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In this episode, we explore the connection between shame and narcissism. We look at how shame is a powerful and often misunderstood emotion that is central to Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Shame can drive individuals with NPD to either retreat into themselves or lash out to protect their fragile self-esteem. I discuss how shame impacts behavior and how it can be linked to early childhood experiences. We also explore how shame manifests in adult relationships. Overall, this episode delves into the complex and crippling emotional state of shame.

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Dr. Mazzella conducts numerous workshops and seminars addressing issues related to narcissism. Additionally, he holds positions on faculty at two esteemed post-graduate training institutes, with a particular specialization in narcissistic personality disorder.

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In this episode, we explore the complex emotion of shame and its deep connection to Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). We'll uncover how shame influences behavior, leading individuals to either retreat into isolation or lash out to protect their fragile self-esteem. Through relatable examples, we delve into the origins of shame in early childhood and its lasting impact on adult relationships. You'll learn to recognize the signs of shame in narcissistic behavior and gain insights into the defensive mechanisms that often accompany it. Join us as we unravel the hidden layers of shame in narcissism and discover how it shapes interactions and self-perception.

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If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

Dr. Mazzella conducts numerous workshops and seminars addressing issues related to narcissism. Additionally, he holds positions on faculty at two esteemed post-graduate training institutes, with a particular specialization in narcissistic personality disorder.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

Courses focused on narcissism are slated to be offered in the near future, contingent upon interest levels. Should you have particular interests and inquiries, these courses will be structured to deliver a customized educational experience. Please click HERE with your interests/inquiries

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In this episode of the Narcissism Decoder, we explore the complex reasons why some individuals struggle to accept positive experiences, such as love, comfort, and success. We delve into the psychological concept of splitting, where early life experiences, like critical caregiving, can lead to an internalized negative self-view. Through a case study, we discuss how this self-criticism manifests and why it becomes difficult for some to embrace supportive voices or good opportunities. We also touch on the defense mechanisms that protect a fragile sense of self, leading to behaviors like self-sabotage. Finally, we consider how increasing awareness of these unconscious patterns can facilitate and help individuals integrate the split-off parts of themselves for greater personal growth.

To read more about the various facets of narcissism please click here

If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

Dr. Mazzella conducts numerous workshops and seminars addressing issues related to narcissism. Additionally, he holds positions on faculty at two esteemed post-graduate training institutes, with a particular specialization in narcissistic personality disorder.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

Courses focused on narcissism are slated to be offered in the near future, contingent upon interest levels. Should you have particular interests and inquiries, these courses will be structured to deliver a customized educational experience. Please click HERE with your interests/inquiries

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In this episode we are joined by a listener of the podcast who raised very important questions about episode 14 “Why do I think and act in such extremes.” Celeste and I discuss the concept of splitting, which is thinking in extremes. We explore a case study of a patient who struggles with over-confidence and insecurities, depending on his different environments. He feels disconnected and lacks a sense of belonging. This split world is linked to his split representations of the two most important people in his life, his critical grandmother and supportive mother. The conversation raises questions about why he identifies more with the critical voice and pushes away the supportive voice. Why can he not accept and internalize a more caring and supportive voice?

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If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

Dr. Mazzella conducts numerous workshops and seminars addressing issues related to narcissism. Additionally, he holds positions on faculty at two esteemed post-graduate training institutes, with a particular specialization in narcissistic personality disorder.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

Courses focused on narcissism are slated to be offered in the near future, contingent upon interest levels. Should you have particular interests and inquiries, these courses will be structured to deliver a customized educational experience. Please click HERE with your interests/inquiries

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In this episode we are joined by a long-time listener of the podcast who has insightful questions about narcissism. This interview effectively illustrates the complexity of narcissism, the challenges of parenting, the importance of self-awareness and how Jim is inadvertently reenacting a part of his childhood relationship with his father. Jim's interest in learning and improving his relationship with his daughter is palpable, he is open and honest about everyday parental challenges.

To read more about the various facets of narcissism please click here

If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

Dr. Mazzella conducts numerous workshops and seminars addressing issues related to narcissism. Additionally, he holds positions on faculty at two esteemed post-graduate training institutes, with a particular specialization in narcissistic personality disorder.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

Courses focused on narcissism are slated to be offered in the near future, contingent upon interest levels. Should you have particular interests and inquiries, these courses will be structured to deliver a customized educational experience. Please click HERE with your interests/inquiries

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In this episode, we continue our exploration of covert narcissism by delving into practical tools and techniques for managing relationships with individuals who exhibit these traits. Building on the foundations laid in episode 37, we discuss the limitations of common recommendations. Emphasis is placed on the importance of understanding the origins of covert narcissistic traits and the need for emotion reunion and validation. Through clinical examples, practical strategies for maintaining relationships are highlighted, including validating their experience without gratifying their need for a magical reunion.

To read more about the various facets of narcissism please click here

If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

Dr. Mazzella conducts numerous workshops and seminars addressing issues related to narcissism. Additionally, he holds positions on faculty at two esteemed post-graduate training institutes, with a particular specialization in narcissistic personality disorder.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

Courses focused on narcissism are slated to be offered in the near future, contingent upon interest levels. Should you have particular interests and inquiries, these courses will be structured to deliver a customized educational experience. Please click HERE with your interests/inquiries

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In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores how to relate to someone with covert narcissistic traits. He cautions against common tools and techniques that are often ineffective, such as establishing boundaries and keeping conversations brief. Dr. Mazzella explains that these approaches limit meaningful communication and erode trust and intimacy. He highlights the importance of understanding the defining characteristics of covert narcissism, including sensitivity to criticism, emotional manipulation, and a victim mentality. Dr. Mazzella also introduces the separation individuation process as a key theory in understanding the origins of covert narcissistic traits. He concludes with a teaser for Part 2 of this mini-series.

To read more about the various facets of narcissism please click here

If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

Dr. Mazzella conducts numerous workshops and seminars addressing issues related to narcissism. Additionally, he holds positions on faculty at two esteemed post-graduate training institutes, with a particular specialization in narcissistic personality disorder.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

Courses focused on narcissism are slated to be offered in the near future, contingent upon interest levels. Should you have particular interests and inquiries, these courses will be structured to deliver a customized educational experience. Please click HERE with your interests/inquiries

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In this episode, you will hear the final piece of the live interview I had with Tami from the Ageless 50+ community. In this part of the interview, the focus is on dealing with trauma bonded relationships. Trauma bonds are explained as intense emotional connections that often form in abusive relationships, making it difficult for individuals to leave despite the harm they endure. An example is given of a woman who couldn't emotionally separate from her abusive mother, leading her to repeat similar patterns in her adult relationships. The conversation highlights how these bonds can feel addictive, much like a drug dependency.

To read more about the various facets of narcissism please click here

If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

Dr. Mazzella conducts numerous workshops and seminars addressing issues related to narcissism. Additionally, he holds positions on faculty at two esteemed post-graduate training institutes, with a particular specialization in narcissistic personality disorder.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

Courses focused on narcissism are slated to be offered in the near future, contingent upon interest levels. Should you have particular interests and inquiries, these courses will be structured to deliver a customized educational experience. Please click HERE with your interests/inquiries

You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on:

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