Welcome to Episode 67 of Living Through Heart! 🌿

Have you ever found yourself picking fights over small things, feeling resentful out of nowhere, or creating distance in an otherwise happy relationship? You might be unknowingly using drama to create separation. This is something we all do at some point—myself included—and today, I’m breaking it all down for you.

In this episode, we explore:

✔️ How we use drama to self-sabotage relationships without realizing it
✔️ The subconscious beliefs & past wounds that trigger this pattern
✔️ Why our nervous system sometimes rejects happiness & stability
✔️ My own experience nearly falling into this trap (and what snapped me out of it)
✔️ Practical steps to stop creating drama & deepen connection

This conversation is raw, real, and deeply transformative. Whether you're in a romantic relationship, a friendship, or simply on a self-growth journey, this episode will give you insights into how to break free from old patterns and create space for love, trust, and connection.

Resources & Mentions:

• Episode 59: When Secure Attachment Feels Wrong
• Episode 58: Maintaining Polarity & Chemistry in Relationships
• Episode 28-32: Attachment Styles Series
• Internal Family Systems Therapy by Richard Schwartz

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Have you ever felt like your words don’t fully capture what’s in your heart? Or that your emotions are too big, too messy, too raw to be shared? In this episode of Living Through Heart, Donna Joy Usher explores what it truly means to speak from the heart—not just as a concept, but as a lived practice that can transform the way we connect with ourselves and others.

Speaking from the heart isn’t just about being honest—it’s about deep self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and allowing ourselves to be fully seen. But most of us have been conditioned to filter, suppress, or manipulate our words out of fear of judgment, rejection, or conflict. In this episode, Donna unpacks how embracing the power of emotional expression and deep listening can change the way we communicate and create more authentic relationships.

Join Donna as she dives into:
✔️ The four core emotions—joy, anger, sadness, and fear—and why all feelings stem from these primary states.
✔️ Why emotions are simply energy in motion, carrying valuable insights rather than something to be suppressed.
✔️ The societal conditioning that teaches us to filter and suppress our feelings—and how to break free from it.
✔️ How speaking from the heart is an act of courage, vulnerability, and radical responsibility.
✔️ The importance of listening from the heart—holding space without judgment or the need to fix.
✔️ What happens when we own our feelings rather than blame others for them.
✔️ How learning to honor your truth transforms relationships, heals wounds, and builds self-trust.

This episode is an invitation to step into your most honest, raw, and authentic self—to show up as you truly are, without the need to control how others perceive you.

Tune in now and learn how to free yourself from the fear of speaking your truth and instead, fully embody the power of your voice.

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💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✔️ The key difference between trying and being and why it matters
✔️ How deep-rooted beliefs shape our ability to step into our true selves
✔️ Why striving often keeps us stuck in a self-sabotaging loop
✔️ The energetic frequency of "being" and how to align with it
✔️ Practical methods to shift from effort to effortless action
✔️ How self-awareness, healing, and mindfulness contribute to this shift

🎧 Tune in now to discover how embracing "being" can unlock transformation in every area of your life!

🔗 Resources Mentioned:

• Donna Joy Usher’s Website
• Savage Boho Studio
• Joe Dispenza’s work on energetic alignment

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Welcome to Episode 64 of the Living Through Heart podcast! After a nine-month hiatus, I’m back with a deeply personal and reflective episode. This is more than just a catch-up—it's a journey through the transitions, healing, and clarity that have defined the past months. Here's what you'll hear in this episode:

• What I’ve Done: My travels to Bali, Thailand, and India, learning about Tantra, Kundalini energy, and shamanic healing.\n
• What I’ve Learned: The profound realization of being over trying, the importance of clarity, and the vibrational power of words.\n
• What I’ve Realized: How energy shapes our reality, the importance of integration, and how being present connects us to our true selves.\n
• Where I’m At Now: Shifting focus toward joy, self-love, and empowering women to embrace their lives.\n
• Looking Forward: Plans to release bi-weekly episodes and interview inspirational women to share more impactful stories.

Thank you for joining me on this journey. I hope my reflections and insights inspire you to embrace your path with curiosity, courage, and compassion.

If you’re interested in exploring more, head over to my website, DonnaJoyUsher.com, where you’ll find information about my fiction books, Savage Boho Studio, and tools to help you create a more empowered life.

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You can find out more about me and what I'm up to at my website https://donnajoyusher.com. You can check out my author site at https://donnajoyusher.com/books. If you want to check out Savage Boho Studio, my handmade crystal and copper jewellery go to https://savagebohostudio.com and use the coupon code PODCAST as my gift to you to get a 10% discount.

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I am in the amazing position to be receiving in relationship everything I have ever said I wanted, and yet, am observing my mind struggle to accept it. In this episode I share what is happening, what I observing within, and what is really going on in my unconscious and my conscious minds.

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You can find out more about me and what I'm up to at my website https://donnajoyusher.com. You can check out my author site at https://donnajoyusher.com/books. If you want to check out Savage Boho Studio, my handmade crystal and copper jewellery go to https://savagebohostudio.com and use the coupon code PODCAST as my gift to you to get a 10% discount.

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Whether you realise it or not, you experience the vast majority of your life through automated thoughtware programs that are creating your perception and reality of events that happen.

How does this work? Why does this happen? And how can we make it work for us? Listen to this podcast episode of Living Through Heart for those answers and much, much more.

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You can find out more about me and what I'm up to at my website https://donnajoyusher.com. You can check out my author site at https://donnajoyusher.com/books. If you want to check out Savage Boho Studio, my handmade crystal and copper jewellery go to https://savagebohostudio.com and use the coupon code PODCAST as my gift to you to get a 10% discount.

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So I have just arrived back from the Living Tantra Retreat with the amazing Chantelle Raven and the Embodied Awakening Academy. I have so many different concepts I want to share with you, but today I want to talk about Masculine and Feminine Energies. What they are, why it is important we have a healthy balance of both, and how to use them to create sexual chemistry and a healthy dynamic of polarity within a relationship.

You can see more about Chantelle at her website here: https://embodiedawakeningacademy.com

Or her Facebook Page here: https://www.facebook.com/embodiedeawakeningacademy

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You can find out more about me and what I'm up to at my website https://donnajoyusher.com. You can check out my author site at https://donnajoyusher.com/books. If you want to check out Savage Boho Studio, my handmade crystal and copper jewellery go to https://savagebohostudio.com and use the coupon code PODCAST as my gift to you to get a 10% discount.

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This week I continue my journey from the pain of rejection through to the joy of having been able to choose myself fully. Listen to this episode of The Living Through Heart Podcast to hear how that happened and what it means moving forward in life.

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You can find out more about me and what I'm up to at my website https://donnajoyusher.com. You can check out my author site at https://donnajoyusher.com/books. If you want to check out Savage Boho Studio, my handmade crystal and copper jewellery go to https://savagebohostudio.com and use the coupon code PODCAST as my gift to you to get a 10% discount.

You can connect with me on:

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