Do you have some memorable advice you've been given? It could be the best advice or the worst advice -- drop yours in the comments!

We've all encountered people that love to give their opinion or advice. And often this is unsolicited. Sometimes people give unsolicited advice as a projection from their own experiences.

This ties into a recent episode on 5 things we do that hold us back -- which is dimming ourselves to make other people comfortable. And don't let others tamper your dreams either, even if it feels like a risk. We have to take risks, sometimes calculated ones, in order to grow. Take it from Oprah!

Resource: Oprah on taking risks

Regardless of getting good or bad advice, we can always use them as lessons.

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*TW* Domestic violence is briefly touched on in this episode. If you are not in a place to hear this, please tune in later. And if you need help, please reach out to a professional.

This episode unpacks not only details of some popular cases, but also why people are interested in cases like the ones that Tracy Walder covers. She answers questions from listeners and teaches about "honey pots." Then we chat the Downfall of Diddy, the Sherri Papini case, the terrorist attack threat on the Taylor Swift concerts in Vienna, conspiracy theories and so much more!

About Tracy:

Former CIA officer and FBI special agent, Tracy Walder, worked as Staff Operations Officer (SOO) at the Central Intelligence Agency's Counterterrorism Center Weapons of Mass Destruction Group. During her time at the CIA, Tracy traveled to Afghanistan, Jordan, Uzbekistan, Algeria, Morocco, Denmark, Sweden, Italy, and England. During this time Tracy received many awards for her service from both the CIA and from foreign intelligence offices as well. Among her awards were four Exceptional Performance Awards from the Director of the CIA, two Special Activity Awards, a Meritorious Unit Citation Award, a DCI Counterterrorism Center Medal, and two Operation Enduring Freedom Targeting Awards. After the CIA, Tracy became a Special Agent at the FBI's Los Angeles Field Office specializing in Chinese counterintelligence operations. Tracy has done a TEDx talk and is a sought after public speaker through the World Affairs Council.

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Trigger Warning: This conversation discusses mental health and therapy. If you're struggling, please reach out to a professional. You can call or text 988 for help.

Alda Sigmundsdóttir is an Icelandic-born writer, journalist and speaker. She is the author of several books about Iceland, on topics ranging from contemporary issues to mythology and ancient beliefs. She has travelled widely and given talks on Icelandic affairs, and is a regular commentator on those in the international media.

This episode specifically discusses her book, Daughter. This story unpacks Alda's experience growing up as the daughter of a narcissistic mother. We discuss the difference between overt and covert narcissism and then her own experience becoming a mother herself.

Catch up with Alda on Facebook or Instagram, or on her website aldasigmunds.com, where you can also sign up for her "Letter from Iceland" newsletter.

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Alda also discussed Steven Kessler's book, The 5 Personality Patterns

*Pardon the sound on this episode as we were navigating recording remotely. ☺️*

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Grab a pen & paper for this one! These are all things that have regularly come up in conversation. The common thread connecting these is that they either hold us back or have held us back in the past.

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1. Do you find yourself shrinking yourself or dimming your light in order to make other people more comfortable? This is such a hot topic, the whole premise of my TEDx Talk is on this! Haven't watched it yet? WATCH HERE

2. How often do you find yourself thinking about things vs actually doing them!? This is another area that might hold us back.

3. Are you an ambitious optimist? Tune in for the definition and a list of characteristics that ambitious/eternal optimists possess. Be a little delulu!

4. Doing things that don't bring joy. Or NOT doing things that do bring us joy. A great way to track this is with the nurture tracker in I'm My Favorite: A Guided Journal for Your Path Forward.

5. Giving a sh*t about what other people think about you. Do you find yourself seeking external validation and putting significant weight on what other people think? This can be a tough one for people pleasers or those recovering people pleasers.

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Jorge Perez shares the story behind and the lessons within his new book "The Shut The Fu*k Up Method". He explains how losing both of his parents dying of cancer back to back sent him on a journey of wanting to shift his perspective and help others do the same. He enlightens us with several of his 10 commandments from the book as well as how meditation, mindfulness, and being present are powerful tools to help you silence your way to the life of your dreams. Follow Jorge on Instagram. And buy a copy of his book on Amazon.

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Steve Pemberton shares his raw and vulnerable story of a childhood of growing up without parents. Shuffled through the foster care system, he was the 3rd generation to be orphaned in his family. He decided that he needed to end the cycle for himself, his children and future generations. His desire to accomplish this was further fueled when his oldest child asked about his childhood. This was the catalyst to writing his first book, A Chance In The World. Steve intended to write this book solely for his own children, never imagining that it would become a bestseller and later be made into a motion picture.

Through this journey, he developed The Lighthouse Effect, also the name of the 2nd book. Steve dives into this concept and how this applies to people in life.

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Grab your beverage and settle in for a juicy one today! This one is not for the kids! It's an adult conversation about dating with some references to sexual content. (That's even with trying to tone it down!)

Have you ever done something that you didn't really want to? Yet you did it anyway -- even though you knew better?! Your gut, intuition, or whatever you want to call it told you not to and you still did it. That's what this episode is about. I was so disappointed in myself because I recently did something even though I knew better. You'll be brought through an entertaining journey of an (almost) dating story outlining all of the flags waving along the way. Join in the conversation through Spotify chat -- a new feature in Spotify. Listen to the end to find out who I could actually date! LOL Don't forget to follow, leave a review and share Drinking With Gin. Special thanks to our sponsor, ine+ nutrition! Head to https://inenutrition.com/en-us/pages/about-us and use discount code GIN10 at checkout to receive 10% off your order today! *Discount code does not apply to sample packs or stacking to a subscription purchase. Connect with Ginny: https://www.instagram.com/ginnypriem/ https://www.ginnypriem.com/ for speaking https://www.linkedin.com/in/ginny-priem-8a87248/ https://www.facebook.com/Ginnypriem https://ginnypriem.substack.com/ to free newsletter

Lois Brenner is a New York divorce lawyer, mediator and medial professional. She's been featured on Oprah, CNN and Good Morning America. Lois is devoted to helping people get through divorce as smoothly and efficiently as possible. As a seasoned trial attorney and highly trained divorce mediator with over 35 years of experience, she has the skills and resources to effectively handle any divorce case.

In this episode, Lois shares common issues she sees with clients that are untangling and divorcing from narcissists and people with other, what she calls, character disorders. She also enlightens us with helpful tactics and strategies that work best when dealing with these difficult personalities. Listen to the end to find out her perspective on prenuptial agreements!

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