Episodes

  • More Prayer and Less Preach
    Apr 4 2023

    Stacy & Stacy wrap up Season 3 with Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's timely advice they discovered in her book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride. In this episode, they discuss the power of prayer, testimonies and faith.

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    29 mins
  • I Thought I Knew How to Love
    Mar 30 2023

    Stacy & Stacy discuss Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's advice in her book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride. In this episode, they reflect on how to 'live your love', give grace and love like the dickens.

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    30 mins
  • On "Teaching" Our Spouses Things
    Mar 23 2023

    Stacy & Stacy continue their discussion of Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride. In this episode they talk about "Lily's" advice not to "teach" your spouse things, how to avoid power struggles, and how to check yourself before you wreck yourself! Join us.

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    22 mins
  • Creating a Symphony of Love
    Mar 21 2023

    Stacy and Stacy continue discussing Alice von Hildebrand's book By Love Refined: Letters to a Young Bride. In this episode they discuss the importance of saying, "I love you." They give tips on keeping love alive and creating a symphony of love.

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    28 mins
  • When Other People Have Perfect Marriages
    Mar 16 2023

    Stacy & Stacy continue the discussion of Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's book, Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride. In this episode they tackle that familiar old insecurity -- when other people seem perfect, and you don't. What's at the root of this feeling and how do we deal with it in our marriages?

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    32 mins
  • Never Say "Always" to Your Spouse
    Mar 14 2023

    Stacy & Stacy continue the discussion of Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride in which "Lily" gives Julie advice. In this episode, they talk about that dangerous little word "always" (and its sister "never") and how overgeneralizations and accusations shut down communication. If your spouse says things like, "You always leave the dishes on the counter..." (etcetera), they have advice of their own about how to ask your spouse not to communicate that way for the sake of a good relationship.

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    23 mins
  • How to Fight Well in Marriage (or Anywhere)
    Mar 9 2023

    Stacy & Stacy discuss Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's advice in her book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride. In this episode, they consider "Lily's" comments about fighting in marriage, how to avoid it and how to do it well.

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    22 mins