The Resilient Heart Podcast

By: Gabi Garland
  • Summary

  • One thing each of us can not avoid is a lifetime full of heartache. While the world we live in has taught us to prepare for unforeseen events, they’ve done little in teaching us how to cope. They also don’t tell you this…….Adversity is where the true YOU emerges if you let it. Whether it is the beginning of the end or you choose to find the silver lining, it’s ALL up to you. This podcast is about owning our ability to be resilient as it is our super power. The way we choose to persevere is our opportunity to not be reduced by our circumstance. That’s been my entire life and probably most of yours! Welcome To The Resilient Heart Podcast. This podcast is for powerful women just like you that don’t deserve to deal with this alone! Each week we’re going to uncover how each of us have the unique ability to maintain our core integrity and strength in the face of dramatic circumstance. I am her, and so are you!
    2020
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Episodes
  • The Neurodiversity Playbook: Dr. Matthew Zakreski’s Parenting Strategies for Neurodivergent Children
    Nov 7 2024

    Parenting neurodivergent children requires a unique approach that embraces their individual strengths, challenges, and perspectives. Neurodivergence encompasses a range of neurological differences, including autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and other conditions that affect how a person's brain processes information and interacts with the world. As a parent, understanding and supporting your neurodivergent child's specific needs is crucial for their overall development and well-being.

    In this episode, I am joined by Dr. Matthew "Dr. Matt" Zakreski, a clinical psychologist and expert in neurodiversity. Dr. Matthew Zakreski is a renowned speaker and the co-founder of The Neurodiversity Collective. He has dedicated his career to supporting neurodivergent individuals across all walks of life, from schools to workplaces. Dr. Matt brings a wealth of knowledge and practical strategies for parenting neurodivergent children, his approach, as outlined in his book "The Neurodiversity Playbook," emphasizes embracing each child's unique strengths and perspectives while providing tailored support for their challenges. Dr. Matt shares powerful insights on early intervention, common misconceptions about neurodivergent children, and effective ways to nurture their abilities. From identifying initial signs to creating supportive environments, Dr. Matt offers valuable tools for parents to help their children thrive in various settings. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of neurodiversity and learn how to empower your neurodivergent child to reach their full potential.

    Timestamps

    [03:20] About Dr. Matthew Zakreski

    [05:37] How Dr. Matt got into clinical psychology

    [07:05] Dr. Matt’s book: Neurodiversity Playbook

    [09:50] Steps to take when your child is neurodivergent

    [12:59] Things parents naturally get wrong about autistic children

    [16:34] Ways parents can strengthen their neurodivergent children

    [20:09] Places and activities that are more impactful in helping neurodivergent children

    [28:16] Tools to help parents talk about their autistic children

    [32:15] The most exciting part about Dr. Matt’s job

    [34:02] Dr. Matt’s final remarks about the work

    Notable Quotes
    • “When you do life right, you end up doing intentional work.” - Gabi Garland [06:42]
    • “You cannot really do something until you are ready to do it.” - Dr. Matthew Zakreski [07:37]
    • “It’s never too easy to start working at something because the sooner we start, the better it tends to go.” - Dr. Matthew Zakreski [12:18]
    • “People will choose things that make them feel best.” - Dr. Matthew Zakreski [17:01]
    • “I don’t think we ever grow if we don’t get challenged.” - Gabi Garland [23:15]
    • “It is always better to know that you are a zebra, not a weird horse.” - Dr. Matthew Zakreski [28:27]

    Resources Mentioned

    The book Neurodiversity Playbook by Dr. Matthew Zakreski: https://www.amazon.com/Neurodiversity-Playbook-Neurodivergent-People-Neurotypical/dp/195336036X

    Connect The Guest: Dr. Matthew Zakreski

    Website: https://www.drmattzakreski.com/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drmattzakreski/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmattzakreski/

    Connect with me: Gabi Garland

    Website: http://www.gabigarland.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabi.garland/

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    38 mins
  • Parenting the Child, Not the Autism: Nancy’s Holistic Approach to Raising an Autistic Child
    Oct 17 2024
    Parenting a child with autism requires a holistic approach that focuses on nurturing the whole child rather than solely addressing the autism diagnosis. This comprehensive strategy recognizes that each autistic child is unique with their own strengths, challenges, and potential. By adopting a holistic perspective, parents can create an environment that supports their child's overall development, including physical, emotional, and social well-being. This approach emphasizes the importance of understanding the child's specific needs, interests, and communication style rather than trying to "fix" or change their autism. Parents are encouraged to celebrate their child's unique qualities while providing tailored support for areas of difficulty. In this episode, I am joined by Nancy Masannat, who offers a refreshing and holistic perspective that emphasizes nurturing the child as a whole, rather than focusing solely on their autism diagnosis. As a certified Life Coach specializing in supporting parents and caregivers of autistic children, Nancy advocates for an approach that celebrates each child's unique qualities while providing tailored support for areas of difficulty. This episode delves into Nancy's personal journey as a mother of an autistic child, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and invaluable lessons learned along the way. From navigating the diagnosis process to finding joy in parenting, Nancy shares insights on mindset training, building better relationships, and designing effective self-care plans, all aimed at helping parents reclaim their lives and find more joy in their parenting journey. Tune in to gain insights on what autism looks like and how to effectively support, advocate for, and empower children with autism. Timestamps [03:10] About Nancy Masannat [04:27] What the diagnosis process looked like for Nancy’s son [10:41] How mums can include and create capacity for “normal kids.” [13:00] What mums with autistic children need to know about their own self [16:00] Conversations Nancy had with her daughter about his son [18:59] Things that were a griefing process for Nancy as a mum with an autistic child [24:08] Processing the grief of the dreams you have for your autistic kid [27:10] Lessons Nancy learned from being a big advocate for her autistic son [31:56] Steps new mums can take to help their autistic children [38:18] Finding joy for yourself [44:50] How to find an understanding community [48:23] About Nancy’s type of work [50:16] Nancy’s final remarks to mums with autistic children Notable Quotes “If your kid asks a question, you need to answer the question in a way that they can understand it.”“The grieving process is an ongoing thing.”“Sometimes you have to take the wins that you have and celebrate them big, maybe not for them, but for you.”“.Our hopes and dreams don’t typically manifest in our kids no matter what.”“Do your best until you know different and then do your best with that information, don’t beat yourself up for what you don’t know.”“Lean into your intuition when something is not right.”“It’s okay to take care of yourself and make time for yourself.”“Just getting to share your story sometimes makes a huge difference when you get to talk to somebody.”“.If you are an autism parent, you have to remember to parent your kid as a kid and not parent the autism.” Resources Mentioned: Welcome to Holland Story By Emily Perl Kingsley: https://www.emilyperlkingsley.com/welcome-to-holland Connect With Nancy Masannat: Website: https://simplejoydesigns.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/simplejoydesigns/ Facebook: https://web.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100028875413008 X (Twitter): https://x.com/designs_joy Connect with me: Gabi Garland Website: http://www.gabigarland.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabi.garland/
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    59 mins
  • Navigating Autism in This Neurodivergent World - Micheael Villines’ Insights
    Oct 10 2024
    Navigating autism in today's neurodivergent world involves understanding the unique experiences and challenges faced by individuals on the autism spectrum. As society increasingly recognizes the value of neurodiversity, it becomes essential to foster environments that not only support but also celebrate these differences. This journey requires a multifaceted approach that includes advocating for inclusive policies, promoting awareness and acceptance, and creating supportive communities that empower autistic individuals to thrive. By shifting perspectives from viewing autism as a deficit to recognizing it as a distinct way of being, we can cultivate a culture that values diverse neurotypes and enhances the quality of life for all, ultimately leading to a more equitable society. In this episode, I am joined by Michael Villines, The Autoimmune Coach. His mission is to help people with multiple Sclerosis have the confidence to live. Michael delves into things he wished he had growing up feeling different, alcohol as a coping mechanism and advice to get started on the life you want to live. He also sheds more light on the books that helped him become who he was, the journey of building your own business, and things that made him feel less underrepresented. This guide aims to illuminate what autism looks like, providing insights on how to effectively support, advocate for, and empower children with autism. By fostering environments that celebrate neurodiversity, we can promote awareness and acceptance while emphasizing that we are all in this together. This journey encourages us to shift our perspectives from viewing autism as a deficit to recognizing it as a distinct way of being, ultimately enhancing the quality of life for all and cultivating a more equitable society where every individual is seen and valued. Tune in to learn more about how to support people living with autism and other related syndromes in this neurodivergent world. Timestamps [03:37] About Michael Villines [06:38] What Michael felt different growing up with autism [09:24] Things Michael wished he had growing up feeling different [16:12] Shedding people and things that aren’t healthy [23:15] Alcohol as a coping mechanism [28:10] Advice to get started on the life you want to live [33:20] Books that helped Michael to become who he was [36:46] Things that made Michael feel less underrepresented [41:27] The journey of building your own business [45:09] Michael’s final remarks Notable Quotes “The world is not as kind as it needs to be.”“The thing that kids don’t realize is, it goes a long way just to be nice to people.”“Love isn’t what you say but what you do.”“Get comfortable with yourself and really work on yourself.”“Our brains work in different ways, but it doesn’t mean that we are not still valuable or there aren't gifts that we have.”“Learn to learn about each person and take each person individually, don’t put people in boxes.” Resources Mentioned: The Book; Walking with God through Pain and Suffering - Timothy Keller: https://www.amazon.com/Walking-God-through-Pain-Suffering/dp/1594634408 Connect With Michael Villines: Website: https://www.lifewave.com/theautoimmunecoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaeljvillines/?ref=axnnroyd&hl=am-et Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/michael.villines/?locale=af_ZA LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-villines-36160b105/ Connect with me: Gabi Garland Website: http://www.gabigarland.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabi.garland/
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    49 mins

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