There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, the most frequently asked question is addressed.

But where do you go for answers you can trust?

Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert).

A.I. is all the rage, and perhaps ChatGPT is the most popular version going. It’s sort of like Google. You can ask it questions and it will give you answers based on all the digital information that’s found online. It’s pretty amazing.

That got our host thinking: What does ChatGPT have to say about some of the most important and relevant questions we have about our pursuit of intimacy?

So, in this, the first of a five-part series, Roy puts questions to A.I. and compares its answers to C.I. (Conscious Intelligence) so that you can be fully informed and make the best decisions and choices for your love life.

This episode’s question is, “What qualities should a person look for in a life partner?”

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Dr. John Gottman, a famous couple’s therapist and relationship researcher, has identified four warning signs that a relationship is doomed. They are criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. If any of those are occurring between two people, he’s found that the relationship won’t last.

And that makes sense, right? They are sort of obvious red flags.

But in this episode, Roy identifies five subtle issues, dynamics that are not as obvious, yet just as dangerous and destructive. Being aware of the not-so-obvious issues that can ruin a relationship equips and prepares you for a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship.

You will learn…

…why relational warning signs should be treated like medical warning signs;

…the antidotes to criticism, contempt, defensiveness & stonewalling;

…the five subtle signs a relationship is headed for trouble;

…and what to do about the subtle signs when/if they show up in your relationship;

…and much more!

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

In the previous episode, Roy shared something that no one had ever told him (and something you’ve probably never been told either): That although masculine people crave freedom at their core, they will never get it from either Woman or World, and likewise, although feminine people crave love at their core, they too will never get it from either Man or World.

Because that is such an outrageous truth to hear, Roy thought it needed to be unpacked further. To do that, he shares a talk by the world’s leading expert on Masculine/Feminine dynamics, David Deida.

In this episode, David Deida addresses, “His Freedom, Her Love,” offering a powerful and inspiring perspective on our desire for freedom and love and how it plays out between two people in intimacy.

This is one of the deepest, most difficult-to-swallow things you’ll ever hear, so be ready for it.

To learn more about David Deida, see: www.deida.info

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.