Parenting neurodivergent children requires a unique approach that embraces their individual strengths, challenges, and perspectives. Neurodivergence encompasses a range of neurological differences, including autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and other conditions that affect how a person's brain processes information and interacts with the world. As a parent, understanding and supporting your neurodivergent child's specific needs is crucial for their overall development and well-being.

In this episode, I am joined by Dr. Matthew "Dr. Matt" Zakreski, a clinical psychologist and expert in neurodiversity. Dr. Matthew Zakreski is a renowned speaker and the co-founder of The Neurodiversity Collective. He has dedicated his career to supporting neurodivergent individuals across all walks of life, from schools to workplaces. Dr. Matt brings a wealth of knowledge and practical strategies for parenting neurodivergent children, his approach, as outlined in his book "The Neurodiversity Playbook," emphasizes embracing each child's unique strengths and perspectives while providing tailored support for their challenges. Dr. Matt shares powerful insights on early intervention, common misconceptions about neurodivergent children, and effective ways to nurture their abilities. From identifying initial signs to creating supportive environments, Dr. Matt offers valuable tools for parents to help their children thrive in various settings. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of neurodiversity and learn how to empower your neurodivergent child to reach their full potential.

Timestamps

[03:20] About Dr. Matthew Zakreski

[05:37] How Dr. Matt got into clinical psychology

[07:05] Dr. Matt’s book: Neurodiversity Playbook

[09:50] Steps to take when your child is neurodivergent

[12:59] Things parents naturally get wrong about autistic children

[16:34] Ways parents can strengthen their neurodivergent children

[20:09] Places and activities that are more impactful in helping neurodivergent children

[28:16] Tools to help parents talk about their autistic children

[32:15] The most exciting part about Dr. Matt’s job

[34:02] Dr. Matt’s final remarks about the work

• “When you do life right, you end up doing intentional work.” - Gabi Garland [06:42]
• “You cannot really do something until you are ready to do it.” - Dr. Matthew Zakreski [07:37]
• “It’s never too easy to start working at something because the sooner we start, the better it tends to go.” - Dr. Matthew Zakreski [12:18]
• “People will choose things that make them feel best.” - Dr. Matthew Zakreski [17:01]
• “I don’t think we ever grow if we don’t get challenged.” - Gabi Garland [23:15]
• “It is always better to know that you are a zebra, not a weird horse.” - Dr. Matthew Zakreski [28:27]

The book Neurodiversity Playbook by Dr. Matthew Zakreski: https://www.amazon.com/Neurodiversity-Playbook-Neurodivergent-People-Neurotypical/dp/195336036X

Website: https://www.drmattzakreski.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drmattzakreski/

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Domestic violence is a pervasive and often hidden issue that affects millions. Recognizing the early signs of an abuser can be crucial for protecting yourself and breaking free from a dangerous situations. Many survivors of domestic violence report overlooking or rationalizing away subtle red flags in the early stages of their relationships. By understanding and identifying these early warning signs, you can be empowered to recognize potentially abusive behaviors and seek help before situations escalate.

In this episode, I share my personal story of domestic violence, exploring a series of pivotal moments that shed light on the complex dynamics of abusive relationships. From my initial move to Florida with my ex to the gradual loss of my personal freedom and the first time he physically abused me. My story serves as a reminder of how abusers can manipulate and control their partners. I highlight how my abuser isolated me, controlled our finances, and undermined my success and independence. By sharing these experiences, my goal is to empower other women to identify red flags in their own relationships and seek help before the situation escalates. Tune in to learn about my journey through years of abuse, my path to healing, and how I found love and joy on the other side of this traumatic experience.

Timestamps

[00:00] Life with my ex in Florida

[04:50] The false sense of security masked with humor, fun, and what I naively thought was love

[06:45] Justifying where I was going every time I had to leave the house

[07:55] Moving from Florida to Georgia

[09:46] Financial abuse and emotional belittling due to my promotions at work.

[11:48] The first incident of physical abuse and what I did next.

[15:58] Being forced to quit my job because of my friend at work

[17:16] The abuse from him continued, in big and small ways.

[18:14] Realizing I was pregnant

[18:50] Anger management classes and therapy sessions for healing

[20:17] Moving back to Florida because of my pregnancy. Further isolation as I’d built a little bit of a support system in Georgia and he couldn’t allow that.

[21:22] He wouldn’t cover my pregnancy health care bills and insurance

[21:43] How I ended up being a prisoner again in my house

[23:11] I had to prepare to take care of my daughter and myself

[26:06] Ways they pull you away from environments where you have resources

• “Don’t put everything that you have in the hands of another person.”
• “These types of people will start questioning your success because your success starts threatening their ego.”
• “I had no access to any of our money or anything, and he liked it that way.”

Website: http://www.gabigarland.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabi.garland/

Recognizing the signs of an abusive relationship can be challenging, especially when the abuse is subtle or disguised as love and concern. Abusive behavior often starts gradually, with seemingly minor incidents that escalate over time, making it difficult for victims to identify the pattern. Understanding these signs is crucial for potential victims and friends, family members, and professionals who can offer support and intervention.

In this episode, I share a series of pivotal moments, including quitting my job to move in with an abuser and the realization that things were not as they seemed; we gain insight into the complex dynamics of abusive relationships. This narration serves as a stark reminder that abusers often prey on those who are vulnerable or lacking in self-esteem. However, not always and in Gabi's story she was confident, successful and led a very happy life. Her goal is to highlight the importance of recognizing the warning signs early on. By sharing this story, The goal is to empower other women to identify red flags in their relationships and seek help before it's too late. Tune in to learn more about the story of my years spent with an abuser and how 20 years later I've healed so much of the woman I was back then and have found love and joy on the other side of abuse.

[02:10] Domestic Violence & reflection after watching #itendswithus

[05:17] My ex's death

[07:31] How I met him

[13:16] When the isolation started - key signs early on abusers do to isolate you

[16:10] When the unraveling of my self esteem and worthiness began

[19:52] The first trip to meet him

[25:20] Quitting my job to move across the country

• “I wish that I had somebody to tell me this is crazy back then.”
• “The things that are said or the ways that we show up in the world are based upon the narrative that we have carried from somebody else’s shitty words.”
• “Sometimes, you don’t know or believe, you have the ability to start a new life.”
• “We have the ability to choose.”
• “Money and power go hand in hand, especially with men that are abusive and manipulative.”

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In this episode, I am joined by Romel, a proud Mumpreneur, Intuitive Mindset Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Podcaster and Author on a mission to help individuals who struggle with self-identity rediscover who they are on a soul level by breaking the unhealthy cycles of generational patterns and expectations. Having undergone her massive transformation after hitting rock bottom in 2018, Romel now uses her expertise and experience to guide her clients through their own Self-Discovery journey. She is passionate about creating healthy spaces and the resources you may need to ‘master the art’ of harnessing your natural gift of intuition so you feel more capable and confident about stepping into your main character's energy, managing the ebbs and flows of life, and unleashing your authentic self (unapologetically) into this world.

Today, Romel shares her journey of healing from domestic abuse, losing her father, and rediscovering her true self. We discuss the importance of self-love, forgiveness, and breaking generational cycles. She also provides insights on moving forward and creating a life you love, even after experiencing trauma.

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[01:31] Romel's background and work as an intuitive mindset coach

[01:57] The importance of the intersection between business and personal well-being

[02:36] Benefits of recognizing challenges are not unique to oneself

[04:05] Rediscovering lost passions and true identity

[06:13] Romel's journey of healing

[08:05] Leaving a toxic relationship and the healing process

[11:20] Romel's advice for someone freshly out of an abusive relationship

[15:17] How emotional abuse manifests in a relationship

[16:09] Romel's most significant lesson from transitioning out of an abusive relationship

[18:26] The importance of embracing our humanity

[21:09] The significance of generational cycle breakers

[34:05] The empowering aspect of decision-making in the healing journey

• It doesn't matter what you've been through, big or small, or whatever you felt from that. You, um, it's valid 'cause you've been through it, and it's what you feel, and it's not your story. It's not your story; it's just a chapter.
• Whatever you need to rewire for yourself, keep repeating it, and it will become second nature. It is just, like I said, taking the baby steps. It all comes together once you do all the smaller stuff.
• It will get better as long as you want it to. Essentially, what you feel on the inside will always reflect on the outside.
• As hard as it might be, once you take that first step, it gets a little bit easier, and you just keep taking the steps until it's just a walk in the park.

Romel Peters Coaching

Intuitive Mindset Coach & Mentor

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Gabi Garland

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In a world often fixated on family and children, single childfree women may wonder about their place and purpose. But fret not, for your path to fulfillment lies in embracing your unique journey. Your divine purpose isn't bound by societal norms or expectations; it's about discovering what truly ignites your soul. Dive into your passions, explore new interests, and seize every opportunity that speaks to your heart.

In this episode, I am joined by Sonjia “Lioness” Mackey, divine purpose and life coach who targets single childfree women, to talk about how single women can discover their divine purpose, step into their unique identity, and create a life of more joy and fulfillment. She shares her motivation behind helping single women discover their purpose, steps for creating a happy life for the single woman, and how it feels to find your purpose as a single woman. She also discusses how married women can build a safe environment for single women friends. Tune in to learn more about this and other exciting topics!

Timestamps

[04:10] Sonjia Mackey’s background information

[04:46] The motivation behind helping single women discover their purpose and live a joyful life

[07:36] Sonjia’s advice to women who are being pressured to do things they don’t want to do

[10:40] Steps for creating a happy life for the single woman

[13:11] The shift in Sonjia’s life that made the difference

[16:49] How it feels to find your purpose as a single woman and then find a partner

[19:45] How the married women can build a safe environment for single women's friends

[25:00] Sonjia’s advice for women who don’t want kids

[27:53] The self-clarity questions that will help you figure out what you want in life

[35:28] How women can make themselves the focus in the new year

[38:42] The things that single women should be mindful of on their journey to a more fulfilling life

[44:00] Sonjia’s final thoughts

• “We all have the drive to do something different, especially single women, and we need to give life to them, let them rise to the surface and explore them because they are there for a reason, and they are meant to create a life that is going to make us happy.”
• “Stop waiting for other people for the things you want in life.”
• “When you put the effort to live your best single life, it positions you to live your best-partnered life.”
• “Closure is a gift of self-love that you give to yourself.”

The book: Top Five Regrets of the Dying

Email: Sonjia@StillWorthyWomen.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sonjia.mackey/

Website: http://www.gabigarland.com/

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