Episodes

  • Finding the right partner

    Finding the right partner
    Jun 25 2024
    Traumas experienced by grandparents have an effect on my clients ability to find a partner. She finds partners who are either unavailable or narcissistic. Unresolved trauma of the past and loyalty to the difficult fate of her grandmother, plus her own abandonment issues all contribute to the blocks in finding a partner
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    16 mins
  • Family Trauma & It's Influence On Choice of Career

    Family Trauma & It's Influence On Choice of Career
    Apr 17 2024
    Exclusion is an important theme in families. Members of a family will do anything in order to be seen and acknowledged. This episode describes a situation where the fear of exclusion influences my clients behaviour and also has an influence on her son's choice of career
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    13 mins
  • Children express what's hidden and unexpressed in the family system

    Children express what's hidden and unexpressed in the family system
    Jul 14 2023
    My clients son is aggressive and violent. She feels helpless and is unable to handle him. Her son is entangled with his grandmother. With his behavior he expresses what she could not.
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    13 mins
  • Excess weight and relationship with mother

    Excess weight and relationship with mother
    Jun 30 2023
    My clients inability to lose weight, was connected to her difficult relationship with her mother. When she is able to understand her mother and the trauma she carries, it helps have more love and compassion for her mother. My client is able to get rid of her hunger pangs and her habit of midnight snacking after just one session of Constellation.
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    11 mins
  • Early death of grandparent and inability to find a partner

    Early death of grandparent and inability to find a partner
    May 19 2023
    My client is seeking a partner for marriage. Her relationships don't last. In this podcast we see how the early death of her grandfather had an effect on her ability to form lasting relationships.
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    15 mins
  • Blood Pressure and it's connection to past trauma

    Blood Pressure and it's connection to past trauma
    Apr 7 2023
    My client has high blood pressure and a pain in her chest. Through systemic work, we connect the dots of her suppressed trauma and the triggers in her environment which led to her health issues.
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    20 mins
  • Systemic Roadblocks to Business Sucess

    Systemic Roadblocks to Business Sucess
    Mar 25 2023
    The traumas suffered by our grandparents and parents and their failures can become a blueprint for our life and our inability to succeed. Our unconscious loyalty to their fate hinders our ability to succeed. Constellation Work gives insights and solutions to help us move forward and live our own life, free from past burdens.
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    14 mins
  • Procrastination - A systemic perspective

    Procrastination - A systemic perspective
    Mar 11 2023
    My client blames herself for not being able to follow through with her goals. She feels guilty about giving up on things which are important to her. She procrastinates and avoid completing tasks. In this episode we look at influences from her family system which lead to her behavior of avoidance.
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    12 mins