EPISODE DESCRIPTION:
Welcome to The Consult a Counselor Series, a special segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, where therapist and host Vanessa De Jesus Guzman, LPC, NCC, answers real-life parenting questions, helping you reduce the overwhelm, find joy, live life intentionally so you don't lose your... well you know...

TODAY'S QUESTION:
"My middle schooler got an iPhone for Christmas. What can I do to keep them safe?"

In this episode, Vanessa provides a relatable and practical approach to managing your child’s new iPhone responsibly. From setting clear expectations to utilizing parental controls, she shares actionable tips to ensure your middle schooler stays safe while learning responsible phone use. Vanessa emphasizes the importance of digital boundaries and the benefits of starting this tech journey together as a family.

TUNE IN TO LEARN:

• How to set clear expectations with your child before they start using their phone
• The importance of parental controls and how to use them effectively
• Ways to teach your child about digital boundaries and online kindness
• How to balance technology with other activities your child enjoys
• Tips for handling inevitable mistakes with patience and as learning opportunities

TAKEAWAY MESSAGE:
Getting a phone is a big step for your child—and for you. By setting clear rules, staying consistent, and modeling healthy habits, you can make this new phase a safe and positive experience for the entire family.

Listen in, and remember... you’re always free to be mindful!

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DISCLAIMER:
Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

In this episode, Vanessa De Jesus Guzman sits down with Kristi Kandel, a visionary real estate developer, to explore the power of purpose-driven living and the transformation of neglected communities. Kristi takes us on a journey from her humble beginnings in a small Ohio town to becoming a successful entrepreneur and passionate advocate for revitalizing underserved areas.

Kristi opens up about how her experiences growing up in poverty and her unwavering work ethic paved the way for her career in real estate. She discusses her deep commitment to community empowerment, emphasizing the importance of collaborating with local residents to restore neglected properties and create lasting change. She also shares her personal journey of self-discovery, revealing how mindfulness practices like meditation and gratitude have helped her stay grounded.

If you’re looking to make a meaningful impact in your community, Kristi’s story of resilience, purpose, and empowerment is for you. Don’t miss this episode!


Find Kristi Here:

• https://kristikandel.com/
• https://www.instagram.com/localrealestatedevelopers
• https://www.linkedin.com/company/local-real-estate-developers
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristi-kandel-4b650a12/

Kristi's Offer:

• 50% off $197 Real Estate Course using your coupon code: Freetobemindful
• https://www.localrealestatedeveloper.com/course-signup

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CULTIVATE CALM CHALLENGE
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-cultivatingcalmchallenge


SUBMIT QUESTIONS for CONSULT A COUNSELOR:
https://qrco.de/consultacounselor


WATCH THE PODCAST ON YOUTUBE:
https://www.youtube.com/@counselorvdejesus

STAY CONNECTED:
Show Hashtag: #freetobemindfulpodcast
Website: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast
All Social Channels: @counselorvdejesus


GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT!
https://choosemuse.com/freetobemindful
Use this link to get 15% off your total when you purchase the amazing brain sensing headband that tells you when you're in a meditative state and guides you to improve your practice.


DISCLAIMER:
Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.

Welcome to The Consult a Counselor Series, a special segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, where therapist and host Vanessa De Jesus Guzman, LPC, NCC, answers real-life parenting questions, helping you reduce the overwhelm, find joy, live life intentionally so you don't lose your... well you know...

TODAY'S QUESTION:
"Is 7 too young to get my kid a phone?"

In this episode, Vanessa dives into the age-old parenting dilemma of when to introduce phones to kids. With practical advice and relatable anecdotes, she explores factors like maturity, the purpose of the phone, and the potential risks of screen time and social media exposure. Vanessa shares her personal experience and offers alternatives for staying connected while prioritizing safety and responsibility.

TUNE IN TO LEARN:

• How to evaluate your child’s maturity level to determine readiness for a phone
• The risks of giving kids access to smartphones at a young age
• Why understanding the purpose of the phone (safety, communication, or entertainment) is key
• Alternative tools like smartwatches or basic phones that meet family needs
• How to set clear rules and boundaries to manage screen time effectively

TAKEAWAY MESSAGE:
Seven may be young for a phone, but the right decision depends on your child’s needs, readiness, and your family’s goals. By starting small and intentional, you can set a solid foundation for responsible tech use as your child grows.

Listen in, and remember... you’re always free to be mindful!

Send us a text

CULTIVATE CALM CHALLENGE
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-cultivatingcalmchallenge


SUBMIT QUESTIONS for CONSULT A COUNSELOR:
https://qrco.de/consultacounselor


WATCH THE PODCAST ON YOUTUBE:
https://www.youtube.com/@counselorvdejesus

STAY CONNECTED:
Show Hashtag: #freetobemindfulpodcast
Website: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast
All Social Channels: @counselorvdejesus


GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT!
https://choosemuse.com/freetobemindful
Use this link to get 15% off your total when you purchase the amazing brain sensing headband that tells you when you're in a meditative state and guides you to improve your practice.


DISCLAIMER:
Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.