA Sex Files (Philadelphia Live Event) Sept 10th, 2024 https://bit.ly/FPASexFilesDixie Bawdy Portland (Portland) October 18th, 2024 https://bit.ly/BawdyPDXOct2024 How to Be Bawdy Workshop (Portland) October 20th, 2024 https://bit.ly/HTBBawdyPortlandOR Bawdy Seattle (Seattle, WA) November 1st, 2024 https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2024 How to Be Bawdy Workshop (Seattle) November 3rd, 2024 https://bit.ly/HTBBawdySeattle More about Dixie: Listen to the Bawdy Storytelling podcast at http://bit.ly/bawdypodcast On Twitter: @Bawdy On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ On Facebook at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Subscribe to our YouTube Channel at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Dixie De La Tour (@bawdy) Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here and use code SHAMELESSCOUPLES by 8/31/24 to get $500 off: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: To listen to more of the fantastic series Making Magic, go to makingmagicseries.com Get 15% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    1 hr and 26 mins