In this episode I talk about when I got fired... and dive into the emotional rollercoaster of losing something significant in your life—whether it's a job, a relationship, or anything that shakes your sense of security. I share how I really felt, what it almost drove me to do, the honest emotions I went through and the steps I took to turn it all around.

If you're feeling lost, stuck, or uncertain after a major life event like this, this episode is for you. I’m guiding you through the mistakes to avoid, the steps to regain your power, and how to rewire your mindset for new opportunities.

Tune in to learn how to transform your setback into your greatest comeback.

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The words we use and the events we experience shape our identity—but only if we let them.

In this episode, we uncover the hidden power of words. For me the words sober, divorced, fired carried so much weight. I break down the hidden power and why they often carry unnecessary shame.

Learn how to rewrite your narrative, break free from limiting beliefs, and redefine your past experiences in a way that empowers you.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in outdated stories, this episode will show you how to take back control and step into your full power. #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery

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We don’t talk about this enough—especially as women. Anger is often seen as something to suppress, avoid, or be ashamed of. But what if anger isn’t the enemy? What if it’s actually energy—a force that, when harnessed, can lead to clarity, strength, and evolution?

In this episode, I talk about the truth about anger:
✔️ Why suppressing anger leads to burnout, resentment, and self-sabotage
✔️ How to shift from reaction to empowerment
✔️ Two powerful practices to safely release and alchemize anger (Rage on the Page + Somatic Breathwork)
✔️ The generational impact of unprocessed emotions—and how we can break the cycle

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your emotions, struggled with hidden resentment, or wondered how to express yourself without guilt—this episode is for you.

Drop a comment: What’s one way you’ve learned to process big emotions? Let’s talk.

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Feeling stuck in stress, overwhelm, or the same frustrating cycles—whether in your career, relationships, or self-growth? In this episode I'm letting you in on the hidden patterns that kept me stuck, what it took to get out of it, and how you can do the same.

You'll walk away with:
✅ A deeper understanding of how stress shapes your thoughts, decisions, and relationships.
✅ The truth about why surface-level fixes (like productivity hacks and morning routines) don’t create real change.
✅ Three transformative tools—breathwork, deep self-reflection, and mentorship—that rewire your stress response and help you unlock your full potential.
✅ A wake-up call to stop waiting for “the right time” and start choosing a life that actually feels good.

If you’ve been feeling exhausted, disconnected, or stuck in a cycle of burnout and self-doubt, this episode will give you the clarity and inspiration you need to step into the version of yourself that’s been waiting on the other side.

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You’ve probably heard of the Let Them Theory—it’s all over social media. If someone doesn’t choose you, let them. If they don’t respect your boundaries, let them. If they don’t prioritize you, let them.

Sounds simple, right? But when it’s actually happening in real life, it’s hard. That tightness in your chest, the urge to convince, to fix, to hold on—it’s real. So why is it so difficult to embody this theory, and more importantly, how do we bridge the gap between knowing it and living it?

In this episode, we’re diving deep into:
~ What the Let Them Theory really means (beyond the surface level).
~ Why it’s so freeing—but also so painful to practice.
~ The hidden fear that keeps you gripping instead of letting go.
~ How to shift from external validation to radical self-trust.
~ 3 actionable steps to actually live the Let Them mindset in your everyday life.

This isn’t just another “let it go” pep talk—this is about rewiring how you approach relationships, self-worth, and personal power.

If this episode resonates, hit subscribe and share it with someone who needs to hear it.

DM me on Instagram (@thedeliberateone) and tell me what hit the hardest!

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What does it really take to build a life filled with love, purpose, and success? In this episode, I sit down with one of the most interesting men I know—full-time musician, one-man band, and modern-day troubadour, Kevin Foster… who also happens to be my partner.

We explore the mindset, serendipity, and personal growth required to attract the right opportunities—whether in love, business, or life.

• How Kevin made the leap into becoming a full-time musician and what it takes to go all in on your passion
• The unexpected (and wild) way we met, and how self-love and energetic alignment played a huge role in attracting the right relationship
• The power of manifestation and correspondence—why the love you want starts with how you show up for yourself
• The journey of building our dream home from the ground up, with a beautiful connection to a song called One Acre of Land
• How Kevin has helped me grow my business—and why real transformation only happens when you’re ready to take action
• The mindset shifts that create more opportunities in life, career, and love
• How he supported me in my health journey, plus small but powerful changes that made a difference
• Plenty of laughs, real talk, and takeaways for anyone looking to create a life they truly love

If you’ve ever wondered how to attract the right relationship, take the leap into your dream career, or open yourself up to new opportunities, this episode is for you.

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Maybe grab your tissues before listening.

What if the hardest moments of your life were actually guiding you toward your greatest transformation? In this episode, I share how facing loss forced me to see life differently—and how it ultimately became the catalyst for deep personal growth. If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or like you’re being called to something bigger, this is for you.

Let’s talk about grief, growth, and the unexpected lessons that shape us.

If this resonates, hit subscribe & let’s walk this journey together.

#PersonalGrowth #Transformation #HealingJourney

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In this Episode:
Ever walked into a room and felt like you didn’t belong? Or worse—avoided going in altogether? Years ago, I stood outside a networking event, paralyzed by anxiety, convinced I wasn’t good enough. Instead of stepping in, I walked away.

Fast forward to today, and I can walk into ANY room—any event, any situation—with confidence and ease. What changed?

In this episode, I’ll break down:
✅ Why we feel imposter syndrome (and how to stop it)
✅ The connection between anxiety, self-doubt, and avoidance
✅ How to shift from overwhelm to full self-trust
✅ Practical steps to step into any space with confidence

If you’ve ever felt small, uncertain, or held back by fear, this episode will give you the mindset shifts and tools to walk into any room—and own it.

Tune in now and start showing up as the most powerful version of YOU.

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