• Your Pain, Their Power: How Narcissists Feed on Relationships

  • Nov 21 2024
  • Length: 52 mins
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Your Pain, Their Power: How Narcissists Feed on Relationships

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  • Ever wonder why a narcissist seems to feed off your emotional pain? Do you find yourself constantly trying to prove your worth in relationships while the other person maintains the upper hand? Tony Overbay, LMFT, discusses the complexities of narcissistic relationships and emotional immaturity. Tony explores concepts like the false self, the one-up, one-down dynamic, and antagonistic attachment styles in depth. He uncovers how narcissistic traits manifest in relationships, causing deep emotional trauma and affecting whole families. Learn about the destructive patterns of predation, competition, and parasitism in narcissistic behavior from the article “Understanding the Narcissists Antagonisitic Attachment Style” by Julie Hall, creator of “The Narcissist Family Files” https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-narcissist-in-your-life/202107/understanding-the-narcissists-antagonistic-attachment-style Tony shares insights on reclaiming your sense of self by recognizing these unhealthy dynamics. Special thanks to Riley Hope for her song 'Not My Job,' which serves as the show's anthem. You find Riley Hope's "Not My Job" streaming information here: https://linktr.ee/rileyhopematlock 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:43 Listener's Question on Narcissism 01:39 Understanding Narcissistic Behavior 04:15 Exploring Narcissistic Relationships 05:26 Antagonistic Attachment Style 15:23 One-Up, One-Down Dynamics 18:56 Real-Life Examples of Narcissistic Patterns 24:17 Introduction to Human Attachment 24:42 Secure vs. Antagonistic Attachment 25:55 Predatory Relationships 29:57 Narcissistic Competition 33:18 Parasitic Dynamics 33:49 Coercion and Control 40:18 The Mask of Narcissism 42:57 The Ripple Effect of Narcissistic Abuse 45:02 Empowerment and Healing 47:54 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview
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