The fluorescent lights hum, a quiet counterpoint to the nervous energy crackling through the room. I stand at the front, ostensibly shuffling papers, but my eyes flicker across the sea of faces before me. Beneath the veneer of academic focus, I see it – the subtle signs of a deeper hunger.
It's pizza commercial day in Social Media and E-Marketing. On paper, it's about audience targeting and narrative construction. In reality, it's become something far more elemental.
The first time I brought food, it was almost an afterthought. A box of stale donuts to celebrate a grant approval. I watched as one student, quiet and always hunched in the back row, pocketed three. My initial reaction – a flare of irritation – haunts me still. It wasn't until weeks later, overhearing a hushed conversation about missed meals and overdue rent, that understanding dawned with painful clarity.
I remember those days. The hollow ache that no amount of caffeine could mask. Trying to focus on lectures while mentally calculating if I could stretch my last pack of ramen for one more day. The shame of it all, carefully hidden behind a facade of academic dedication.
Now, I watch as they enter, eyes darting to the stack of pizza boxes by my desk. I've stopped announcing it, stopped making it a reward. It simply... is. A constant, like the hum of the lights or the scent of dry-erase markers.
"Let's see those storyboards," I say, my voice steady despite the lump in my throat. They gather in groups, the shuffle of papers mingling with nervous laughter. And then, as the first box opens, releasing a cloud of yeasty warmth, something shifts.
Shoulders relax. Smiles come easier. The quiet one who never speaks now gestures animatedly, describing a camera angle. Another student, who I've seen lingering by the vending machines with empty pockets, takes a second slice without hesitation.
It's not just about filling stomachs. It's about nourishing something deeper. In this moment, we're not professor and students, separated by grades and expectations. We're human beings, sharing in a fundamental act of community.
As they work, trading ideas and building narratives, I see flashes of brilliance emerging. Unencumbered by immediate hunger, their creativity flourishes. They're not just learning about marketing; they're learning about connection, about seeing the humanity in each other and in themselves.
When class ends, they file out, leaving behind empty boxes and the lingering scent of cheese and possibility. One student pauses at the door, meeting my eyes. No words are exchanged, but the look conveys volumes. Gratitude, yes, but something more – recognition. In that moment, we see each other, truly see each other, beyond our assigned roles.
I gather the remnants, my heart full. This won't solve systemic inequality or erase the myriad challenges they face. But for a few hours each week, in this room warmed by more than just pizza, we create a space where everyone's basic needs are met. Where hunger – of body and of spirit – is acknowledged and, however briefly, satisfied.
And in that satisfaction, something profound takes root. The understanding that beneath our differences, our struggles, our individual journeys, we share a common hunger. For knowledge, yes, but also for connection, for dignity, for the simple grace of being seen.
As I turn off the lights, the fluorescent hum fading, I carry this truth with me: We are all, in our own ways, both hungry and capable of nourishing each other. Sometimes, the most important lesson isn't found in any textbook, but in the quiet act of breaking bread together. And that is a lesson worth savoring.
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Dec 24 20247 mins