Episodes

  • Knowing When To Quit: Dropping Out Of Work or School As A Neurodivergent Person
    Oct 13 2024

    Ever felt like quitting makes you a failure?

    In this episode of Wired Minds, we'll redefine quitting as a courageous choice for neurodivergent individuals facing unworkable situations.

    I'll shares my personal journey of walking away from school and jobs, how my late autism diagnosis reframed my experiences, and offer insights on when stepping back might be the right step forward for your wellbeing and career.

    00:00 Confession: I'm a Quitter
    01:43 Quitting School: My PhD Journey
    04:50 First Job: Student Accommodation Company
    06:58 Traineeship: Not Becoming an Archivist
    08:17 Short Stint: Web Hosting Company
    11:09 Reflections on Quitting
    12:28 Advice for Neurodivergent Individuals
    16:33 Final Thoughts and Conclusion

    Listen in and learn how to embrace your unique wiring and thrive in your career!

    Follow Lee on Instagram and check out his website: https://leedurbin.co.nz/

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    17 mins
  • Busting Stereotypes About Autism, ADHD, and Dyslexia
    Oct 5 2024

    In this episode of Wired Minds, host Lee Durbin—a data leader who discovered he’s autistic just weeks before turning 40—takes you on a journey to dismantle common stereotypes surrounding neurodiversity. Drawing from personal experiences and factual insights, Lee unpacks the myths and truths about autism, ADHD, and dyslexia.

    What you’ll learn:

    • Why Late Diagnoses Happen: Lee shares his story of navigating decades without a diagnosis and why many neurodivergent individuals, especially adults, remain undiagnosed.
    • Debunking Autism Myths: Explore misconceptions about autism, such as the notion that all autistic people are savants, non-verbal, constantly stimming, or that autism only affects boys and children.
    • Understanding ADHD Realities: Challenge stereotypes that label individuals with ADHD as lazy, unintelligent, or products of bad parenting, and learn the truth about how ADHD affects executive functions and focus.
    • Clarifying Dyslexia Misconceptions: Dispel the myths that dyslexia equates to low intelligence or an inability to read, and understand the true nature of this lifelong condition.

    Lee delves into the diagnostic criteria, emphasizing that neurodiversity is not defined by outdated stereotypes but by a spectrum of experiences unique to each individual. He highlights how embracing your unique wiring can be a powerful asset, particularly in the tech and data industries.

    Whether you identify as neurodivergent or are simply curious to learn more, this episode offers friendly, informative insights to help you or someone you know embrace their strengths and thrive in their career.

    Tune in to bust myths, embrace truths, and celebrate the diverse minds that drive innovation forward.

    Follow Lee on Instagram and check out his website: https://leedurbin.co.nz/

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    13 mins