Many couples find themselves struggling to maintain their relationship once children enter the picture. The demands of parenting can easily overshadow the needs of the marriage, leading to less happiness and more conflict. However, it's crucial to remember that your marriage is the bedrock of your family unit.

Parenting is undoubtedly one of life's greatest adventures, but it shouldn't come at the expense of your marriage. By prioritizing your relationship, you're not only investing in your own happiness but also creating a stable, loving environment for your children.

Remember, it's not about choosing between your spouse and your children. It's about recognizing that a strong marriage is the foundation of a happy family. By nurturing your partnership, you're giving your children the greatest gift: a model of a loving, respectful relationship.

In this episode of Marriage IQ, we get real about our own struggles with balancing marriage and parenting. We share vulnerable insights and practical tips on how to keep the spark alive, even in the midst of parenthood.

Tune in for strategies to strengthen your marriage, deepen your connection, and create a family life that thrives. Your marriage—and your kids—will thank you for it.

In this game-changing episode of Marriage IQ, we sit down with relationship expert Monica Tanner, who reveals the transformative power of asking for what you truly need in a relationship. Monica, a seasoned relationship educator and coach, dives deep into the strategies that can strengthen communication, foster intimacy, and create a stronger, more resilient marriage.

Unlock the Power of Effective Requests:

Monica shares a powerful, 3-step process to help couples get their needs met—and it's simpler than you think:

1. Be Willing to Change – Stop waiting for things to magically improve. Take the first step by voicing your needs at the right moment.

2. Be Clear & Specific – Say exactly what you need in a way your partner can easily understand and act upon.

3. Show Gratitude – Celebrate every small step your partner takes toward meeting your needs, reinforcing connection and positive change.

Bringing the Request Process to Sensitive Topics

Monica reveals how this approach can completely transform conversations around more delicate issues—like sexual intimacy. By practicing clear, empathetic communication, you and your partner can find ways to meet each other's needs without the awkwardness or tension that often arises.

The Art of Relationship Repair:

Even the strongest relationships face challenges. Monica breaks down how to repair emotional rifts with a powerful, 4-step approach that helps you reconnect and rebuild trust:

1. Start with Love – Remember, you want what’s best for your spouse because you love them.

2. Describe the Situation – Stick to facts, not blame.

3. Share Your Feelings – Express how it made you feel, without attacking.

4. Request Change – Be clear about what you'd like to see moving forward.

Why This Matters:

This episode arms you with real, practical tools to:

• Enhance communication

• Strengthen intimacy

• Navigate tough conversations

• Foster a relationship built on mutual understanding and respect

If you're ready to transform your relationship and learn the art of asking for what you need (without guilt or frustration), don’t miss this episode! It’s the key to a healthier, happier partnership.

Listen now and start mastering the art of marital requests and repairs today!

Feeling stuck in pain, betrayal, or resentment in your marriage? You’re not alone. But what if the path from victimhood to empowerment was closer than you think?

In this powerful episode of Marriage IQ, we confront the difficult but crucial topic of victimhood in relationships—how it takes hold, why it keeps us stuck, and most importantly, how to break free. Through real-life examples, we unpack how shifting your mindset can transform even the most painful experiences into catalysts for growth, strength, and deeper connection.

🔥 What You'll Learn:
✅ The hidden ways trauma shapes your marriage dynamics
✅ How to grieve past wounds without staying trapped in resentment
✅ The key to regaining control—without waiting for your spouse to change
✅ Practical strategies to move from feeling stuck to feeling strong

Whether you're working through a betrayal, struggling with unmet needs, or simply looking to reclaim emotional resilience, this episode will give you the tools and perspective to break free. Because healing doesn’t depend on what’s been done to you—it depends on what you choose to do next.

🎧 Listen now and take your first step toward emotional freedom.

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