There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, the most frequently asked question is addressed.

But where do you go for answers you can trust?

Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert).

A.I. is all the rage, and perhaps ChatGPT is the most popular version going. It’s sort of like Google. You can ask it questions and it will give you answers based on all the digital information that’s found online. It’s pretty amazing.

That got our host thinking: What does ChatGPT have to say about some of the most important and relevant questions we have about our pursuit of intimacy?

So, in this, the first of a five-part series, Roy puts questions to A.I. and compares its answers to C.I. (Conscious Intelligence) so that you can be fully informed and make the best decisions and choices for your love life.

This episode’s question is, “What qualities should a person look for in a life partner?”

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Dr. John Gottman, a famous couple’s therapist and relationship researcher, has identified four warning signs that a relationship is doomed. They are criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. If any of those are occurring between two people, he’s found that the relationship won’t last.

And that makes sense, right? They are sort of obvious red flags.

But in this episode, Roy identifies five subtle issues, dynamics that are not as obvious, yet just as dangerous and destructive. Being aware of the not-so-obvious issues that can ruin a relationship equips and prepares you for a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship.

You will learn…

…why relational warning signs should be treated like medical warning signs;

…the antidotes to criticism, contempt, defensiveness & stonewalling;

…the five subtle signs a relationship is headed for trouble;

…and what to do about the subtle signs when/if they show up in your relationship;

…and much more!

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

In the previous episode, Roy shared something that no one had ever told him (and something you’ve probably never been told either): That although masculine people crave freedom at their core, they will never get it from either Woman or World, and likewise, although feminine people crave love at their core, they too will never get it from either Man or World.

Because that is such an outrageous truth to hear, Roy thought it needed to be unpacked further. To do that, he shares a talk by the world’s leading expert on Masculine/Feminine dynamics, David Deida.

In this episode, David Deida addresses, “His Freedom, Her Love,” offering a powerful and inspiring perspective on our desire for freedom and love and how it plays out between two people in intimacy.

This is one of the deepest, most difficult-to-swallow things you’ll ever hear, so be ready for it.

To learn more about David Deida, see: www.deida.info

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

The host shares, quite candidly, that he's been struggling in his personal life. He talks about being in an angry, dark, whiney place and it hasn’t been pretty, to put it mildly.

He explains that as he's paid attention to how shitty he's felt and why, it’s become clear to him that he's been lied to. There is something no one’s ever told him about the reality of life and relationships, and it’s led to misery.

So, in this episode, Roy, the host, gets very personal, sharing all about his recent bout with anger and depression—because he believes that you’ll be able to relate.

He's pretty sure that what he's never been told, you’ve never been told either. Take the time to listen to this episode because what he's realized might produce a turning point in your life as it has in his.

You will learn…

…what you most crave as a masculine or feminine being;

…what no one ever told you about getting what you crave;

…the reason behind the inherent tension between men and women;

…the discovery that leads to the possibility of relational happiness;

…and much, much more.

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

This is part 2 of a 2-part series where Roy, the host, offers very practical, down-to-earth wisdom on how to let go of the past.

In the previous episode (#179), Roy discussed the first two steps to letting go. In this episode, he discusses the final 3 steps.

In this episode, you will learn…

…the three most devasting results of not letting go;

…the inner attitude that keeps the past alive and makes letting go nearly impossible;

…the final three steps to letting go and how exactly to do it;

…And much, much more.

Don’t miss this episode!

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Most of us know how important it is to let go of our past and its pain. If we hold on to the past, we live with suspicion, projection, and worst of all, repetition (if we don’t learn from the past, we’re destined to repeat it).

Most of us want to release our baggage and experience the inner freedom it brings, but the problem is no one ever tells us how to do that!!!

Until now.

In this episode (and the next one), our host, Roy Biancalana, offers a clear and practical 5-step process on how to let go of the past—no matter how difficult or painful it’s been.

You will learn…

…the three most devasting results of not letting go;

…the inner attitude that keeps the past alive and makes letting go nearly impossible;

…four signs that you have stuff you need to let go of;

…the first two steps to letting go and why they are the hardest;

…And much, much more.

Don’t miss this episode!

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

If you are interested in changing the trajectory of your love life—and after listening to the previous episode, how could you not be!—you are probably considering working directly with Roy. But because it’s a big decision, you might be interested in hearing from someone who’s “been there, done that.”

Well, ask and you shall receive.

In this special episode, Roy interviews Lyla, a former client. They discuss her interest in coaching and why she chose Roy. They talk deeply about all the components and resources included in the coaching program, including her experience of the formal and laser coaching sessions, what she learned from Roy’s book, Relationship Bootcamp, his eCourse, The Radiant Woman, The Waking Up meditation app and her use and understanding of the Enneagram of Personality, a key part of the program.

Don’t miss this opportunity to hear a very heartfelt, authentic and unscripted conversation between Roy and Lyla. It will give you a window into what it’s like to work with Roy.

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

This is probably the most important podcast Roy has ever recorded. Yes, on the surface it looks like he’s simply promoting his coaching practice, but in reality, something much, much deeper takes place.

Roy is offering the solution to your disappointing love life. In fact, three major themes are addressed: (1) You want a great relationship with all of your heart, and you know it’s possible; (2) Your relationship history, up until now, has been disappointing and painful; (3) You are more than a little concerned about how or if it will ever change.

If you resonate with those three, you CANNOT miss this episode because you will learn how to change the trajectory of your love life once and for all.

In this episode, you will be presented with 5 (maybe even 6) signs that you need to hire Roy as your relationship coach. These signs are not mysterious or difficult to identify. In fact, they are obvious, yet if they are not faced, your love life will never change.

Don’t miss this episode.

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.