• ENCORE: What are my needs? (Part 2)
    Nov 7 2024

    This Isn't Therapy...this is a (part 2) fun, flirty, fabulous convo about our needs! If you haven't listened to part one yet, what are you doing?! Go listen and then come back, Wendy!! In this episode, Jake and Simon expand on our types of needs and introduce us to our core relational needs of safety, belonging and mattering (the tandem needs!) and then discuss the difference between Mimetic Desire and Mimetic Rivalries. How do we know if our needs are being met? This is a must-listen episode!

    Creators & Guests

    • Simon Paluck - Host
    • Jake Ernst - Host

    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
    Jake Ernst: @mswjake
    Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon ⁣⁣

    Episode Mixed by Jordan Paluck

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    46 mins
  • ENCORE: What are my needs? (Part 1)
    Oct 31 2024

    This Isn't Therapy...this is a (part 1) conversation about our needs - what are they? Why is everyone talking about them? And how do you know if your needs are being met? What follows is a funny and fabulous convo about Primal, Survival, and Growth needs (oh my!) This episode is essential for anyone out there wondering: what are my needs?!

    Creators & Guests

    • Simon Paluck - Host
    • Jake Ernst - Host

    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
    Jake Ernst: @mswjake
    Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon ⁣⁣

    Episode Mixed by Jordan Paluck

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    36 mins
  • ENCORE: Lying to your therapist
    Oct 24 2024

    This Isn't Therapy... it's the pinocchio-inspired epi about lying to your therapist. In this episode, Jake and Simon use a case scenario as a study about lies, fibs, and fairytales in the therapy room. They talk about what may lie beneath our lies (hehe) and can what happen when a therapist may suspect a lie is being told.

    P.S. The notes we were singing are Bb and A! ;)

    Don't forget, Mary: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...

    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com

    Creators & Guests

    • Simon Paluck - Host
    • Jake Ernst - Host

    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
    Jake Ernst: @mswjake
    Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
    Episode mixed by Jordan Paluck
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    47 mins
  • ENCORE: Adulting is hard
    Oct 17 2024

    This Isn't Therapy... it's an *encore* conversation about becoming an emotional adult. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about the mirage of adulthood and the search for the "real adults". They dive into an article by Kathryn Jezer-Morton for The Cut called Does anyone feel like an actual adult?This one's for all the adults who feel like they’re wearing a grown up costume or cosplaying as an adult.

    Don't forget, Mary: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...

    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com

    Creators & Guests

    • Simon Paluck - Host
    • Jake Ernst - Host

    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
    Jake Ernst: @mswjake
    Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
    Episode mixed by Jordan Paluck
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    45 mins
  • ENCORE: Emotional Immaturity
    Oct 10 2024

    This Isn't Therapy... it's an *encore* episode about dealing with emotionally immature people. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about spotting the signs of an emotionally immature adult and how emotional immaturity in parents can impact the children they're raising. We're returning to a beloved format in this epi-- lovely listener submissions + expert-level quotes = one juicy convo! ‎💋‎💋

    Article: Emotionally Immature ParentsBy Psych Central

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    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com

    Creators & Guests

    • Simon Paluck - Host
    • Jake Ernst - Host

    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
    Jake Ernst: @mswjake
    Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
    Episode mixed by Jordan Paluck
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    50 mins
  • ENCORE: Is doomslang making us all numb?
    Oct 3 2024

    This Isn't Therapy... it's an *encore* doomy episode about the ever-evolving landscape of doomslang. Doomslang, coined by author and linguist Amanda Montell, is a term used to describe dystopian jargon like “dumpster fire” and “doomscroll” and “bed rot”. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about how the constant conjuring of End Times is having surprising, unintended, and maybe even dangerous, consequences. From bed rot to brainrot, this episode sure packs a doomsday punch! Oh... and be sure to tune in this week for a very imporant Summertime announcement!


    P.S. Don't forget: Submit a quandary, query, or question for our end segment Asking For A Friend...

    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com

    Creators & Guests

    • Simon Paluck - Host
    • Jake Ernst - Host

    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
    Jake Ernst: @mswjake
    Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
    Episode mixed by Jordan Paluck
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    46 mins
  • ENCORE: The eerie hype of self-improvement influencers
    Sep 26 2024

    This Isn't Therapy...this is an *encore* deep dive into self-improvement influencers and the impact they're having on men: "how to be more alpha by yelling at the ocean!! How to get a six pack by eating a pound of raw liver a day!! Why being sad is a state of mind so go chew on a football!!!! Oh no!! Don't fret though, Simon and Jake keep it flirty and fun as they discuss the online obsession with fitness, mindset, and self-optimization. Are we undoing the progress we’ve made to reduce mental health stigma?!

    Sources:
    - Beware Lifestyle Fascismby Maya Vinokour
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    Why the politics of young men and women are drifting further and further apartby Nimo Omer for The Guardian

    P.S. Don't forget: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...

    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com

    Creators & Guests

    • Simon Paluck - Host
    • Jake Ernst - Host

    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
    Jake Ernst: @mswjake
    Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
    Episode mixed by Jordan Paluck
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    46 mins
  • ENCORE: Making New Friends
    Sep 19 2024

    This Isn't Therapy... it's an *encore* convo about makin' new friends, Mary! In this week's episode, Jake and Simon talk about our social health and what's getting in the way of making new friends and forging new social connections. They also discuss if it's good or bad to connect with people really fast and tackle a listener question about building a new circle of friends.

    *NEW* Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...

    Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.com

    Creators & Guests

    • Simon Paluck - Host
    • Jake Ernst - Host

    Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
    Jake Ernst: @mswjake
    Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
    Episode mixed by Jordan Paluck
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    41 mins