In the final installment of our three-part series, Dr. Davin Tan tackles the controversial question: Should parents monitor their children’s social media accounts? Join us as we explore the delicate balance between online safety and privacy, and discover practical strategies for navigating this complex issue.

Key Points:

1. Statistics on Parental Monitoring:

   • 60% of parents check their teen’s social media profiles, while 40% do not.
   • Concerns about online safety, cyberbullying, and exposure to harmful content versus privacy and trust.

2. Research Insights:

   • Teenagers who believe their parents are monitoring their social media are more likely to engage in online risk behaviors.
   • Open, honest communication between parents and teens reduces risky online behaviors.

3. Practical Solutions for Parents:

   • Set Clear Guidelines: Establish rules for social media use, including privacy settings and acceptable behavior.
   • Use Monitoring Tools Transparently: Inform your child about monitoring tools and explain the reasons behind their use.
   • Foster Open Communication: Encourage discussions about online experiences and create a safe environment for your child to share concerns.

4. Adjusting Monitoring as Children Grow:

   • Tailor your approach based on your child’s age and maturity.
   • Gradually reduce monitoring as your child demonstrates responsible online behavior.

5. Regular “Tech Talks”:

   • Have weekly or monthly discussions about online activities, new apps, and any concerns.

Resources Mentioned:

• Huddle Wisdom Courses:
  • “Supporting and Guiding Anxious Kids” – Empathic parenting strategies for emotional and behavioral challenges.
  • “Connecting with Anxious, Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids” – Enhancing communication skills, fostering empathy, and managing emotions.

Conclusion:

• Monitor your child’s social media with transparency, respect, and a goal of teaching them to navigate the online world safely and responsibly.
• Stay informed, stay connected, and adapt your approach as your child grows.