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In today’s episode, we delve into the real reasons behind self-sabotage and how to break free from its grip. Featuring the inspiring story of a veteran who turned trauma into triumph, we reveal how embracing your narrative can unlock true freedom and personal growth. With practical tips and compassionate advice, this conversation empowers you to reclaim your voice and step boldly into your story. Don’t miss this transformative discussion on courage, healing, and growth.

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#178 | The Best Thing to Help You Through Hard Times - https://apple.co/4iNRlNN
#308 | What Stories Are Your Inner Critic Writing? - https://apple.co/4095fCV

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(2:51) Self-sabotage and why it holds us back(6:02) The transformative power of sharing your story
(9:08) How narratives shape our reality
(12:35) Breaking free from emotional reasoning
(15:58) Alex shares his experience and incredible progress under Emilia's and Bianca's coaching.
(19:09) The power of letting go of resentment
(23:47) Choosing safe people to share your story with
(26:30) Rewriting your narrative for personal growth
(27:43) Episode suggestions and outro

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Are the emotionally immature people in your life holding you back? We know how tough it can be to care about someone while feeling drained by their behavior. In today’s episode, we dive into a heartfelt conversation about protecting your energy, prioritizing your well-being, and setting boundaries without cutting ties altogether. Through real-life stories and practical advice, we’ll help you spot emotional immaturity, reclaim control, and nurture healthier relationships. Whether navigating your growth or dealing with others’ immaturity, this episode offers a safe, supportive space to learn and thrive.

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#277 | Motivation Monday: 3 Ways to Be Heard - https://apple.co/406O4C3
#331 | Are You Emotionally Immature? - https://apple.co/41PxF63

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(2:24) Emotional maturity
(5:02) How do you see maturity?
(9:31) Generational trauma and emotional growth
(14:30) Recognizing emotional immaturity and boundaries
(20:11) Core beliefs that fuel emotional immaturity
(27:36) Prioritizing emotional health
(29:57) Limiting emotional dependency
(33:08) Setting effective boundaries with compassion
(36:51) Episode suggestions and outro

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In this heartfelt episode, we confront the emotional struggles many carry but rarely voice. Inspired by a powerful TikTok post and deeply personal stories, we challenge the notion that sadness equals weakness, revealing it as a profound sign of what truly matters. Through honest reflections on depression, we explore the strength in embracing emotions, breaking free from societal stigmas, and finding purpose even in tough times. Together, we share practical insights, relatable examples, and compassionate advice to help you partner with your feelings and build a purposeful life.

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#278 | Do You Know What Happened to You? - https://apple.co/4gEUiya
#322 | Why It’s Scary to Have Hope - https://apple.co/49ED8P8

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Show notes:
(2:27) TikTok post reveals deep societal sadness
(6:54) Understanding and overcoming mental health challenges
(11:08) Embracing and partnering with emotions
(16:07) Validating feelings without judgment
(18:21) Effective tools for partnering with emotions
(25:01) Episode suggestions and outro

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How do you know if intuition or fear is holding you back? In this episode, Bianca and I discuss personal breakthroughs and share heartfelt advice to help you trust yourself again. Discover the calm clarity of intuition, learn to quiet the loud urgency of fear, and confidently face tough decisions. Whether you’re navigating major life choices or rebuilding trust in yourself, this conversation offers actionable steps toward self-awareness and growth. Don’t let fear stand in the way of your best self—start your journey today.

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#222 | What Are Your Parts, and Why Do They Matter? - https://apple.co/4gArKWA
#296 | How to Be More In Control of Your Feelings - https://apple.co/3VF8MpL

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Show notes:
(2:42) Understanding fear Vs. Intuition
(5:25) Challenging beliefs about vulnerability
(8:04) Recognizing fear-driven patterns in relationships
(11:24) Decision to return to therapy
(16:28) Differentiating past trauma responses from current reality
(18:26) Relearning to trust yourself and your intuition
(20:17) Episode suggestions and outro

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In today’s episode, we explore the dynamics of relationships, exploring why effort often fades after the ‘honeymoon’ phase. We also discover the impact of personal autonomy on strengthening connections and how “comfort” might be holding you back from true intimacy. Whether single or partnered, this conversation will inspire you to rethink how you approach connection and growth.

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#294 | How to Stop Accepting Breadcrumbs from Others - https://bit.ly/3zZhCXp
#322 | Why It’s Scary to Have Hope - https://apple.co/3zGNIrk

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(1:33) Why does effort fade after attainment
(7:42) How comfortable should you get with your partner
(10:31) Putting conscious effort during the infatuation stage
(14:49) How do people go to giving up and eventually not put effort into the relationship
(18:14) How do people in a relationship start their autonomy and sense of self
(24:02) Desires come from autonomy
(27:56) Episode suggestions and outro

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Do family gatherings feel more like battlefields than celebrations? While holidays can bring joy, they often stir up conflicts over personal choices, politics, or those infamous unsolicited comments. In this episode, Bianca and I dive into why these tensions arise and how to navigate them confidently. We introduce the “Deflect-Reflect-Inspect” method—our go-to strategy for handling tough conversations, setting boundaries, and maintaining harmony without losing yourself. Join us as we tackle holiday stress and empower you to take charge of your experience.

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#280 | How To Have Better Fights - https://apple.co/49Wnz3O

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(1:54) How do we get through the holidays
(3:35) Avoid or confront
(7:42) Personal choices
(14:25) Deflective and reflective response
(17:56) Family Dysfunction
(20:56) Inspective response
(25:30) DARVO effect
(32:46) Episode suggestions and outro

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Guilt and regret, though intertwined, possess distinct differences. In today’s episode, Bianca and I dive into the nuances of emotional responses, exploring regret’s role beyond guilt. We explored whether regret can exist independently of guilt, examining personal choices and their repercussions. Our conversation culminated in a critical realization: surrounding yourself with empowering individuals can be life’s most impactful decision. Tune in on this enlightening journey, navigating the complexities of regret and guilt to unlock your full potential.

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#218 | Are You In Control, or Is Your Past? - https://apple.co/3Qkpw3t
#345 | How To Not Be Guilt-Tripped - https://apple.co/4gg2AMX

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(2:24) Guilt and regret
(7:56) Functions for our well being
(14:15) Can you have regret without guilt
(22:18) Do you regret the past choices that you made?
(27:21) Who do you surround yourself with?
(29:16) Episode suggestions and outro

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In this episode, we discover the connection between fear of learning, past experiences, and self-doubt. Bianca opens up about a vulnerable moment with pivot tables that exposed limiting beliefs holding her back. At the same time, I share straightforward tools to help build confidence and foster an empowering learning environment. Together, we unpack practical tips for embracing a growth mindset, creating safe spaces for learning, and finding courage in moments of discomfort. This conversation is for you if you’re ready to conquer self-doubt and unlock your full potential!

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#341 | Are You Wearing Your Trauma Like a Badge of Honor? - https://apple.co/4fVagnZ
#333 | Why You Don’t Trust Yourself to Make Decisions - https://apple.co/3OwEce0

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Show notes:
(2:22) Facing limiting beliefs in learning
(6:30) The critical role of growth mindset in personal evolution
(13:30) Fixed Vs. Growth mindset
(18:29) Why does your environment influence your openness to growth
(20:36) Matching energies
(23:41) Practical tips for overcoming fear of being “found out.”
(28:22) Embracing honesty to unlock opportunities for real growth
(30:56) Episode suggestions and outro

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