In this game-changing episode of Marriage IQ, we sit down with relationship expert Monica Tanner, who reveals the transformative power of asking for what you truly need in a relationship. Monica, a seasoned relationship educator and coach, dives deep into the strategies that can strengthen communication, foster intimacy, and create a stronger, more resilient marriage.

Unlock the Power of Effective Requests:

Monica shares a powerful, 3-step process to help couples get their needs met—and it's simpler than you think:

1. Be Willing to Change – Stop waiting for things to magically improve. Take the first step by voicing your needs at the right moment.

2. Be Clear & Specific – Say exactly what you need in a way your partner can easily understand and act upon.

3. Show Gratitude – Celebrate every small step your partner takes toward meeting your needs, reinforcing connection and positive change.

Bringing the Request Process to Sensitive Topics

Monica reveals how this approach can completely transform conversations around more delicate issues—like sexual intimacy. By practicing clear, empathetic communication, you and your partner can find ways to meet each other's needs without the awkwardness or tension that often arises.

The Art of Relationship Repair:

Even the strongest relationships face challenges. Monica breaks down how to repair emotional rifts with a powerful, 4-step approach that helps you reconnect and rebuild trust:

1. Start with Love – Remember, you want what’s best for your spouse because you love them.

2. Describe the Situation – Stick to facts, not blame.

3. Share Your Feelings – Express how it made you feel, without attacking.

4. Request Change – Be clear about what you'd like to see moving forward.

Why This Matters:

This episode arms you with real, practical tools to:

• Enhance communication

• Strengthen intimacy

• Navigate tough conversations

• Foster a relationship built on mutual understanding and respect

If you're ready to transform your relationship and learn the art of asking for what you need (without guilt or frustration), don’t miss this episode! It’s the key to a healthier, happier partnership.

Listen now and start mastering the art of marital requests and repairs today!