We all need community - to feel like we belong. Unfortunately, the Mormon church isn’t the only high-demand group out there and, when we leave, we are vulnerable to being swooped up into another one. In order to avoid “cult hopping” we must learn to spot the red and yellow flags. Thankfully there are also plenty of healthy, wholesome communities too! In this episode, we discuss the differences between healthy and unhealthy group structures so you can find your people without sacrificing your self.

Resources:
Characteristics of High-Control Groups
Cultish by Amanda Montell

To learn more about The Fomo Podcast, visit our website

Life after Mormonism is never easy, but being free from the church doesn't mean you'll never talk to a Mormon again. In all likelihood, you have family and loved ones who remain members long after you've left. This can make family gatherings stressful, stilted, or even formal feeling. In this podcast, we explore how to best navigate the holidays and other family gatherings in a way that supports you and your boundaries while also honoring the relationships in your life. 

Resources

It's typical for young adults, ages 18-25, to leave the nest and start to fly on their own. Many young adults continue to discover who they are and what believe as they move away from their family of origin. This is not the case in the Mormon church where Young Adults are sequestered into singles wards, sent on missions, and expected to start families at a young age, all with the intention of maintaining their position as a cog in the Mormon machine. This week we wrap up our exploration of the development of Mormon identity throughout the first 25 years of a person's life.

Resources:
Via Character
Personal Values: How to Know Who You Really Are
26 Questions To Help You Know Yourself Better
The Gifts of Imperfection
I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn't): Making the Journey from "What Will People Think?" to "I Am Enough"