Do you ever have those moments when you catch a glimpse of yourself and think, 'Ugh, why do I look like this?' Or worse, when you spiral into comparison mode, scrolling through perfect social media photos and wondering if you’ll ever measure up. Well, spoiler alert: you don’t need to measure up to anyone, because your worth is already infinite.

In this episode, we’re diving deep into why we sometimes feel this way, how societal standards and overthinking play into it, and most importantly, how to stop letting these feelings control you. Whether it’s by shifting your focus, building daily habits that affirm your value, or embracing the beautiful quirks that make you, you, we’ve got practical strategies to help you move past the insecurities.

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're coaching on:

• How to quiet the self-critical voice when it's being super loud
• A new appraoch to thinking about your beauty
• Affirmations to see yourself with kinder eyes and more self-kindness

Get the transcript and full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/631

PLAN YOUR DREAM YEAR EVENT:

It's all happening in my live virtual event on Wednesday, December 18th, 7:30-9:30PM EST.

Find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/2025

📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK [THE NEW COURSE!]
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring

🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COACH METHOD, 75% Off! Limited Time! www.trishblackwell.com/fullybooked

🧠 THE NARRATIVE INTELLIGENCE BUNDLE www.trishblackwell.com/nq

🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now!
www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox

💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27
www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox

📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method

✅‌ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE:

Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com

🆓 FREE TRAINING: "HOW TO FEEL GOOD ENOUGH"
Grab instant, free access at www.trishblackwell.com/goodenough

❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant

📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle

🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate

✅ STAY CONNECTED.

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⚡️POWER PHRASE PYRAMID⚡️

⚫️Beginner Thought:

No one is picking me apart: I release my self-judgement and I choose kindness.

⚫️Medium Thought:

I look better than I think I do.

⚫️Top Thought:

I am kind to myself and kind language is my internal standard.

Have you ever felt like your confidence just disappeared? Like you used to feel sure of yourself, but now, self-doubt seems louder than your self-belief? Maybe you’re wondering:

• Why do I feel so uncertain when I used to be fearless?
• Is confidence something that can vanish forever?
• And most importantly—if I’ve lost it, how do I get it back?

If you’ve ever found yourself second-guessing your abilities, overthinking every decision, or struggling to find the courage you once had, you are not alone. Today, we’re uncovering the truth about why confidence can feel lost and giving you the exact tools to rebuild it—step by step.

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're coaching on:

• What to do about that lost / misplaced confidence
• The habits to prioritize (and which ones you MUST stop doing) to keep your confidence high
• How to keep your habits consistent so that your confidence is consistent

Get the transcript and full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/630

PLAN YOUR DREAM YEAR EVENT:

It's all happening in my live virtual event on Wednesday, December 18th, 7:30-9:30PM EST.

Find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/2025

📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK [THE NEW COURSE!]
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring

🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COACH METHOD, 75% Off! Limited Time! www.trishblackwell.com/fullybooked

🧠 THE NARRATIVE INTELLIGENCE BUNDLE www.trishblackwell.com/nq

🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now!
www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox

💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27
www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox

📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method

✅‌ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE:

Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com

🆓 FREE TRAINING: "HOW TO FEEL GOOD ENOUGH"
Grab instant, free access at www.trishblackwell.com/goodenough

❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant

📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle

🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate

✅ STAY CONNECTED.

👉‌Website: https://www.trishblackwell.com/

👉Instagram: http://instagram.com/trish_blackwell‌

👉Facebook: www.facebook.com/TrishBlackwellCoaching

⚡️POWER PHRASE PYRAMID⚡️

⚫️Beginner Thought: I'm building my confidence and it's growing more every day.

⚫️Medium Thought: I am well-able to do anything that I set my mind to, and I will continue to proactively choose this belief.

⚫️Top Thought: I am confident and I choose confidence daily.

Have you ever felt crushed by someone else’s words? Maybe it was a bully from your past, a toxic co-worker, or even just someone who was having a bad day and decided to take it out on you. It’s tough, isn’t it? Those moments can leave us feeling small, second-guessing ourselves, or even spiraling into worst-case scenarios.

In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the messy world of bullies, mean people, and catastrophizing. We’re going to break it all down—how to handle the hurt, why some people act the way they do, and most importantly, how to stop letting their words and actions take up so much space in your head.

But that’s not all—we’re also going to tackle that sneaky little habit so many of us fall into: catastrophizing. You know, that thing where you convince yourself that one awkward conversation or one bad day means your whole life is falling apart. Sound familiar? You’re not alone.

By the end of this episode, you’re going to walk away feeling lighter, more in control, and armed with the tools to rise above negativity—whether it’s from other people or your own mind.

So grab your coffee, throw on your sneakers, or settle into your favorite spot. We’re about to get real, raw, and ridiculously empowering.

In this episode we're coaching on:

• What to do about bullies, old voices that haunt you, and mean people in life
• How to make sure you're not being a bully to yourself by being too hard on yourself
• The dangers of catastrophizing - and how to know if you're doing it unknowingly

The truth is that our fear of mean people throws us into catastrophizing, and then catastrophizing causes us to freeze. We freeze, we overthink and we stagnate. We let fear win. Don't be a person who lets fear win.

PLAN YOUR DREAM YEAR EVENT:

It's all happening in my live virtual event on Wednesday, December 18th, 7:30-9:30PM EST.

Find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/2025

📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK [THE NEW COURSE!]
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring

🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COACH METHOD, 75% Off! Limited Time! www.trishblackwell.com/fullybooked

🧠 THE NARRATIVE INTELLIGENCE BUNDLE www.trishblackwell.com/nq

🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now!
www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox

💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27
www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox

📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method

✅‌ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE:

Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com

🆓 FREE TRAINING: "HOW TO FEEL GOOD ENOUGH"
Grab instant, free access at www.trishblackwell.com/goodenough

❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant

📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle

🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate

✅ STAY CONNECTED.

👉‌Website: https://www.trishblackwell.com/

👉Instagram: http://instagram.com/trish_blackwell‌

👉Facebook: www.facebook.com/TrishBlackwellCoaching