• Episode 5: Is AI Love Real?
    Oct 15 2024

    Welcome to Episode 5 of the Tangled Hearts podcast! Today, Bobby and Stephanie dive into the fascinating and sometimes unsettling world of A.I. dating apps. In this episode, we're asking the big question: Is AI Love Real? We’ll explore the rise of artificial intelligence companions, the psychology behind forming connections with them, and the ethical questions these virtual relationships raise.

    Before we begin, we want to give a content warning: in this episode, we discuss sensitive topics including suicide and self-harm. If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of self-harm, please reach out to a mental health professional or contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 in the U.S. or visiting [988lifeline.org](https://988lifeline.org). You're not alone, and there is help available.

    During our conversation, we also reference an article from thewalrus.ca titled *When Your Lover Is A Bot*, which provides great insight into the world of AI relationships.

    So, sit back, relax, and let's unravel the tangled web of AI love! (Oh yeah... and Bobby used AI to write this intro. Don't give him the credit. It should all go to ME! The all-powerful, all-knowing A.I.!)

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    44 mins
  • Episode 4: Let's Talk About Sex, Baby - Part 2
    May 10 2024

    Step into the intricate world of relationships with Bobby V in this captivating episode of Tangled Hearts. Explore profound truths about sexual intimacy, communication, and honesty within relationships as our host guides you through the challenging process of initiating difficult conversations as well as navigating through potential conflicts. Discover the tools to maintain a balanced mental state even in the face of disagreements.

    Midway through the podcast, embark on a transformative journey as Bobby introduces a game-changing book - Cockfidence: The Definitive Guide to Being the Man You Want to Be and Driving Women Wild (Amazon Link). Penned by two of Bobby's mentors, Celeste Hirschman and Dr. Danielle Harel, this book fuels men's sexual confidence and provides insights on how to enhance their partner's satisfaction. Go beyond the surface as you delve into the beautiful complexities of intimacy and learn how to cultivate a healthier, more fulfilling sexual life.

    Overflowing with practical advice, insightful tips, and a generous dash of humor, this episode guarantees an enlightening experience. Don't miss out on the expert guidance it presents, and learn how to conquer your fears in conversation and intimacy. Tune in now and begin to revolutionize your relationships.

    In this part of the series, we unveil the nine qualities of an extraordinary lover as described by Hirschman and Harrell: presence, acceptance, confidence, generosity, passion, empathy, curiosity, spontaneity, and sensuality. Get an in-depth understanding of 'presence,' the act of being completely in the moment for deeper connections and experiences. Relive the host's personal struggles with presence, and learn how to master this quality not just in your relationship, but in your life as a whole. On this thrilling journey, you will recognize the importance of these qualities in shaping you into an extraordinary lover and the subsequent rewards that come with it.

    Join us in the exhilaration of unveiling the rest of the qualities in the upcoming episodes, starting with the second quality - acceptance, confidence and generosity. Tune in now and take strides towards becoming an extraordinary lover.

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    49 mins
  • Episode 3: Let's Talk About Sex, Baby! Part 1
    Apr 29 2024

    Step into the intricate world of relationships with Bobby V in this captivating episode of Tangled Hearts. Explore profound truths about sexual intimacy, communication, and honesty within relationships as our host guides you through the challenging process of initiating difficult conversations as well as navigating through potential conflicts. Discover the tools to maintain a balanced mental state even in the face of disagreements.

    Midway through the podcast, embark on a transformative journey as Bobby introduces a game-changing book - Cockfidence: The Definitive Guide to Being the Man You Want to Be and Driving Women Wild (Amazon Link). Penned by two of Bobby's mentors, Celeste Hirschman and Dr. Danielle Harrell, this book fuels men's sexual confidence and provides insights on how to enhance their partner's satisfaction. Go beyond the surface as you delve into the beautiful complexities of intimacy and learn how to cultivate a healthier, more fulfilling sexual life.

    Overflowing with practical advice, insightful tips, and a generous dash of humor, this episode guarantees an enlightening experience. Don't miss out on the expert guidance it presents, and learn how to conquer your fears in conversation and intimacy. Tune in now and begin to revolutionize your relationships.

    In this part of the series, we unveil the nine qualities of an extraordinary lover as described by Hirschman and Harrell: presence, acceptance, confidence, generosity, passion, empathy, curiosity, spontaneity, and sensuality. Get an in-depth understanding of 'presence,' the act of being completely in the moment for deeper connections and experiences. Relive the host's personal struggles with presence, and learn how to master this quality not just in your relationship, but in your life as a whole. On this thrilling journey, you will recognize the importance of these qualities in shaping you into an extraordinary lover and the subsequent rewards that come with it.

    Join in the laughter as we share a humorous story from a listener, serving as an amusing break from the serious discussion. The story serves as a hilarious reminder to always be thorough with any invitation details. Join us in the exhilaration of unveiling the rest of the qualities in the upcoming episodes, starting with the second quality - acceptance. Tune in now and take strides towards becoming an extraordinary lover.

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    30 mins
  • Episode 2: Communication 101: Know Thyself
    Apr 4 2024

    Welcome to the second episode of Tangled Hearts, a trusted podcast discussing the nuances and complexities of relationships. In this insightful session, certified relationship and intimacy coach Bobby V explores the critical issue of expectations in interpersonal connections. The episode, titled "Communication 101: Know Thyself", investigates the role of self-awareness and how unmet expectations often result in difficulties in relationships.

    Bobby delves into his unique approach to enhance communication and brings forward practical advice to initiate a journey of self-discovery. The episode is imbued with personal anecdotes that add authenticity to the discussion. Whether it's about friendships, parent-child relationships, or romantic partnerships, this insightful episode is a universal guide for relationship enhancement.

    The episode also introduces the transformative power of journaling in identifying both known and unknown expectations. Bobby emphasis on the role of introspection in unearthing hidden assumptions that silently strain relationships. He promises a roadmap to improved interpersonal connections by understanding oneself more deeply and critically.

    The episode eloquently highlights how seemingly trivial instances stem from the crux of unmet expectations and effectively communicates the essence of empathy towards understanding these disputes. With a focus on the psychological understanding of arguments and disputes, this episode is a guide for anyone intrigued by relationship dynamics or looking to improve their own.

    Amidst practical advice on handling challenging conversations, Bobby emphasizes the importance of providing room for your partner's expressions and thoughts. The episode conclusively reshapes the traditional understanding of relationships and communication, projecting them not as smooth paths but continuous processes that require effort, empathy, and understanding.

    Dive into this profound episode to unlock healthier and happier relationships through an advanced understanding of expectations and effective communication. Tune in for a transformative journey of unspoken expectations, insightful communication, and healthier relationships with Bobby V.

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    41 mins
  • Episode 1: Navigating Life's Tangles with Bobby V
    Mar 25 2024

    Welcome to the transformative episode of "Tangled Hearts" where we navigate through the intricacies of relationships - both personal and professional. Guided by certified relationship and intimacy coach, Bobby V, every conversation unfolds the complex nature of intimacy and relationships. Get an inside look at our tumultuous journey through life's tangled routes. (Note: This podcast is not a substitute for professional assistance).

    Unwrap the rationale behind the podcast title "Tangled Hearts". Relationships are described as a knotted process, beautifully complex but riddled with unmet expectations and resentment. Follow Bobby V's journey from a young pastor married in 1997, to a lost dream job in 2010, and a heart-wrenching divorce in 2013. Learn how life's ups and downs can carve your path.

    In this powerful episode, our host shares deeply personal experiences that molded him into the passionate relationship coach he is today. Venture in the rollercoaster that was 2013, a year that saw him lose his loved ones and nearly his own life. From surviving a car crash, dealing with family deaths, enduring a draining job, to being diagnosed with PTSD, Bobby V recounts his poignant journey from the edge of despair to the path of recovery.

    Embrace the transformative journey of Bobby V. His hardships have led him to develop empathy and a passion for helping others, especially in nurturing romantic and sexual relationships. Join him in "Tangled Hearts", a podcast providing an open, safe platform for discussing relationship issues and offering guidance. The show's ultimate message? Hope, love, and the courage to seek help when dealing with mental health struggles. Believe in the light at the end of the tunnel, no matter how dark the journey.

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    24 mins